Why do you have so many worries after getting married?

Silence is a string of thoughts that are difficult to tell, and may our friendship be as warm as the sunshine forever.

Getting married is not a simple matter, and you must think about your future situation. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end. With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed, and you can get along happily.

Ask the opinions of both parents to ensure that the family is harmoniousMarriage is completely different from falling in love, falling in love only requires two people to love each other, and marriage is not just a matter of two people, family factors are also very important. Before getting married, it is important to fully understand the thoughts of both parents and lay a foundation for family harmony. Now the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very tense, and many women can't get along with their mother-in-law, which leads to family conflicts and makes men don't know how to solve them.

Eventually everyone is physically and mentally exhausted, and you will want to escape from this unhappy marriage. When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is good for each other, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot.

The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's Chi Ming has a suitable personality, and if the personality is not compatible, he may put up with you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship.

Hello! The ideal is very plump, but the reality is very skinny. When we got married, we swore that we would hold the hand of our son and grow old with our son.

If you get tired of it after a few years of marriage, you're so sorry for the vow you made at the beginning. If you are tired, both husband and wife are responsible. Personally, I suggest that you spend more time on yourself and develop more hobbies.

There are many reasons why you are sad after marriage, and here are some possible reasons to talk about cautious demolition:

Anxiety about married life. Once married, men and women generally leave their parents and start new families. Since they were dependent on their parents before marriage, they felt at a loss in their lives after marriage.

The man's sense of anticipation for a new life and his attachment to a free life of celibacy are intertwined, and he is distraught. The woman, on the other hand, has a strong sense of anxiety about her new life, on the one hand, she is exhausted by the pre-marital preparations, and on the other hand, she feels uneasy about leaving her family.

It is not customary to live together after marriage and filial piety. From living alone to living together, both husband and wife are not suitable in many aspects at the beginning, such as living habits, housekeeping methods, sex, and both parties' work, thoughts, personality, interests, health, etc., there is a process of mutual adaptation and mutual adjustment, and to complete this process, both husband and wife must abandon the self-centered lifestyle.

After marriage, both parties saw the "true face of Lushan". When both parties are in love, they often idealize and idolize each other, ignoring or downplaying each other's weaknesses and shortcomings.