How can I be brave enough to be myself in front of others?

God, you're such a smart guy. It doesn't matter if you're a boy or a girl, you're smart. Because of the idea you have now, I didn't realize it until college.

You are good and will analyze your own shortcomings. You are very kind, and you are always afraid that you will hurt others. When I was in college, I always felt that my shortcomings were unforgivable, that others were more interesting than me, and that I always felt that I was va......inSo you see, we're all the same, we just know how to look at and dissect ourselves better.

Be confident. Isn't that one of your strengths that you feel like you have shortcomings? Everyone has a lot of shortcomings.

It's just that it's not easy for everyone to summarize a person's shortcomings, so it's not hateful to have shortcomings at all, just correct them. Be sure to discover your strengths. You may sometimes think that looking for merit is a hypocritical thing to add glory to yourself.

How so? How can you just focus on your shortcomings? Contain them and build on their strengths.

Living in this society, we need the attention of others, but others can never replace ourselves. You don't need to care too much about what others think, you don't need to care too much about their criticism or praise. You think, even though they praise you every day, but you are still you, even though they despise you, but you are still yourself.

You should never live for someone else. There are all kinds of people in the world, and if someone hates you, someone must like you. You just need to be yourself and don't be too greedy because the whole world likes you.

I think you may have made friends with others since you were a child, and you are a little afraid of communication, and you feel that you are commenting on yourself in every move of others. In fact, everyone is very kind by nature, as long as you take the initiative to communicate and insist on yourself, you will become a good person.

For vanity, everyone has it in their hearts. Many times, as long as we make good use of it, it will become a force for self-esteem, forging ahead, and so on.

If you're feeling a little timid when it comes to making friends, I suggest you buy some books on communication, Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature recommends reading it.

Be confident. Know how to praise yourself. Be yourself, don't please others.

Sometimes, being too obedient to others becomes a compromise, doesn't this encourage the pride of others, and it is contrary to your kind intentions! Come on, you are an empathetic and delicate child, as long as you have self-confidence, you will be strong! Come on!

You can let go of this, you are going to high school now, you should not be a child, you say that you like to highlight yourself in front of others, you can find what you are good at to think of others to show, if you are not good at it, you can learn from experience, you can do something that others dare not do, such as singing loudly, no matter whether it is good or not, even if others laugh at you, you must ignore him, you must let go, what is wrong with others, just point it out, and you must adhere to your own principles, of course, what you point out must be right.

And no matter what others say about you, do things that don't affect the bad, all of them will be deleted, if you don't delete it, your ** station will be more and more, and finally crash, or update yourself in the paragraph, don't do what you don't want to do, don't do it if you don't want to do it, as for you like to stand in the middle of a group of people, that's because you have low self-esteem, don't dare to highlight yourself, don't want others to point out your shortcomings, a person's dress, appearance is just the appearance, the key is the inside, you don't need to say this, you know, But here I still have to say, if you, empathetic, erudite, even if you are a beggar, you will be more respected by everyone than those rich people, try to contact others, learn more about other people's situations, no matter what kind of person, as long as you find a common topic, then you can have a conversation, let others know that you are a cheerful person, I will tell you a way to make others want to be friends with you as soon as you open up, that is to laugh, to laugh naturally, not reluctantly, no matter what you say, do things, Facing the feeling that no one can make others feel that you are very unhappy and difficult to approach!

In fact, I used to be an introverted person, since I left my hometown, I went to the field to learn technology with my relatives when I changed, because I was learning to repair household appliances at that time, I had to face a lot of new faces, I had to overcome my own defense, dare to speak, dare to flicker, slowly I couldn't take it back, I wanted to get close to him when I saw someone I didn't know, understand the situation and find the topic, and then became friends!

Let's take our time.

First of all, you must be confident, afraid that you can't solve the problem, think twice before doing things, as long as you feel that your views on others are just his personal opinions, the focus, care about others' views on yourself is not blindly to please others, you can't go around other people's concepts, score right and wrong, you have to make your own personality and attitude to life, if you do a good job, it is not that you care about other people's positions, but more that others will care about your position, in summary, it is to stick to your own life and social attitude, don't blindly obey others, If you care too much about others and follow other people's thinking, others will think that you are not assertive and incapable, and then underestimate you and ignore you.

You're inferior! I think you should be yourself first and foremost, and learn to integrate with others, that's right! Don't be afraid, your relatives will never be disappointed in you because of your willfulness, and it doesn't hurt to scold a few words at most; And if you are a friend, you won't!

Since it is a friend, it is normal to have different personalities, and it needs to be slowly integrated, if you blindly cater to others, you will lose yourself, maybe your friends will also be lost! As long as you think it's right, stick to it, unless you can prove wrong, it's nothing, it will definitely not affect the emotions between friends! The rest is your own inner trouble, and I don't want to answer them all!

In short, you have to understand that the self is the most important thing!

New classmates, when I was in high school, I was looking forward to making new friends, you just need to show your truest side, those who miss you can only prove that they don't understand you.

Actually, I feel that way too. When I was a child, I was very good, confident, and happy. She was beautiful and had good grades, but then something happened that made me lose myself and a lot of things hit me hard.

I was getting more and more unhappy and unconfident. Because it is a very important stage in the growth process of adolescence, it will also have an indelible impact on me later on. However, life goes on, either die or live wonderfully.

Not for others, for yourself to have no regrets, to be the best version of yourself. Tell yourself to be brave enough to challenge yourself. Give yourself a smile every day, you can work hard to make yourself a little achievement, achievement, and let your self-confidence increase little by little.

I think the most important thing is to make more friends, and the affirmation from friends also makes us more confident. It is also a kind of energy invisibly, because of the love of others, we can love ourselves more. That's it, in the future, we can discuss more about our moods and some perceptions of life, and we can also be friends, hehe. Good bye.

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With such a mentality, be brave and be yourself, only by learning to love yourself first, will you know how to love others.

The other is to put yourself down, don't think that what you do will be watched and evaluated by others, just do what you think is right.

Assertive!! Learn to affirm yourself, you are not sure of yourself, who still affirms you. That way you have friends close to you.

It's nothing to tell you to be a low-key person Let others think that you are a good person who is cold and warm-hearted, and think about it first when talking to your classmates.

Don't care too much about others.

As long as you have a clear conscience, just be yourself.

How is it exactly the same as me... But I'm an introvert now to college. I also hope that someone will help me.

Friends are groped by themselves, they are found by themselves, and what you need is not an ordinary friend, but someone who can understand you, care for you, and help you.