How to not be introverted? How can I not be introverted?

Let's talk about my own approach :

1. Get up at 5 o'clock every morning and go to the beach to read aloud your favorite books (I read the great salesman in the world).

2. Play table tennis often to give full play to your physical strength.

3. Joke with colleagues often.

4. Make friends often, feel that you are not lonely because you have a lot of friends, and be proud of your friends' abilities.

5. To promote products, you must first sell yourself.

6. Learn to control your emotions.

7. The past is not equal to the future.

8. There is no failure, only a temporary stop to success.

9. Ideas determine the way of living; Thinking determines the way out; Tolerance determines the pattern; Character determines destiny.

10. Study, learn, learn.

11. Successful knowledge and networking.

It's that you're not confident in yourself, or you're suppressing yourself.

Get out more. See what you know.

Having a bubbly friend might drive him.

No one can really change their personality.

Communicate more with others.

Express yourself naturally.

As long as you start with a simple question, everyone will be able to chat well.

It's impossible not to be introverted, resign yourself to fate, there's nothing wrong with being introverted.

When you speak, be louder and let others recognize you

Well, I have experienced, imagining the space around you as a mirror filled with mirrors, and you are the only one in between, so if you think about it, you will still be silent! Know that everyone is a mirror.

Participate in more group activities and enter more social occasions. Get out and about when you're fine, and don't stay at home all the time. Browse shops, bookstores, etc.

Tell yourself to be an extrovert!

It's to give yourself a belief!

Then slowly change the sprinkle!

Make friends and talk to people.

Be confident in yourself.

Talking nonsense. Open point, of course.

Be bold and face it.

Reach out to some friends.

When a person lacks the ability in a certain aspect, the first thing that comes to mind is to learn the skill in this aspect, thinking that with the skill, he can improve his ability in that aspect. In fact, a person's lack of ability in a certain aspect is more mainly a problem of ideology and concepts, because he has not established correct beliefs. If we don't change our thinking and establish correct beliefs, no matter how many skills we learn, it will be useless.

For example, when someone is too introverted and has a bad relationship, he will find ways to learn interpersonal skills. I learned to smile, listen, compliment, be grateful, remember other people's names, and so on, thinking that with these skills, I could improve my relationships. But it's not that simple.

The masters of interpersonal communication tell us to be loving. But too much love will make you accommodating and tolerant of the other person. And there is a limit to human patience. When you can't endure anymore, there will be a general outburst that will destroy your relationships with others.

Good relationships require courage in addition to love. Love makes you care for each other, and courage makes you brave to express yourself. Only a balance of love and courage can produce good interpersonal relationships.

Many introverts fail to have good relationships not only because of a lack of love, but also because of a lack of courage. Therefore, learning the interpersonal skills of masters like Carnegie did not help them much.

Just as a person needs to trust himself and have self-confidence in order to achieve personal success, a person needs to trust others and trust others to have good interpersonal relationships.

Some people are often criticized, reprimanded, and even physically punished by parents and teachers when they are young, or bullied and deceived by classmates and partners, so they have not been able to develop a sense of trust in others, and they are reluctant to socialize with others when they grow up. But now that you are an adult, others can't bully you, and you are no longer easy to deceive. If you want to continue to be a lone ranger like before, you don't need to change anything.

But if you want to integrate into society and have good interpersonal relationships, the first thing you need to do is to establish the belief of trusting others and develop the habit of trusting others.

You are honest and caring for others in order to win the trust of others. But you also have to have trust in others.

Trust is the foundation of interpersonal communication. Without trust, there can be no normal interpersonal interactions.

The most important thing for an introvert to interact with others is to establish the belief of trusting others and develop the courage to express themselves.

For introverts, I believe that even if you read 100 books on improving your relationship skills, it would be more helpful for you to build a belief in trusting others after reading this post.

This kind of question also needs to be anonymous.

It shows that you are really introverted and shy.

Many athletes have said that man's worst enemy is himself.

If you can't fight your inferiority, you will never be able to get out!

When I was a child, I had a similar personality to you.

But when I grew up, I gradually became a lot more cheerful.

Because I played with some cheerful girls.

Slowly, my personality became cheerful.

Break the inherent habit, call someone else's name, say hello to your classmates and not die, even if others don't agree to you, it's nothing Hehe, why bother so much?

Be an ordinary, ordinary person, no one will laugh at you.

On the contrary, you are such an extreme introvert, which is really funny.

I have participated in an outdoor group and often play together, and today I heard them talk about one thing: there was a person who participated in a mountain climbing activity because he had a fight with a person in the group on the Internet, and he walked far behind and didn't talk to anyone. He's a newcomer, no one knows him, and he doesn't take the initiative to talk to anyone.

The mountain was so high that it took hours to climb, and he didn't have enough water with him. And he drank from the brooks of the mountains. Alas, how dirty the stream is...

When someone gives him a bottle of water, he takes it and doesn't say thank you.

After listening to the story, everyone was speechless for a while, and they didn't know what to say. Just say him"Strange".

In fact, I often experience the taste of being alone, very lonely, very lonely, very dull.

When I'm in this mood, I schedule a show for myself.

Finding friends for dinner, chatting, or going to public places, chatting with strangers, even if it is teasing children, feels very fulfilling.

It's easier to meet new people, talk about topics that interest both parties, if you're a student, chat with classmates, or teachers, or whatever.

Be bold and try to take the initiative to communicate with others.