The problem with my boyfriend is a little confusing, so I ask my brother and sister to give me some

There are several possibilities.

One is that there is a gap between him and his parents, although it has nothing to do with you at the moment, but if you are both sure that you will develop towards marriage, then you should first ask him about the reasons. This will be good for you to start a family in the future and avoid you being drawn into strange family relationships in the future.

The second is that he himself is not sure whether he will develop into a marriage discussion with you, usually this situation may be related to his past bad experience, although it is not clear whether he has had an unhappy past before, but in terms of the current cautious situation, this possibility cannot be ruled out. Therefore, when encountering this kind of situation, it is not recommended that you pursue his past experience, because it is easy to gain more than to lose, if you really love the other person and want to develop further, don't do stupid things to investigate. It is enough to give him the courage to strengthen this love, and let him know that you have the determination and confidence to stay with him.

As for whether he has been injured in the past, if he has not told you, then on the one hand, he does not want you to misunderstand and give up on him, which means that he is afraid of losing you. Besides, it's the past, it has nothing to do with you, you just need to prove it to him, you are the best, the most suitable for him. After he confirms it, he will naturally announce you openly.

There may be several questions here.

1. Your boyfriend is careless, belongs to the thick line, and didn't notice this problem.

2. Your boyfriend is more mindful of your life experience, so he didn't say hello to his parents in advance.

3. Your boyfriend wants to understand your background before considering taking you home, so as to officially confirm your relationship.

4. Your boyfriend may not let his parents know that he is with you because his parents are against it or he is not satisfied with you.

5. Your boyfriend may not be seriously in a relationship with you, but he is just confused about the current state.

So, the above is all speculation, and everything needs to be discovered by mm itself.

I personally suggest that mm can be like this.

First of all, tell your BF about your marriage goals (such as date, willingness, not wanting to waste too much time in the relationship stage, etc.).

If your boyfriend has no objection to this, but is just a little hesitant about the details, then you ask to bring the two families together, have a meal, and get to know each other's parents (no one has ever said that male and female parents can only sit together when they are married), so that if your boyfriend is sincere to you, it will not only enhance the relationship between the two families, but also increase your viscosity, and the most important thing is that the matter between you can be put on the table.

If your boyfriend reacts or shirks otherwise, all I can say is, mm, you can take the initiative to go to his house and talk to his mother.

The above is just a reference, I hope mm finds happiness.

His parents are asking you these questions because you haven't been in contact before, so they want to be sure!! Then there is your boyfriend who is reluctant to mention you to his parents, maybe he and her parents don't talk much, and there is a generation gap between boys and their own families in some families! Do you know where his home is?

Take the initiative to contact her family more, maybe his mother loves you more than her son!! You want to be the mediating link between him and her family, if you will. He and his family will love you very much!!

Shenyang Jiaojiao!

Friends, the choices made by a person at a certain time are likely to affect and change his life for a period of time or even a lifetime after he makes the choice, so how to choose in yourself, people, only live once, be cautious, for others, but also for yourself, wish, good.

If your boyfriend is an introverted man, that's normal. If you're usually full of extroverts, that's a bit of a problem.

What is his relationship with his parents, but it doesn't matter much, don't mind, it's normal for his parents to care about you, as long as you are good.

He was afraid that his parents would oppose it, so he didn't say it, you are embarrassed to say it, it is possible to surprise your parents. In short, if you love him, don't care about that.

As long as he really loves you, don't think too much.

Parents are very polite to ask these questions, don't think too much.

Maybe the time is not yet ripe. There should be no problem.

Well, that's the case, your boyfriend is fine, I think it's just that he forgot to say it, or it's your own problem, your boyfriend will say nice things about you to his parents, right?

Make it clear to your long-distance guy and let him figure out a way to keep you together. If it doesn't work, break up first. Once you've calmed down and made sure you're completely out of the relationship, you'll see if your local boy might be with you

I think that if the family strongly opposes it, and he is not very good, it is recommended to break up, the long pain is better than the short pain, because I have such an example around myself, she loves him very much, but the family does not agree, the same is a different place, his family conditions are not good, although they love each other, but in the end they are forced to break up, and the object introduced by the family is married, compared to you are already lucky, after all, the object you can choose is you are familiar with, and like you, so I will suggest you try to accept, Marriage can only be beautiful if you have the support of your family, of course, if you don't have any feelings for that person, and you don't like it, then don't, in fact, everything depends on you. But there is one thing I want to share with you: love and marriage are more often than two different things.

It's helpless, but it's realistic.

The first is your age, and if you're young, you'll have a lot of options. When you are over 25 years old, you will have to think about getting married, which is very realistic. Also, love is better than anything you have ever experienced.

Feelings are constantly evolving, and it takes a lot of time to verify, and there is a love that is blooming, so why pursue the seeds buried in the soil. Although now this flower is blooming hard.

Feelings should be decided by themselves, and the above is just a suggestion. Think again.

This choice may be related to a woman's happiness for a lifetime, so think about it. Your current boyfriend doesn't have anything, this is not the biggest problem, as long as you are in love, maybe it will be better in the future, and the bread will be there. The process will be very painful, there is no doubt about this.

The person who once chased you and now still has feelings for you, do you still like him? Even if he has hundreds of millions, he still has to like it. Feel with your heart, who you want to be with more, your life will not be long.

Here you have to understand who is the person you love?

When the interruption continues, it will be disturbed!

Since this feeling can make you hesitate, what do you think?

