Every date is spent by the boyfriend, will he be stressed?

Yes, but if you don't spend his money, his self-esteem will suffer, so you should always keep an eye out for saving him money, and at the same time pretend to be happy to say that he has a good eye, so as to satisfy his self-esteem and vanity.

If I love you, I don't have pressure, but I will be happy, I make money for the people I love, why don't I make money? But you have to do what you can. Don't come to this place to sell blood to make you happy.

Of course, no one prints money, girls still live with self-esteem, what money do you spend on others if you are not married, do you spend it? I look down on that kind of girl, although I also have sisters like this, but I think it's better to AA, because after all, his money is not earned by him, and it is not easy for anyone's parents.

Generally, there will be pressure, but there is pressure to be motivated. However, you can also spend it in moderation.

But if he loves you, then he's willing to spend money for you, so he can feel that his existence is meaningful.

Don't think like this, he just wants to make you happy, it's his willingness to spend money for you, sometimes you have to take the initiative, if you love him, don't count too much, it's all the same!

You think about his financial situation, and if his financial situation is not good, offer to go to a cheaper place and not spend so much money.

It's normal for a boyfriend to spend money, but in moderation.

It's good that you're not stressed, I really like it, and it's okay for you to spend some money.

But you can't use too much.

Don't you feel pressured?

He's financially stressed, and you guess you're under psychological pressure.

You can occasionally express that you can give him a small gift or something.

If he really loves you, stress can turn into motivation.

Yes, he is to please you, slapping a swollen face and making a fat man.

He doesn't feel when he loves you, and he hates you when he doesn't love you.

Love requires two people to pay together, whether it is energy or money.

Don't you feel stressed?

If every date is you who spend money, will you be stressed.

Hello, I'm here to visit, I hope it helps you. Because the specific information is not clear, it can only be analyzed from multiple aspects.

If you talk for a long time and the other party's money is also kept by you and asked you to pay, then it is nothing, he trusts you completely and wants you to feel like a hostess. After entering marriage, most of the people who go out to pay the bill are wives. If you talk for a long time, but the other party spends your money, then such a man, you should take a good look at it, and you are so detached to the person you love (if you love), you are not willing to pay, but only know the other party's wool, whether such a person is worth entrusting for life.

You said that Zong asked you to spend money, is it that you often do this, let him get an inch, I think you should point it out directly, you can't continue to be a big wrongdoer.

Of course, you haven't been together for a long time, so you should look at each other even more, get a good understanding of his personality and character, and always feel that it is not atmospheric enough. Of course, whether the shoes fit or not, only the feet know.

Since you have an opinion on this, it is time to analyze whether both parties are suitable and why he is like this? Did you point out how the other person reacted? Here, good luck.

This is indeed a painful thing. As a girl, she is more reserved, and she will definitely not say it, but she is very uncomfortable in her heart, and she feels particularly unfree every time she is together, because she has to pay every time, what kind of embarrassing and tangled thing is this?

It can be seen that you still like your boyfriend more. I don't want to give up my boyfriend because he always asks you to spend money. So in such a situation, the girl will seem to be even more unsure of what to do?

I don't want to give up my boyfriend, but I don't want my boyfriend to always do this kind of thing that makes girls unappetizing. As a boy, he should have the responsibility to bear some of the money spent on love as a boy. Even if you don't want to pay, all the money should be AA system, and you can't always let girls pay, which is particularly ungentlemanly.

It's also particularly unmasculine. So for girls, it will become very embarrassing and painful. Because of love.

And tangled, because of love and don't know what to do?

In this case, I think the best advice is well, maybe talk to your boyfriend honestly, because this boyfriend of yours is not aware of the problem at all, and that's the biggest problem. You don't pay, but you have to be aware of this problem, if you don't even have this awareness, then if you want him to pay in the future, it will become very difficult, it can also be said that in the future family consciousness, the man may not be too responsible, and it may also be a girl to pay in many ways, which is particularly uncomfortable and unfair for girls, because girls themselves need to be pampered, but in this way, in front of men, you will become a female man, It's a bad thing. So my advice is to be sure to talk to this boy, if this boy is still like this in the future, then I don't recommend this boy to continue to treat him as your boyfriend, then my advice is to break up as soon as possible, because it is not suitable as a future object of marriage.

It is reasonable for two people to take turns to pay the bill, after all, it is a demeanor for a boy to pay the bill, not an obligation. But every time you are asked to pay, and you order expensive things, it means that you are just being wronged, eating and drinking. This kind of man should break up with him immediately, so why are you still dating him?

Then you still let him be your boyfriend? You can't think about it??? When a boy is dating a girl, he still asks the girl to pay when he already has a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, hehehe.

It's not that girls can't pay, but you feel comfortable doing this, it's not nice to say, you spend money now, and wait until later? A boy is reluctant to spend money for you before marriage, and after what to talk about, oh, I personally think that your relationship will not go far. Except that you are willing to raise him for the rest of your life.

