Don t you have any experience in getting a girlfriend?

More than a month after the start of our first year of high school, I met a girl at our school's English festival, I liked her at first sight, and then she also knew, but she just treated me as a friend, because she didn't want to fall in love for three years of high school [we were next door, I was in the first class, she was two]. I may have been a little anxious and chased after her, and a few months later, I wrote her name in their class, and then she was anxious, and ignored me for two months, and it was not easy to eliminate the impact of this matter, but she told me that we could only be friends in the future, and I really didn't know what to do, so I had to agree to her. Until now, my feelings are very conflicted, whether to retreat or continue to hold on at the risk of suffering a huge blow, I really don't know what to do, everyone help me figure it out.

She studied better than me, and she just took the first place in the examination department last time!! It's impossible for me to help her in her studies, evening self-study, she always hangs out with a boy after class, and then I say a few words to her, she coldly copes with it and goes to the boy again, they are classmates in junior high school, but they really have nothing to do with it, she is the kind of tomboy herself, I can tolerate her, she likes basketball super NB boys, but I'm a rookie, although I work hard to practice playing basketball, in short, the trajectory of my life has changed for her, She also said that she liked the kind of marriage where she didn't even know who the groom was until she was in the cave [I wonder if that's a joke, but if that's the case, what should I do?] Now I'm just a friend of hers, not even a buddy, so what should I do?

Is it possible for me to succeed in a situation like this? Do I stick with it or do I end it like this??? I'm really conflicted.

Asked by: Cheng Chuanjie - Assistant Level 2.

There are actually many factors that go into chasing women.

If you're lucky, you can catch it at one time, and some women don't let a man chase them, but they're actually very eager for a man to chase them, but if you chase her at that time, you'll definitely be able to catch them.

In addition, it is easier for girls who have had boyfriends, it can also be said that it is more troublesome, because it is easy to compare you with a boyfriend, if you are better than him, then it goes without saying that of course it is easier to succeed If you are worse than him, then it will be troublesome It depends on your peach blossom luck In addition, it is also a good way to chase after some women are soft-hearted.

In fact, careful men are easy to chase girls Don't look at some things to make very earthy In fact, girls like this set I know that sending flowers Romantic dinners are very earthy But women just like this I don't know.

Stalking, dead Pillay face.

A person's life must be relatively free, and there are no constraints in all aspects of his life without a girlfriend. In this way, the whole person can calm down and do something with all his might. Don't think about having a girlfriend to accompany you. Some people definitely prefer this state.

Some people may feel that they are afraid to eat it without a girlfriend. But in my opinion, this should be a very happy thing for foodies. Because don't care about other people's eyes, you can eat two servings yourself, and you will be satisfied and happy.

The main thing I thought was that I could eat two servings, and as long as I spent the money of one serving, I felt that it was very worthwhile. I don't want to say that every time I do this kind of activity, I think of bringing my girlfriend with me. Because the only person you care about most about yourself is yourself.

You should be satisfied that you can eat two servings by yourself.

It's because I don't have a girlfriend that I don't care what others think a lot of the time. You can make decisions according to your own ideas. Because you don't have a girlfriend, you don't have to think about the feelings you don't want, you can do a lot of things you want to do, and don't care about the people around you.

It's also relatively free, because no one can interfere with your thoughts, and you can give full play to your subjectivity. Actually, it's not good to think about this kind of life. It's okay to think only about yourself and not about others.

All in all, I think everyone has their own way of life without a girlfriend, but if you have a girlfriend, you will feel happier. However, some people may like to live alone, and it makes no difference whether they have a girlfriend or not.