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Love him and don't be with him, so you don't have to feel too guilty.
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The true meaning of love lies in asking for nothing. Loving someone is not about getting any benefit from them, you love someone and you want to be nice to them because you feel happy. That's why we criticize this as a ruthless time, because everybody is giving their emotions as if they were in business.
When we love someone, we like to make sure that they love me first, and if they don't love me, I don't want to love them. But the other party will also think like this, so the two have to wait for the good days to slip by. Affection is a kind of giving, not a kind of getting, and you should not care about how much the other person can give you, because you have nothing in the first place. You can also sacrifice for love, but this sacrifice must be willing, not aggrieved, reluctant, and then ask the other party to repay you.
Some people say: Great love should stand the test, but since the relationship is so precious, it should be carefully cared for, rather than being tested if there is nothing to do. It's like an egg in your hand, you should take care of it, not throw it on the ground and wonder how it can break!
Don't test love, but don't be afraid of the test, and don't be afraid that the test will fail. Of course, we all hope that love can be talked about ordinarily and smoothly, and there will be no problems in a lifetime. But if love has to suffer some twists and turns, some blows, some hurts, we can also stand up and accept it.
If we do lose it, it is only superficial or formal, but we can have it forever in life. In this day and age, on the one hand, we should not overestimate love, because love does not allow us to overcome everything, to obtain everything, and not to be entirely beautiful; On the other hand, don't underestimate love, because love is a talent that everyone has, and don't be reluctant to give. When you meet someone who suits you and loves you, choose what you love and love what you choose!
Try to maintain your feelings well. But how do you measure whether love can last? Maybe there's a standard:
You are more happy than bitter in love, and it makes you more motivated than you fall. It makes you more satisfied than you want. If there is no fame, wealth, and power in life, it is still possible to be happy.
If there is no love in life, the chances of happiness are slim. Be brave enough to embrace the love you have received, and try your best to enjoy the beauty of love, and avoid the pain and hurt it will bring us. Look at it from an open-minded perspective.
If you love him, don't be his mix.
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Find a friend you two know together to talk to.
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If a person you can have again, the only thing you can do is not to forget about yourself.
One day you will find that the pain is not that you want to forget, but that when you want to remember, you can't remember anything.
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