Why am I so shy? Why do you feel shy and embarrassed?

To be honest, this situation is really not very good for men, you need to work hard to get rid of this shortcoming of yours, it will directly affect your future work and development.

As for why you are so shy, I think there may be three situations, one is your previous living environment (this has become a thing of the past, so there is no need to talk about it), and the other is that your personality may be too perfectionist (because you are too shy, so you are worried about anything wrong with any of your actions, and then it gives people a feeling of lack of confidence, so you should change yourself from your personality and let go of your mind, in fact, there is no perfect thing in the world, don't care too much about your gains and losses, right and wrong), The third is that your appearance gives people the impression that they are shy, and then you will hear a lot of comments about you: shy, and then you will be really shy (forget about other people's comments about you, tell yourself, I am not shy at all).

Another point is that you should pay attention to your clothes, hairstyle design, etc., and try to dress yourself up less sven.

When adolescents are faced with strangers or in an unfamiliar environment, timid and shy people often appear cramped and restless, unable to interact with people frankly and naturally, and at the same time make the people next to them feel uncomfortable; When meeting unfamiliar but familiar classmates, timid and shy people often do not greet people because they are embarrassed, and the result may be misunderstood as arrogant and unsightly, which affects interpersonal relationships; - In fact, if you look at the problem from a different angle, you will change to a new realm; For example, learn from how your friends reacted in this regard. The next time you look directly at the other person. People have 7 emotions and 6 desires, and if you try to change your shyness, you will get different changes.

I believe you can walk out of a better tomorrow.

That's because you lack confidence in what you do and speak, so you are not sure about what you say and do, and you are afraid of being ridiculed, so you become afraid to speak, and your heart is closed, which causes you to be shy! Be confident. Girls and boys who are strangers are both human beings, so it's OK to treat them with a normal heart!!

In fact, everyone will be shy, and shyness is also a good thing to a certain extent, which shows that a person has a sense of shame.

But if you are very, very shy and don't even speak in front of people, I suggest you give yourself a chance to take the first step bravely, don't say no, and say to yourself that I can do it.

I used to try the podium, and the podium was like sifting chaff, but then I forced myself to go up and speak, and then it was much better.

Hehe, it means that you have a problem with your self-confidence, and this person can't help you, so you still have to solve it yourself. I believe you will get better, in fact, everything has a process, you are born to never communicate, you rely on learning step by step, don't be afraid of failure,

Then you should exercise more, and men should not be so shy and make more friends.

Go out with friends and go to public places, such as swimming pools and gyms.

It's okay to drink a little alcohol in moderation. Mahjong sometimes has to be learned, hehe. Don't stick to subsections.

You have to know a little bit about everything. If you are familiar with your own work business, you will not be so nervous if you are knowledgeable.

You can talk to what people say.

That's your own psychological problem, and you try to treat everyone as a relative or someone you know who is worse than you.

When I first started my business, I was shy and embarrassed to sell, and it was rare to make up my mind to enter a shop only to say that the boss didn't know what I was saying for a long time. But at that time, there was no money to eat, and I thought, let's die, it's better to talk to strangers than to starve to death. Then from the beginning of the boss didn't know what I was talking about, to now seeing someone who can talk to him for a long time.

lack of self-confidence; Caring too much about how you image yourself in the minds of others.

There aren't many people who believe they are taller than themselves – and that's really the case; Don't aim for perfection in everyone's mind – in fact, you can never do that.

Huh....Communicate more with others, be kind and show your strengths in front of others, give yourself a hint, try it! Very useful.

Same with me. Because you're introverted. But I'm a girl.

Judging by your text, you are not shy, on the contrary, a little bit of a bastard, o( o....Ha ha.

Try to relax and communicate with people.

Shyness is the same as a woman's pregnancy, and it will only be discovered after a long time.

It means that you like someone else.

Because I like it, because I care

It's okay to talk to people a lot.

Go online and talk to netizens. The world is all over the world.

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Summary. Hello dear, in this case, there are the following situations. One, pro, it may be, that you are a shy person, and when you encounter something embarrassing, you will feel shy.

Second, dear, it may be that you feel that others talk too much, so that you hear what people should not be saying at this age, so you feel very shy.

Hello dear, in this case, there are the following situations. One, pro, it may be, that you are a shy person, and when you encounter something embarrassing, you will feel shy. Two pat search, dear, it may be, you feel that others talk too much, so that you hear that Dong He sold what he shouldn't tease people of this age, so you feel very shy.

Three, dear, it may be, you have done something, you feel that this thing is not a public thing, you feel that you are ashamed of yourself by others, and you feel that you are too shy.

Embarrassed, shy, this is the characteristic of introverts. There was a survey in which about 40% of the more than 10,000 randomly selected investigators from Stanford University abroad were shy. The reason?

We care too much about our own feelings, are completely self-centered, and have rich thoughts and feelings, so we will think about whether this sentence should be said, and whether it is appropriate to say that sentence? What others will think of ....... When there are many people, they will completely think of themselves as a listener.

Overcome embarrassment and shyness.

1. Give yourself positive psychological cues and tell yourself that I can also talk in front of others to make myself perform better.

2. Spend more time with positive people, under their influence, you can change your shyness more quickly.

3. Read more good books, in which you can absorb some energy knowledge and information, improve your cognition and self-confidence.

Fourth, don't take yourself seriously, try to express yourself and exercise more.