Each other is a couple, and they should help each other, support each other, understand each other, and rely on each other, so they should have the heart of support from all sides when one party is in trouble. As a girlfriend, it's not too much to occasionally help your sweetheart pay, pay, treat, etc., because couples should share each other's burdens, understand each other, and understand each other.

However, once this person goes out, no matter when and where, he asks you to pay out of your own pocket, but he is like an iron rooster, then at this time, it is normal for you to have suspicions. As girls, what we should do at this time is not to doubt whether our boyfriend has done something bad outside, or to suspect that he is stingy or something, we should put down our face and communicate with our boyfriend, communication is the bridge to build a relationship, only by communicating with each other, all misunderstandings between you will be solved. At this point, we should ask him, or by suggestion, ask him questions like "Why are you always entertaining me lately, and you haven't pulled a dime?"

If he is honest about these problems and explains some reasons to you, or that his family has been in trouble recently, and the family is in urgent need of money, etc., as girlfriends, you should understand each other, help each other, and even lend a helping hand to him, which is not an exaggeration. But if he is silent about these questions about you, then you can observe him for a few days to see if he really needs money recently, and then make up your mind, if you confirm that your boyfriend is really just unwilling to spend a dime for himself, then such a man is not worth living with you for a lifetime.

First of all, whether you are still true love and trustworthy cannot be judged by spending money alone. Because at the beginning, you always rushed to give money, then, there are several possibilities in his cognition: for example, out of respect for you, he thinks that everything should be "polite" to girls, maybe he treats you as his own, or maybe he thinks that you are a woman who loves to make decisions and can arrange life, so he naturally gives you this "right".

If so, he's "unintentional" because he doesn't know what you really think.

Secondly, in addition to spending money, in other aspects, what kind of person he is may be the key factor. On weekdays, whether you get along well with each other. Although he doesn't rob you of spending money, when you encounter difficulties and dangers, such as being sick or being bullied, will he stand up for you as soon as possible, and whether he will think of how to help you at the first time.

In fact, many details in life can judge whether he is a responsible and responsible man.

Secondly, regardless of whether you can really achieve positive results between you, at least there is a relationship plan for now. Does he have some plans for your relationship, is it just a campus relationship, or does he have you in his future married life, and how does he see the development of your relationship, how satisfied is he with you, etc.

Faced with such confusion, the recommended approach is to:

Talk to him honestly about this topic and listen to what he has to say, the fact that he doesn't spend money has caused you to be confused, and even because he doesn't spend money, you have begun to doubt your relationship. Instead of guessing, instead of doubting, it is better to be honest and talk to him. Talk about his motivation for not actively spending money and paying, for example, what is the reason for pushing this paid "right" to you.

In the communication, in his narration of the matter, you may be able to find some answers.

l Don't hide it in front of your parents and tell them the truth.

Your parents may not understand your feelings, but your parents' experiences and experiences can help you make some more accurate judgments. Maybe some parents will blindly draw an unfair conclusion to your relationship from the perspective of spending money, but this is only your parents' point of view, not your point of view. But in the face of some common sense and common sense, parents may be able to teach you to make a more accurate judgment of right and wrong.

Therefore, it is better to communicate with your parents in this matter.

It's not worth it! Some people say:The measure of a person's love for you is to see whether the other person is willing to spend money on you. Although this cannot be taken as the whole story, it is undeniable that it is an important point in a relationship.

Europe and the United States ** line AA system.

Nowadays, it has also begun to become popular in our Chinese circles, and to put it bluntly, no one's money is blown by the wind, so I think the occasional AA system for gatherings between friends is still very necessary.

Of course, when it comes to boyfriends and girlfriends, this also applies.

Good love is evenly matched. It is not only the status and family background that are evenly matched, but also refers to the comings and goings of people and sophistication.

You said that you always pay for a date with your boyfriend, and this problem is analyzed from two aspects.

1. Your boyfriend's financial conditions are not as good as yours.

If so, if you still like him, then this person must have advantages that you can't let go, and it can be seen from the previous relationship that it is precisely because of this liking that you have repeatedly forbeared, and you have paid more financially.

So, at this time, although his economy is not as good as yours, you can pay for the big economic expenses, and he can pay for the small ones, which is the most basic attitude problem, if he doesn't even have this self-consciousness, then I think this man can pass it.

Two, you are evenly matched, he just doesn't want to spend money on you.

If that's the case, then don't think about it, this man is not worth it.

It is suggested that the young lady can have an in-depth chat with her boyfriend, you feel that you have paid a lot for him, and even have debts, bring this matter to the table and listen to your boyfriend's thoughts.

It's not easy to meet someone you like, so when you're in love, you'll do your best to give the other person what you think is best, but sometimes you ignore a question: Are you giving what he needs? This is also important.

Therefore, it is recommended that the young lady make further decisions by going deep into the details of her relationship with her boyfriend to figure out whether this person is worth your kind of effort, if it is me, it will definitely pass.

Good luck!

This kind of effort is not worth it at all, if you always let yourself pay for it when dating, it proves that this relationship is only paid by yourself.

This kind of effort is not worth it, which means that your boyfriend does not love you at all, and your boyfriend may just want to spend your money, so he will let you pay for it.