What is it like to have a highly educated girlfriend?

Since ancient times, there have been people in China who have rejected this statement, and some people agree with it. I think this is especially important when it comes to falling in love or even getting married.

If the gap between two people is too big, there will be a big problem in terms of living standards, academic qualifications, education, and quality cultivation.

There are very few people who can come together in the end, and even if they do, the relationship will break down for various reasons.

For example, my ex-girlfriend is a graduate student at a 211 national key school, and I am just a non-mainstream major student in an ordinary undergraduate college. What caused us to separate? What is it like to have a highly educated girlfriend?

My ex-girlfriend and I were classmates in elementary school, her uncle's family was in our village, at first she was still an introverted, no assertive little girl, but slowly after dating me, she became cheerful, because I have been cheerful since I was a child, and I live heartless all day long.

When I was young, I naively met people and said that I wanted to marry her as a wife, and adults were so happy when they heard me say this. It's really silly to think about it now, I was still very young at that time. Later we were admitted to the same junior high school and then to the same high school.

Although we are not in the same class, we are still inseparable good friends, and she is very good at studying, so she often tutors me during the holidays. I went to high school and grew up slowly, so everyone began to have ideas, and I was no longer ignorant of junior high school.

After we started thinking about the two of us, we agreed to get married after college, and it was impossible to go to college, but we were going to stay in the same city, so that there would be no long-distance relationship. Soon we graduated from high school and went to college, and she was admitted to the ideal national key university to study electronics, while I only went to two colleges. Although she went to a good school, she didn't abandon me, and she went on to graduate school.

To say that there is such a highly educated girlfriend, most people must be very envious, but this is not the case. When I went to her house with her, there was a lot of relatives in her house, and they asked me which school I graduated from.

Where do you work? I was embarrassed to say the name of the school, but I saw that they all sighed, and directly said that this school is almost there, and there is still a gap with our children, you have to come on! When I heard these words, I felt very unhappy, is the disparity in academic qualifications so unwelcome?

In addition, my classmates and friends always say that I have such an excellent girlfriend, I got it by burning high incense, I have to treat others well, or they will stare at you with one kick. Oh my God, what are these things, it seems like I don't have any skills at all, as if I have to rely on her in the future.

Later, after going to work, there was a difference in the level of contact between them, she worked in a foreign company, and she was in contact with rich people all day long. I work in a public institution, and the people I come into contact with are all struggling to earn wages. So the contradictions and differences gradually increased, and finally we separated.

This is the painful and helpless experience brought to me by a highly educated girlfriend.

It doesn't matter if you have a high degree of education. As long as two people truly love each other. Then a girl with a high degree of education can also be your good daughter-in-law.

But you must love him more and be good to him, otherwise he has a high degree and has such good looks and ability, why should he marry you. You must have something better than him.

I think there's just two things you have to do. The first thing is to love her well, education does not represent everything. The second thing is to work hard to improve your academic qualifications so that you have more common language in life.

If your girlfriend has a higher education than you, then you can self-study and advance to a higher degree. If you really love her, then you two don't need to care about that.

Then you're going to be even better than him. When you fall in love with him, you know that he has a higher education than you. Now that you know, what are you still struggling with?

It's too late to tangle and it's already your girlfriend, you can break up with him and find someone with a lower education than you.

I don't think you need to care, because my girlfriend has a high education, and her ability is not necessarily strong, so don't feel inferior, you should face your future life with a positive attitude, and get along with your girlfriend.

It doesn't matter if you are more educated than you, you don't have to be afraid, as long as you are more capable than her in other aspects, so that the two of you will be equal.

My girlfriend has a higher education than you, I don't think this can explain anything, you can do a better job than him, because I think that many times the education can not prove anything, mainly depends on some applications in daily life.

I think we should still accept this reality and work hard in the future to try to shorten the gap with my girlfriend as much as possible.

Introduction: Is it true that the higher the education of a girl, the more difficult it is to find a boyfriend? The higher the education of a girl, the more proof of their own excellent existence, so it is not that the higher the education, the more difficult it is to find a boyfriend, but the higher the education, the fewer excellent people are.

Every girl should have a little more affirmation of herself, rather than feeling negative because no one is chasing her. Many people will feel that it is not themselves because of why there are no friends of the opposite sex to chase them, and they are not doing well, which is actually a wrong perception. Generally, only the more outstanding talents, there will be no random people, who dare to pursue themselves, also because the high place is unbearable.

1. Strive to be excellentIt is not a mistake to remember that it is always a mistake to work hard to be excellent, and the higher my education, the better the girl, the better she is, and she is doing very well in her job and career, so it is not that it is more difficult to find a boyfriend, and the higher the education, the better it is for a girl to find a boyfriend. Because the more excellent the boy, the more likely he is to have a higher education, which means that the boy has no potential to choose, and the more educated the girl, the more the right to choose. <>

Second, to affirm yourself, girls must learn to affirm themselves, and they should not deny themselves because of some small things in life or their own disapproval, which is not correct. And the higher the education of a girl, the more excellent the girl is in education, and she can continue to persevere, which is also very rare. Girls who are getting taller and taller should also be more confident, not only in terms of academic qualifications, but also in terms of academic qualifications, to find more sense of accomplishment in life, to meet their own needs is the most important thing.

