If you fall out of love, how can you not want a girlfriend? It s distressing.

Updated on healthy 2024-02-09
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can see that you are very sad, don't think about anything when you think about her, do something else decisively, force yourself to do it if you don't want to do it, and do it if you don't want to be tormented by thoughts.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Shift your attention, study hard and work hard. Let the woman who left you regret it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Go find something interesting to do Try not to be idle Slowly you will be relieved It's not terrible to fall out of love It's terrible that you've lost a heart to continue living.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Go watch the original version of "33 Days of Broken Love"** Try to experience the protagonist's mood of falling out of love Read it again after 33 days by yourself At that time, you will find that your mood and thoughts are different from the beginning The important thing is to know how to be positive and keep yourself busy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't think about her, but you can think about it, don't just think about the sweetness, think about what you've been through, and you'll find that you're relieved.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The best medicine for falling out of love is to fall in love again!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Erase her from your memory and let go of your mind.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Distraction, the opposite sex says it would be better to talk.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should re-establish your correct view of love, participate in more social activities, expand your circle of friends, relax appropriately, be confident, and believe that you can quickly come out of the last relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can't give up on yourself because of falling out of love, you should still believe in love, believe that you will still meet the person you are destined for, or cheer up and start a new life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Travel to the place you want to go for a few days, relax yourself, talk to your friends about it, release your heart, and slowly accept others.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is true that the loss of love is also a common social phenomenon for many young people in today's society, so it is possible that there will be some young people who are sincerely giving, because they have been hurt in this relationship, so they may choose to close their hearts, so that they are unwilling to let themselves continue to start the next relationship, in fact, this kind of thinking is completely wrong.

    So to a certain extent, we should not lose a kind of uncertainty about our future happiness, as long as we work hard to meet the new relationship, I believe that our spring will come soon, when you will find that everything you have experienced before will become your most valuable treasure, right?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Relationships may not be as beautiful and perfect as we think! Not every relationship can have results, after falling out of love, my heart hurts, and I don't want to fall in love! How to solve this situation when you have it?

    If you have invested a lot of emotion, time and energy in your last relationship, but in the end there is no good result! In this case, I must be extremely hurt in my heart, and I have helplessness and unwillingness in my heart. There may be a very short period of time when you don't want to fall in love, and after meeting someone worthy of your love, you will feel that love is beautiful and joyful!

    Look at it with rational thinking。In the face of the blow of falling out of love, different people have different reactions, everyone looks at the problem in different ways and angles, some people think that love is unreliable, but some people regard love as more important than their own lives! We should rationally judge whether the last relationship is worth it, judge whether our ex is worthy of our memories and nostalgia, and use rational thinking to correctly judge the passing of the last relationship.

    Try to divert your attention。Emotional things are not 100% sure of themselves, when you just fell out of love in that very painful time, you can choose to shift your attention, read more books, hang out with your friends more, and see more world and people, you will feel that there is really no need to be too entangled and sad, standing at a new starting point, you will think that the past pain has little impact on you!

    Be tolerant of each other and keep your eyes open。Too much entanglement with the ex is also a kind of harm to yourself, it is better to choose to be generous and tolerant of the other party, rather than harboring hatred and revenge, it is better to use a balanced mentality! Take a long-term view of yourself, look for the right person, someone who is really good to you, and someone who really loves yourself!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you want to eliminate this thought, you can expand your social circle, usually make more friends of the opposite sex, find their advantages from these friends of the opposite sex, and choose a suitable one for yourself to try to date, so that you can eliminate this idea of yourself, and you can start a new relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Go out to travel, change your mood, don't stay where you are and touch the scene, this will only make the other party more proud, you have to change the broken love into motivation, make yourself better, you can't look down on me now, I will make you unclimbable after turning around.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It can be said that by contacting some excellent people and working hard to improve yourself, you can eliminate this kind of thinking and make yourself believe in love again.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Maybe it's some good people who make up the army, try to move forward themselves, or maybe they get rid of such trying ideas and trust in love again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's actually normal to not want to fall in love because of broken love! After all, it is difficult to devote yourself to a relationship after being hurt once, because you are afraid that you will be hurt again. If you don't want to fall in love at this time, you don't need to force yourself to fall in love.

    After all, there are many beautiful things in our lives, and it's not just about love. Sometimes friendship can also give us psychological comfort, even more than lovers. Sometimes even if it's my boyfriend, I don't think he can help me, and I have a lot of friends around me.

