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I think the way is – a good fight.
Seeing this question, I couldn't help but answer the question, my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years+, and the relationship has been very stable, if there is no accident, I should be able to enter the marriage hall smoothly. I think there is also some experience to share this question.
The most important thing between lovers is communication, communication, and communication.
There are many ways to communicate, and the common one is the usual chat, whether it is face-to-face or online, it is an effective way to communicate. But for me, I think the best way to communicate is to have a healthy quarrel every time there is a return, a return and a collision.
What is a healthy fight?
There are several characteristics of a good quarrel:
One. A healthy quarrel can release one's bad emotions.
I believe that many people have experienced cold violence, and some people even think that cold violence is more terrible than hot violence, and hot violence can at least have two people collide and touch; And cold violence makes you doubt yourself and escalates the contradictions.
Problems are always ignored and there is no time to solve them. A good quarrel can allow us to release our emotions and make the other party feel their grievances and dissatisfaction. Only with communication can there be a solution, and cold violence will only cover up one's emotions and make the conflict more fermented and worse.
Two. A benign quarrel allows us to see each other's character and three views better.
Everyone has a time when their emotions are out of control, and it is at this time that a person's behavior and morality can be better seen. In the early stages of a relationship, we will maintain a good image of each other in front of the couple, polite, beautiful and kind.
When our emotions are out of control, we can't help but expose our truest side, and irritable people can't restrain their tyrannical habits; Indifferent people are cold and violent towards you, refusing to communicate and ignoring you; The prodigal person turned around and complained to a confidant of Lan Yan or a confidant after a quarrel, and did not think of looking for you to solve the problem; People who don't care about you easily tell you ...... break up
Quarrels are a necessary test for couples, and a healthy quarrel is like a test paper to test the emotional problems between us. The unfit couple lost the test; And the right couple will only get to know each other better through testing, know that ** can be improved, and become more and more incompatible with each other.
Three. Benign quarrels can be retracted freely.
This is the most important point of a healthy quarrel. Clearly know that the essence of quarrels is to solve problems and get along better.
So no matter how fierce the quarrel is, how confrontational and disagreeable each other's points of view are, but because they know that they will not be separated, because they know that it is to solve the problem, they will all reconcile in the end. It's not a question of who bows his head first, it's that both of them know that the quarrel is to better run in with each other, so if they quarrel, they will take it back.
Chat communication on weekdays can certainly help us understand each other, but just like the answer can solve the problem, our reactions and practices when there is a quarrel can really let us understand each other more deeply.
May every couple be able to grasp every benign quarrel, and since they have chosen to hold hands, don't let go easily.
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Summary. The meaning of a boy giving a girl's watch:
1.It means good luck and I wish you good luck always.
2.The watch is homophonic confession, expressing love, representing my heart and showing love.
3.It is to walk through the minutes and seconds with the beloved, expressing the meaning of being with each other forever.
4.Expressing that my future time is all over to you, it means eternity.
5.Express the meaning of seeing you every day, seeing you all the time, seeing you every minute and every second, and accompanying you every minute and every second.
My boyfriend bought me a watch and said it had his mind in it, what do you mean.
The meaning of the boy who gave the girl a watch: 1It means good luck and I wish you good luck always.
2.The homophonic sound of the watch is white in the dry mu yard, expressing love, representing my heart, and showing love. 3.
It is to walk through the minutes and seconds with the beloved, expressing the meaning of being with each other forever. 4.Expressing that my future time is all over to you, it means eternity.
5.Express the meaning of seeing you every day, seeing you all the time, seeing you every minute and every second, and accompanying you every minute and every second.
I hope it can help you if it's convenient for you, please help me like it.,Thank you.。
I wish you a sweet love.
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Summary. Generally speaking, the watch represents many meanings, such as love, care, confession, etc., depending on who the other party is.
My boyfriend bought me a watch and said it had his mind in it, what do you mean.
Generally speaking, the watch represents many meanings, such as love, care, confession, etc., depending on who the other party is.
1. Confession If you are a single woman, and the man, as a good friend of yours, suddenly gives you a watch, the expression is a kind of confession. Because the homonym of "watch" is "confession", so usually the boy expresses it with this gift, which also means that the man has liked you. 2. Proof of love The beloved boy gives you a watch, which means that he wants to spend every moment with you, so that time can witness the love between you.
This meaning is very beautiful, it still represents the boy's heart that loves you. Maybe your love is not as vigorous as the TV materialism, but the dry code relationship is also very beautiful and romantic. 3. Care for you, in addition to expressing love, boys give you girls' watches, but also care.
Usually this is not only about the love between men and women, but it also means that you want your life to be smoother and more efficient. Therefore, boys usually give you a watch as an elder or a friend. 4. My time is your watch on behalf of love, and the boy's watch for the girl represents that I give my own time to you, and I am willing to pay the most sincere love for you, and I only love you in this life.
Hope it helps.
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Sister, this thing can't be bought, and this person can't be your boyfriend anymore, just like China and Japan, both have a history, how can China still be friendly to Japan. Remember. There are still many good ones in society, don't walk into a dead end for one person. Worth.