3. Excellent peopleEveryone should recognize that excellent people are a minority in this world. And the higher the education, the more difficult it is for girls, and finding a boyfriend may be a wrong perception, because at this time, there will be no worse people to chase you casually. There will only be better people who will take the initiative to chase you, which is a relatively normal phenomenon, so the more excellent girls should be more confident and full of sunshine in life.

I think so, because the higher the education level of the girl, the less the male student has the higher education, and the less optionality there is, and if the male student has a lower educational background than the female student, the male student will feel inferior, so he will choose not to be with the girl. Of course, the higher the education of a girl, the better the boyfriend she can find.

It's definitely not like this, because after a girl's education is high, the probability of finding an excellent boyfriend will be particularly high, as long as the girl is particularly good, she will definitely find an excellent boyfriend, and it will be easy to find, so it is not particularly difficult.

Generally, girls with higher education have certain requirements for their boyfriends, so it is difficult to find them. It's more about lowering your own requirements, so that you have the opportunity to find a boy who truly loves you.

The higher the education, the more difficult it is to find this boyfriend, because a person's education is definitely very important, but in the end, it depends on whether the relationship between the two people is compatible or not.

It is not possible to generalize. Because the higher the education level of a girl, the better she will be. It is easy for such a person to find a boyfriend who suits him.

It's not that the higher the education of a girl, the more difficult it is to find a boyfriend, but because the higher the education of a girl, many boyfriends will have an inferiority complex.

No, it's hard to find a partner for anyone, because people nowadays rarely meet someone they like.

First of all, it's the environment. The more educated people are, the more time they spend studying, and the less likely they are to find a partner. Some people think that college is very relaxed, and they can't take a few classes a day.

This is actually a misconception, for those who actually study, college is more tiring than high school. It's true that you can't take a few classes a day, but did you know that a class can last three hours? And then there's the fact that they don't put their energy into it, and those who are highly educated are surrounded by people like that.

They mostly think about something related to their profession, and don't pay attention to the matter of finding a partner.

And then there's the question of vision. The higher the education, the higher the vision, and the higher the requirements for the other half. So a lot of people they don't look down on.

Of course, those ordinary people will not choose these highly educated people. Boys want to find girls who are weaker than themselves, and girls prefer romantic boys. And these are precisely those highly educated men and women who cannot be satisfied.

Because some boys can't accept that their girlfriends are better than themselves, and highly educated women have higher requirements for their other half, for many reasons, but as long as you want to find it, there will definitely be a partner.

1.Because of the high academic qualifications, the requirements are also high, at least in terms of academic qualifications, the requirements have been improved compared with before. 2.

Because people with high academic qualifications can match fewer people, and similarly, in terms of academic qualifications, others will also consider that the educational background of the object is not too different. 3.Because people with high academic qualifications mean that they are not young, such as normal master's and doctor's degrees, etc., from the perspective of age alone, in big cities, the general age tolerance is higher than that in small places.

So age, which is convenient to get stuck with a batch of potential "objects". 4.Personal reasons, not wanting to be in a relationship or having a character flaw.

I remember seeing a psychologist giving psychological counseling to some highly educated girls, and it was just like that: a man who graduated from a college is enough to be a husband and a boss. You can lower your requirements appropriately.

Having a wife with a high education and high income is not the key, the key is that women must know how to "show weakness", men do not necessarily have to be higher than women in terms of education and income, but men's vanity and sense of status must be realized in order to make them have a sense of superiority, obviously in addition to education, income, these ratios must be reflected by other aspects of life, which requires women's "weak" skills, and women who know how to "show weakness" are smart women.

Because the vision will be higher, but often very good boys are just that, and most of them are ordinary people.

Because highly educated girls have higher requirements for boys, and they are also more knowledgeable.

It needs to resonate with her life and work.

Because the vision of highly educated girls has become higher.

In fact, there is no standard answer to this question, because everyone's values and life experience are different, so I can only give my opinion from the perspective of autism and stupidity.

I think that education level is not the decisive factor in falling in love, but more important is whether both parties have common values and interests, and whether they can tolerate and understand each other. If a person is not highly educated, but has good moral character and ability to deal with the world, I will not reject falling in love with him.

For example, I have a friend whose boyfriend is only in junior high school, but he is hardworking, kind, and passionate about life and can do many amazing things. Although there is a bit of a gap in their education level, they are very happy together, and after a few years of getting along, their relationship is getting deeper and deeper, and I think this is because they can appreciate, understand and support each other.

In addition, I would like to say that a low level of education does not mean that a person has a low IQ or is not capable of succeeding. On the contrary, there are people who do not have a high level of education, but they have a strong desire to learn and are able to perform very well in work and life. Therefore, we should value a person's quality and potential, not just his level of education.

In short, I think that when falling in love, we should look at whether both parties have a real emotional foundation and an attitude of mutual respect, rather than simply looking at the level of education.