    So when you fall in love, you really don't neglect your friends because of love, otherwise you will definitely regret it after breaking up.

    If you don't want to fall in love after a breakup, then find yourself something else to do, you can learn more skills, make yourself better, so that you can also meet a better person than your ex with some skills. I believe that the more excellent you must deserve a better one to have, and this better one will not let you be hurt, you and he will definitely be able to live happily.

    And learning skills to improve yourself is not exactly about finding a better love partner. You can use this learning time to pass the time for a long time, you will gradually take these things as a habit, and when these more and more skills become habits, will your life become colorful? And in the process of learning, you will definitely meet more and more like-minded friends, and getting along with these like-minded friends is not also a happier and happier thing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Now that you have just fallen out of love, it is not surprising to have such thoughts, because you feel that you have paid, but in the end you have been let down, you have wasted so much time and energy, and you ended up injured, there is really no need to fall in love again. However, after a period of time, you will find that in fact, this relationship still brings you a lot of growth, and you have gained a lot. In the future, you will also meet someone you like, don't worry, treat it sincerely as always, and you will reap your own happiness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First of all, whether you have just fallen out of love, if you have just fallen out of love, then it may be that you have not come out yet, and time will be a good healing medicine for this situation. If it's been a long time since you fell out of love, and you still don't want to fall in love again, it may be that you hit you too hard before, and you don't want to come out at all, so you have to go out and have fun more, don't keep thinking about whether to fall in love and fall into a dead end.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't want to fall in love because the last relationship experience brought you a lot of pain, don't think about love at this time, you can go out with your friends more, and then relieve the pressure, and when you reach a certain age, you will reconsider the emotional problems, and there will be no idea of not being interested in falling in love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The damage caused by falling out of love is very greatSometimes, I don't want to love anymore because I don't want to get hurt anymore. It's normal to think this upfront. In fact, after a long time, you will slowly come out again and believe in love again.

    In fact, in fact, it is more eager to get love again and get true love. Time will also bring the right people to you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You don't have to do anything, just live your life right now.

    Falling out of love and not wanting to be in love again, just because it was hurt in the relationship. Time will help you with all the scars, and when it's long enough, you'll forget the person from before.

    When you meet that person you like, you will find that what you are saying now is just a joke. There's nothing special to do, just take care of yourself and wait slowly for that person to show up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Indeed, it's really hard to be interested in different ** after falling out of love. My heart is full of sorrow, if you want to be alone, then be alone, and use time to heal the heartache. Wait until someone you can really trust shows up before opening up.

    Take advantage of the present to enrich yourself and make yourself better.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Falling out of love and not wanting to fall in love means that you have not completely walked out of the last relationship, immersed in the pain of the previous relationship, this is a problem of mentality, you don't want to fall in love anymore, but you haven't met a more suitable person, you don't have a better way to vent, psychological problems make you feel that you won't love anymore, and it will be fine after slowly getting out of this relationship.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you fall out of love and don't want to fall in love again, it may be the shadow that the loss of love brings to you. The best way to get out of a relationship is to let go of the previous one and start a new one. You can try to make new friends, and it may bring you a different feeling.

    When you settle into a new life, the shadow of broken love will also dissipate! And you have to adjust your mood well, don't be depressed all the time!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Personally, I think that falling out of love will lead to a long time and can't get out of it, so I don't want to fall in love, in fact, you don't have to think too much at this time, don't talk about it if you don't want to talk about it, live your life well, cultivate your own hobbies, work hard, improve yourself, and when you slowly let go of yourself, you won't have this kind of negative thoughts anymore, don't close yourself because you are hurt, because every relationship is an experience in your life, You can't think that you will never succeed because of a failure and stop at it, this failure can only mean that this person is not suitable, not the person who can accompany you to the end, so you just need to make yourself better, be yourself, and then wait for the right person to appear.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After falling out of love, I think it's true, I don't have any interest, I just want to be alone. Because I need to have a transition period when I fall out of love, I want to be alone during this transition period.

    When I fell out of love, I was like this, I locked myself in the house, and sometimes I would be inexplicably sad, and it would be fine after a while.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think you are in this situation because you invested too much in the last relationship, but there was no happy ending, so you are afraid of being hurt by feelings again, and you dare not invest your body and mind into other feelings, for fear that your sincerity will not be reciprocated again. I think you should be positive, take care of your mood, or don't focus on love for the time being, and deal with other things in your life first.

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