What should we do when ideals and reality contradict each other??? 10

I've had this problem too, the reality is far from my ideals, but I've always been confident, I believe that the reality is temporary, and I will change it slowly, as long as I put in enough effort. But reality is often difficult to change, before we change it, we are changed by it, and when you find that you don't need to change it one day, you have given up your ideals, or you have given up the continuous efforts for your ideals. Or maybe you have a new goal, and you feel that the new goal is more worthy of your efforts.

In this way, maybe one day, you will encounter something that you can't do, and think that if the world is big, you will feel as small as a grain of sand.

In a word, survival of the fittest!

Let's take the computer side! I once had a friend who liked software development but faced employment problems, and I did.

First of all, due to the serious surplus of talent in the current job market, there is a shortage of senior talents and all-round talents, so it is really difficult to find a good job now! It's harder to find a job than a wife! Hehe, I think so.

Secondly, it is a matter of personal positioning, the future world will be the era of the Internet, the application of network technology is more and more deeply into our lives, even the aunt who buys vegetables is asking me, what network to find a job? Hehe! It can be seen that the popularization of the Internet is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and in turn look at software development, to be honest, I really admire the friends who make software, they are really not easy, they have spent a lot of effort, paid precious health, and tried their best for the software of the Chinese people, but the results were gently copied by others, and it was over, and I really loved and hated piracy!

How come I've never heard someone ask me how to make software?

So, while software development is your passion, it's wise to adapt to the general trend! I think people, sometimes, in order to survive, in order to live better, have to change themselves, have to give up their favorites! As the saying goes:

Survival of the fittest. That's it!

I think you should focus on the development of web applications, and if you have time, then engage in software development, it would be better, the two are not contradictory, the Internet can be you get more programming information, software can develop better browsers.

The above are some of my views, just for reference, ask other people, learn from others will benefit you a lot!

I am an idealist, when the ideal and the reality contradict, I will try my best to fight for my ideal If it really can't work, I will look for room for negotiation Because I will not let the reality easily defeat my own ideals, my own pursuit For my own pursuit, I may escape from reality, I dare not face it Maybe my cowardice is my nature However, I will not give up lightly Reality will never compare to the ideal in my heart!

A little ideal, a little more realistic! Take ideals as the driving force for progress, and reality as a means of survival! It's that simple!

Junior high school students? Is it so melancholy? At that time, my troubles seemed to be just homework and haze.

And a little bit of interpersonal relationships. Ideal? Maybe you're thinking about something romantic, right?

Is candlelight dinner good? In reality, you'll be eating it all in no time, and then it's time to wash the dishes. Are roses pretty?

You need to make money to buy. The result of hard work is a lover's smile. Value?

What raised roses?

It doesn't matter what the ideal is. That's how it is. You just see everything and there is no beauty. Why are your ideals beautiful? Because you haven't seen your ideals yet.

Be sober when you encounter your ideals, and be confused when you encounter reality.

Think of ways to turn your ideals into reality.

Your current status dictates that your current mission is:

Learn, learn, learn!

Your parents' mission is:

Work, work and work plus service, service and service.

Hehe, lay a good foundation, don't think about what you don't have.

Of course, people should have some ideals in life, but they can't ignore reality.

The ideal world is a perfect and beautiful world, but the real world is indeed a real and cruel world. When the ideal and the reality are infinitely close, a beautiful and real world will slowly emerge.

On the contrary, people's hearts will be broken, and sweet dreams will become bad news in life, and they will become the weight of life that we cannot bear.

Regarding ideals and reality, the philosopher Feng Youlan summarized a few points, let's listen to them and see what the advantages or disadvantages are.

1, Shakyamuni cut his own flesh to feed the eagle, which is a benevolent act, but using the blood and sweat of the Indians to maintain the prosperity of the British, not only Gandhi opposed, even if Shakyamuni was resurrected, he would not agree. The ideals of the British are not only interests, but also interests.

2. There is no law between countries, and there is not much morality between countries, and there are no eternal enemies between countries, only eternal interests. It is better to talk about reality not among countries.

3. Ideals and reality are not opposites, but depend on each other. Reality is inseparable from ideals, and ideals are inseparable from reality.

There is an opposing side between ideal and reality, and the contradiction and conflict between the two belong to the contradiction between "ought" and "actual". You can't separate the two. Ideals and reality are unified.

Ideals are regulated and constrained by reality and are developed on the basis of understanding reality. On the one hand, reality contains the elements of ideals, giving birth to ideals, and on the other hand, ideals also contain reality, which not only contains the factors of natural development in reality, but also contains the conditions for transforming ideals into reality, and under certain conditions, ideals can be transformed into future realities. If we talk about ideals in isolation from reality, ideals will become utopian.

My experience: "I seek what I can't get, I get what I don't seek." "It's special in the poem, it suddenly appears in the middle and is repeated again at the end.

It's a sobering and shocking read. Why does it move people? It expresses the life experience that each of us has:

The gap and contradiction between ideals and reality. In fact, this gap and contradiction can be gradually bridged and diluted as our personality matures. As our insight and energy grow, we are more and more able to put forward goals and achieve them just right.

What is an ideal is not a reproduction and reproduction of reality and reality. It's a beautiful imagination of reality.

Therefore, ideals and reality are always contradictory.

Contradiction is the unity of opposites. On the one hand, the ideal is higher than the reality. Reality, on the other hand, is the basis and basis on which ideals arise. Under certain conditions, ideals can become reality.

Ideal and reality, in fact, to put it bluntly, is the boundary between spirit and reality!

I'm afraid there are very few ideals and realities that can be taken care of at the same time? There is only reality and no ideals, as if a person only has a shell and loses that "heart"? Only "ideals" and "reality"?

Is that also a kind of eternal "childishness"? Even "survival" has become a problem? That kind of result, or become a big thing?

Or destruction? Just like Van Gogh, he eventually starved to death on the streets for painting, but he created an immortal legend, and his paintings have become priceless treasures today! It should be said that in the end, he was still successful!

And the hazy poet Gu Cheng was finally destroyed in his "hazy poetry", because the "hazy poetry" limited his life, and finally created the tragedy of his life!

I'm not Van Gogh, I'm not Gu Cheng, I'm just an ordinary layman! So, the first thing I have to face is my reality, which is life. Although I also have my ideals in life, I can only secretly "idealize" ...... in the "cracks" of life

1) Ideal and reality are a pair of contradictions, and they are in a relationship of opposition and unity. The opposition is manifested in the fact that the ideal is subjective and the reality is objective; The ideal is perfect, the reality is flawed;

The ideal is the future, and the reality is the present. Unity is manifested in the fact that ideals are conceived in reality, and the conditions and factors for the realization of ideals are included; Ideals are in reality, contain elements of reality, and will become a new reality in the future.

2) To correctly understand the relationship between ideals and reality, we must get rid of two one-sided misunderstandings.

Use ideals to negate reality, and when it is found that reality does not conform to ideals, they will be disappointed in reality, and even extremely dissatisfied;

When the contradiction between the ideal and the reality is discovered, the current reality is fully identified without analysis, and some negative and even ugly phenomena in reality are not angry and do not struggle, or even go along with them.

3) To turn an ideal into reality, it must be put into action. It is only through practical action that the ideal can be turned into reality. If you only imagine wonderfully, but do not act, your ideals will never become reality.

The pursuit and realization of ideals is a process of arduous struggle, and it is necessary to fully understand the long-term, tortuous, and complex nature of the process of realizing ideals.

There is always a fucking relationship between ideals and reality, and in the process of realizing them, there are many difficulties to overcome and solve by themselves.