I m really a waste, am I a waste?

In fact, like the landlord, I am also a very conceited person, and my parents' worldview and outlook on life are indeed unacceptable to us post-80s. But the road was walked by itself, not laid by the parents. I think the landlord should also try to find a few close friends, and then spit out the things he is depressed with them.

Don't always hide everything in the deepest part of your heart, hide it deeply, deeply, because someone shares the joy doubled, and someone shared the pain halved. The landlord starts by listening to others and learning to communicate with people, because people are animals that need to be in groups. What I want to tell the landlord is that you must first learn to be happy and have the courage to live.

There is still work to be done, job hopping is risky, and it seems that it is difficult to find a job, and it has caught up with the economic crisis. As the saying goes, do a line of love. What I also want to tell the landlord is that there are three principles of doing things:

Use your courage to accept what can be changed, use your heart to accept the unchangeable, and use your wisdom to discern the difference between the two. When you encounter setbacks, you can use these three principles to help you get through them with courage, heart, and wisdom. I hope the landlord can pick himself up and come out of the shadows.

Believe in yourself, prove yourself, you will always be the best!! A little bit of meager effort, I hope to help the landlord solve the problem. ^_

Ay... One another ... Society is like this, invisibly crushing people, there is no good solution, you have to rely on yourself to slowly understand and understand some truths, the more you experience, the more experienced, self-reliance, self-improvement, death is not so easy, it is difficult to make a real determination.

To live is to be tired, let's boil slowly, in fact, most people are like this, there are too many ordinary people these days, you see that others may be very good on the surface, maybe he has a lot of troubles in his heart than you, he has to look down on himself, there is no difference between people and people in essence.

I am sick like you, my family situation is worse than yours, my fate is worse than yours, no matter how much I resist, there is no reward, but I still persevere. Because no matter what I scratch my head, I take a step back and think about it, so that my mind is calm, and then I solve the problem. I lived like this day by day, and then I got married and had a boy.

My life hasn't changed much now, but my husband and wife still believe that life will get better one day. Brother, don't give up, be strong, fight, challenge fate, and one day it will be fine. I suggest that you pay attention to improving your own quality, do your job well and be proficient, and then your colleagues will accept you and society will recognize you.

You're really useless, why are you so inferior? Everyone will have a lot of unpleasant things, manly man, what can't you think of? I still want to commit suicide, it's so useless, all those who commit suicide are useless or stupid, if I think of suicide, I will kill all the people I forced to live and then commit suicide, so that I won't die stupidly first.

Young people, if you want to open up, it's good to look down on many things, everyone has their own way of living, it depends on your attitude towards life.

Keep some of your own money, the more difficult it will be for you to have a daughter-in-law. You are filial, you are tired, unravel, there will be a bright future, don't be afraid, persevere. I'm introverted and can't speak, can't I persuade people now?

Make a friend or two, talk to each other, and release your stress. Because of filial piety, because of responsibility, we can't let go. Work hard, these are nothing.

I wish you happiness and happiness to the whole family. Mine, it's okay to make a friend.

Don't think like that, everyone has pressure, everyone is not a perfect person, everyone has times when they are laughed at, as long as you are kind-hearted and good, no matter how uneducated you are, there will still be people who like you, get out of inferiority, come on.

I'm pretty much the same, life is stressful now, but we still have to live, be stronger, learn more, jump out of the original circle, and see other people's worlds!

I also came from the countryside, my situation is similar to yours, my family is in debt, but I am indeed more optimistic than you, I always think: my family is getting better day by day, although I am still in debt. But life gets better, and that's enough.

Don't think too much, your mind is too tired. Let's work hard ourselves, and when our families are better, our hearts will be much more comfortable.

I'm also very introverted, very timid and always like to hide behind others.

You can try to communicate with people, even if you get indifference, it doesn't matter.

I believe that most people will be good to us.

It's only 23, it's okay, I'm 23 too

Be brave and live.

I'm also helpless after reading it, you can take a look at "Water Knows the Answer", I hope it will help you.

If you have nothing to do, you can read Buddhist scriptures, think about where you came from in life, where you are going to die, and ask yourself about the meaning of life.

Some people ask boring questions, so why bother with these things?

Think about the following questions:

First, who were you before your parents gave birth to you?

How did you come to be reincarnated?

Second, you have been getting old since you were born, and you have no way to control it;

Third, the body will get sick, and there is no way to do it;

Fourth, this color body is going to a dead end all the time, and it is the same that he does not make his own decisions.

I don't know where I came from, and I don't know when I went. So what's the difference between such a life and dreaming?