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Maybe he wants you to tie it tighter, well, that's it!
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He was dumped, he just thinks about your body, he doesn't really love you, you love him too much, if you don't change, it will hurt a lot.
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If you have a lot of money, try it.
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Summary. Dear, glad for your question! If your boyfriend cares a lot about what you think, talk to him openly about your financial situation, see what kind of watch he prefers, why he should buy a watch, and when you can afford it.
If you feel that you are in a good financial situation, in the right mood, and still have enough time, you can buy him a small watch as a gift. If he really wants an expensive watch or you find it unaffordable, make a suggestion and tell him that instead of buying an expensive watch, he can buy a watch that is durable, more cost-effective, and more versatile than the expensive one. At the same time, you can remind him not to buy a watch as an important thing, but to treat it as a special gift.
Dear, glad for your question! If your boyfriend cares a lot about what you think, talk to him openly and honestly about your financial situation, see what kind of watch he prefers, why he should buy a watch, and when you can afford it. If you feel that you are in a good financial situation, in the right mood, and still have enough time, you can buy him a small watch as a gift.
If he really wants an expensive watch or you feel that you can't afford it, you can make a suggestion and tell him that you can buy a watch that is durable, more cost-effective, and more versatile than the expensive one, rather than buying an expensive watch. At the same time, you can remind him not to buy a watch as an important thing, but to treat it as a special gift. Hope it helps!
He had a watch for his father before.
He said he wanted to buy a watch.
Then you can afford to buy him one that he is satisfied with.
The teacher suggested that if you have reached the point where you are going to talk about marriage, you can buy valuables! But it depends on your own economy! You can't rent for your boyfriend's temporary rough habits, and let you carry your own burden!
I know, I asked him what kind of brand he liked, and he didn't have me.
I guess they were testing me.
It's not the best, it's cheap, the more expensive the better.
You get the idea. I suspect you're a scheming man.
In the future, you will slowly understand, this kind of thing outside the body, and you have to hint, I don't think I'm honest enough with you.
In his heart, what is theirs is his, but not yours!
He said he wanted to buy it himself.
But there is no action, right?
So how is his economic state lately.
He looks at the style himself.
Then you can take him to the specialty store and have a look!
In the average family, two or three thousand watches for boys are enough!
Sister, you offer to take him to see his watch! As for who pays, we'll see when the time comes.
The man you like, you have to spoil it, you can't <> it
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Summary. Kiss, good evening, I am an emotional Xie Hua teacher, for your current situation is to say to your boyfriend that he likes a watch very much, and has no money to buy it, but your boyfriend has no reaction, and he did not explicitly say that he will buy it for you, nor does he clearly say that he will not buy it for you, so he directly skips it, so for this situation, he actually chooses to ignore your idea in disguise, that is to say, he has no idea to buy you this watch, and when you take the initiative to give him a gift, he directly chooses to ignore it.
I told my boyfriend that I liked a watch very much, and I didn't have the money to buy it, but he didn't respond.
Kiss, good evening, I am an emotional Xie Hua teacher, for your current situation is to say to your boyfriend that he likes a watch very much, and has no money to buy it, but your boyfriend has no reaction, and he did not explicitly say that he will buy it for you, nor does he clearly say that he will not buy it for you, so he directly skips it, so for this situation, he actually chooses to ignore your idea in disguise, that is to say, he has no idea to buy you this watch, and when you take the initiative to give him a gift, he directly chooses to ignore it.
I think your boyfriend may just not want to pay you much, or he can say that he is not willing to spend money on you.
Generally speaking, if you really like you, if you love you, you say you like a watch, but you don't have the money to buy it. Your boyfriend's first reaction should be that I will buy it for you, he is your boyfriend, but he is indifferent.
This is reflected from the side, in fact, he is reluctant to buy it for you. Love for you is debatable.
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Hello friend.
Don't think too much about it at first.
1. Learn to stick to what you believe in, don't care what others say, people don't live to please others.
2. If we can be brave enough to love, brave to forgive, generous to rejoice in the happiness of others, and intelligent enough to know that there is enough love around us, then we will complete the wholeness that no other living being ever knows.
3. Memories are very beautiful, as long as you can make the past pass.
Happiness is to be happy when you don't think about anything, let go of everything, be healthy and have no mental pressure. - Mo Yan.
5. When you determine your own principles, don't give in repeatedly, learn to say no, learn to be yourself, and learn to implement your own principles. You can't compromise your principles in order to try to be liked.
6. The biggest disadvantage of holding grudges is to continue to torture yourself with pain points and make your personality more and more distorted. Most people don't dare to take revenge in the open, so they attack in secret, and unconsciously, turn themselves into a living villain. - Wu Danru.
7. The person who is usually willing to stay and quarrel with you is the one who really loves you. They love you and are willing to dwell on you and your baggage to the end, so that each other's scars can be gained.
8. Love has always been a thing that has been turned back and forth, never been abandoned, never hurt, how to know how to love others.
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Yes, but if you don't spend his money, his self-esteem will suffer, so you should always keep an eye out for saving him money, and at the same time pretend to be happy to say that he has a good eye, so as to satisfy his self-esteem and vanity.