When a man is habitual and thinks it's okay to do it, that's a big problem in itself. (Personally, I think that if a man has no dignity, he has been spending his girlfriend's money, unless he is a white)

It depends on how you get along normally.

As for his promises, don't believe them. I don't know where I'm going to be after college.

Think for yourself, little sister.

Or you can start with AA slowly. I think if he's the kind of person who only loves your money, he can't stand to break up with you.

Is there any mistake!!

It should be a man's bill to go out!!

What are the conditions of his family?? Where did he spend his money??

Buy a hair! Just tell him! Ask him to pay! But I'm sure he won't agree, so you just tell him to break up and it's over.

A man is not even willing to pay this amount of money for his girlfriend, which shows that he is not sincere to you.

This kind of man can't do it, although I haven't talked about a girlfriend, but I pay for it when I go out with classmates of the opposite sex, even if it's a woman who invites me to play, those who pay hundreds are out of me, a girl with a little money, I don't think it matters, everyone is a classmate after all, some of my male classmates ask girls to help him pay, I think it's a shame to be that kind of man, and it's very generous to buy equipment with ingots in the game, and thousands of them are very generous, and go out to play and ask girls to pay, it's too unusual.

It can't be like this! It is natural for men to pay for money, and women can pay for it, and occasionally this man is too unmanly, right? I suggest that it is better not to do this, and there will definitely be conflicts in the future. Be mentally prepared and good luck.

You are from Suzhou, I advise you to break up such a boyfriend, I don't bear it.

Although you will be jealous if you care, your mentality is not good, you are a man, and you usually remember to consciously change this mentality. For this matter, there is no way, this woman is only temporarily lucky, but it has caused you a threat, so you need to treat her more attentively at this stage, contact her more, and care more, after all, you have known each other for a long time, and the initiative is in your hands, this is the only way to change the status quo.

Chasing, it is impossible for girls to take the initiative in front of love.

Confess boldly, just do it, don't dwell on it if it doesn't work!

Then you hurry up and confess to others.

Chase it! If you like it, chase it! I'm a girl, believe me, girls eat that.

You have to be considerate of each other, understand each other, help each other, care for each other...Do you think, if this continues, how can you talk about your future life? Let's talk more about our dreams for the future...Don't take the little things too seriously, make the big things small, the small things...Take a step back and let the sea and the sky be calm.

There will definitely be a reason for the quarrel, know why the quarrel, why do two people not believe each other when they are in a relationship? It is very simple for two people to live in harmony, men and women trust each other, and do not break out into a cold war because of a small matter. Don't look at each other with suspicion, trust each other will get along better.

How to say it, trust is not easy to establish, how long have you been together to have such an idea, first of all, you have to put down your face, open your heart, and communicate more, I suggest that one of you first try to believe in each other, if your boyfriend can't do it, then start with you, give him a sense of security and let him trust, if you talk about it, communicate, trust, so that he still doesn't trust you, then the relationship is too hard for each other.

If you get married and don't believe you, will you be very tired and miserable, think twice, trust is very important.

Trust between couples is equivalent to the signal of a mobile phone, and without a signal, you can only play games.

Since you want to believe in each other, you should trust each other first.

Give each other a step, think about the good, don't always think about the disadvantages of the other party, such as thinking more: he is still by my side, we haven't broken up yet, how good is that.

The more you love each other, the more you love to quarrel, and you still have to learn to tolerate each other.

Communicate more with your boyfriend, know the bottom line of making friends on both sides, and be generous!

You have said that you don't believe in each other, then there must be a lack of mutual trust, true love please believe in each other, tolerate each other, everyone has a lot of shortcomings, he has you, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance.

Tolerate each other, you tolerate each other, he tolerates once, which can reduce the number of quarrels.

If you can't let each other take a step, since you can't get along, you can break up, and you don't want to quarrel in the future! ，

In this way, the other party cares about the other party.

We must be humble to each other and take a step back in order to be happy

Trust is the foundation, and how can there be harmony without the foundation.

Let's break up. I don't want anyone to trust anyone in the future.

It's like that's it before you get married, so let's break up.

He is not only selfish but also machismo, and if he doesn't change, you will be angry together a lot in the future. If you want to run a family well, both people must be attentive, care for each other, love each other, tolerate each other, and endure each other. If that's the case, he's only fit to find a babysitter, not a lover.

Absolutely unreliable, I was so stingy before marriage, and I want to be good to you after marriage. A man is not willing to spend money on you, so where is he going to spend the money, and it is impossible for a person like him to have warm and beautiful slightly luxurious furniture. He is reluctant to support you, why are you marrying him, do everything by yourself, and would rather be single than marry such a person.

Your boyfriend is obviously a little stingy, and a bit machismo, I don't know how you feel about him. If it's okay, you think the two of you will go down together. Although it is said to be stingy, it is still a good family.

If you can't stand him, leave him.

If he thinks only of himself, then he is too selfish; If you don't think about anything for him, you're too egoistic! Reflect on whether you are too demanding of the other party? So my opinion is not to push everything on men, you have to think about what you do yourself, what do you say?

Life is not perfect. If you are in a relationship on the premise of marriage, then please think carefully about yourself, what do you want, what do you value most? Comparing the two sides, if you feel that you can put up with him for the point you value the most, then you can be together, if not, decisively separate.

Because there will be more and more problems in the future. Life is the result of two people running in, if you don't change his confidence or endure his determination, don't torture yourself, once the marriage fails in modern society, women still suffer.