Human beings, in order to live spiritually and pursue a higher level of life, must know that constantly increasing their compassion and wisdom is the source of happiness in life and life, and to be a person with no obstacles, like Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, their hearts are free from obstacles, and they are at ease.

Friends, life, suffering; old, bitter; sickness, suffering; Death, bitterness! Love parting, bitter; I can't ask for it, I can't ask for it, I Resentment will, bitterness; The five yin are blazing and bitter! If the eight fundamental sufferings of life are not solved by studying Buddhism, do we still rely on scientists?

Human beings should pursue a higher level of life form, and do not fall into reincarnation and ask for hardships.

There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south.

I don't have a goal, I just don't want to do it. Typical lazy thinking. The waiter said that he was thin-skinned, so didn't the dung diggers all jump into the river? Try to take on some simple work and get used to it.

I have the same distress as you, I have been in college for four years, and in the end, because of insufficient credits, the school did not issue a graduation certificate, only gave me a damn certificate of completion, I really want to work, but I have to take another year of not enough credits, I feel very useless, I am so old and continue to spend my family's money, once thought of suicide, but I am reluctant to love my mother, brother, I still have to look forward to being a man, I have to change myself if I can't change the society, let's work together.

To be honest, I want to scold you: you are a moth, the dregs of society. You've been a piece of waste so far. Upstairs is right, without even trying, you have already put a spell on yourself to fail, I despise you.

Tell you the shortcut to get out of the trap, first find your own idol, of course, it must be a positive idol, and then follow his method to start your new life.

I was originally an electrician in a state-owned enterprise, I was born as a technician, introverted by nature, and rarely spoke to others. Later, the business closed down and I was laid off. Life has forced me to have a lot of language communication with others, and after ten or twenty years, although I am still introverted, I no longer have any problems with language communication.

In fact, you just lack a goal and ideal, when you set a goal and ideal, and then, divide it into a number of small goals, and then make a time plan to achieve it. Finally, try to act! Even if a person's destiny is destined to be born, but it can't condemn you to be sad or happy, the same fate, different mentality, this is the most important thing!

Don't blame yourself too much, people say that three points are destined, and I say ten points are destined. Born is destined to your origin and growth environment, the basic character is also predestined, and the acquired influence of character formation is partly destined by the growth environment. Social relationships, in turn, need to be determined by origin and character.

Personality, origin, and social background, these three things are all composed of a social person. Nothing is beyond the control of human beings.

But others don't care about your hardships, if you are useless, you are useless, the nest is the nest, who cares if you are Wang Xie Tang Qianyan or ordinary people. So I have to work hard, not to get ahead, but to be affordable.

God is jealous of talents, so I will give you a hone.

You're a piece of rubbish, garbage, rotten alive.

Dude is fine, service industry, don't look at people with colored glasses. As the face of a waiter, you need to be sincere and enthusiastic to people (a relatively professional service process). It's the bad guys in the crowd, but all we have to do is have a level of service that gets tipped.

This will also help you in interviews with other companies (how to make a good impression in 5 minutes).

I'm also in a situation with you, big brother, you and I understand the big truth, so I won't talk about it, these things don't matter, don't do what you don't want to do, just be yourself. They said, "Oh, the most important thing to lack now is work, I don't even bother to go, I'm going to find a factory, 2000 a month, just do it, I don't want so much money to be enough, I'm not ambitious." Hahaha.

Brother, your rap looks good, behind 23 why not Michael Jordan. Instead, Mike's chicken nuggets turned into cheap**. Hahahaha.

You're such a good boy! (I'm 65 years old, right?) Not only are you not a waste, you may well be a treasure to your parents!

Because you know: you can't always rely on your parents. In today's era of gnawing old fashion, you are undoubtedly the brightest star in the night sky, a warm fire in winter.

Your family's economy may be good, so you don't have to blame yourself too much if you have the conditions to support you. On the contrary, you should take advantage of this worry-free situation to cheer up and enrich yourself so that you can do a great job when you go out in the future. I'm sure you're going to have a successful life.

Enrichment of what? In a word: (probably the least you like to hear) study, learn the knowledge you love to learn and need to start a business in the future, learn the ability to start a family in the future, learn the theory and creed of how to be a person, learn.

Many, many, many! They are a guarantee of your success. Kids, listen to adults.

Finally, whether you like it or not, I'm going to tell you: stop playing games all day! If you don't want to study, don't play games!

Games can only ruin youth, destroy self, and possibly destroy families!! Settle down and learn something useful. When you can fly, your parents won't hold you in their arms, and when you finish your studies, it's the beginning of your adventures in the world.

This is the heartfelt words of a 65-year-old man, please refer to it. If you can read this, I thank you.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tired, very hard, because the society is very unfair, life is very helpless, sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring, because life is like this, no one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!