I ve been with my boyfriend for more than two years, and now I have a lot of problems.

What are you a**?

You can tell from your words that you are disappointed in this man.

Don't push yourself. Let's first measure it from a realistic point of view, his family conditions are average, and he doesn't know anything. Life will certainly not be like that in the future.

And judging from what you're saying, he's not very interested in you either. Good man, grab a handful on the street, and still struggle with something.

Forgive me for "seeing the money and opening my eyes" first, 50 years of wealth is not something that anyone can not be tempted about.

First of all, you still have to rely on yourself in everything, and you have to consider whether to accept the opinions of others, because in the end you are responsible for yourself, whether it is good or bad.

In other words, Tang Taizong took people as a mirror because he was able to do what Confucius said, "seek oneself", and everything is two-sided.

If others are not good, you also have bad points, both subjective and objective, depending on which aspect you pay attention to.

Generally speaking, we will first see the bad things about others, but we rarely notice the bad things about ourselves.

Therefore, it is recommended that the landlord first think about whether he has something bad, if he finds that he has improved and cannot change anything, it is an objective problem, this is Confucius's "do your best, listen to the destiny of heaven", fate is not destined to give up decisively, and it is not everyone who wants to be separated from each other's pain.

Divide early and get rid of life early, get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible, what are you doing with such a man? Is there anything else about him that is worth your nostalgia for? Not to mention that he is useless to what you say now, even if he has a lot of advantages, but just because he is in love, he is in love with you but has an affair with his ex-girlfriend or other women, and his own conditions are not very rich, otherwise it will become a big deal, the suggestion is still early, the long pain is better than the short pain, ask yourself, is there really something that attracts you on his body, and now you are just in love, can you imagine what you will evolve into after you get married?

I'm afraid he will be even more unscrupulous, listen to the advice of others to eat a full meal, sister, you should think about it yourself, anyway, the final decision is still in your hands, I hope you will find your own happiness as soon as possible.

It's already possible to leave him, this man doesn't love you. And it doesn't give you dignity, you can look at yymvvmvsos's answer, he said it well, you have thrown away all your dignity and rights.

If that's the case, don't be with this guy.

Since he doesn't like you, and I think he's fake when I read this article.

Since you're not the right person, don't get married.

But some things also depend on whether you feel with him in your heart.

Whether the shoes are comfortable or not is only known to you, and the decision should be made by yourself. The meaning of "self-inflicted" is that all mistakes in life are determined by one's own choices; The meaning of "self-inflicted" is probably that you have to bear the consequences of making your own decisions, and no one can help you. There is no cause in the world, and there is no cause without effect, it is related to major life events, and it is not advisable to make hasty decisions.

A man's favorite thing is always himself. And girls will give once they love. Think carefully about whether he is the right fit for you, and if not, there is no need to continue to waste time.

You say it's all shortcomings, so what are you getting along with, and what is your reason for hesitation?

Why don't I be your new boyfriend! So I solved everything.

If only I had dumped it earlier. And will whip him hard. Dare to advance girlfriend is simply looking for death.

According to your story, I think he has always treated you as a bosom friend, not a couple. Whether your shoes fit or not, only your own feet know. I think you've made your choice......

Either break it up decisively, or make do with it.

Listen to what the problem is.

Help the other half correct the shortcomings through communication and communication; Reduce your losses in a timely manner, choose to terminate the relationship with someone who is not suitable; Lower expectations of your significant other and learn to be tolerant and understanding.

Everyone has shortcomings, but compared to these trivial shortcomings, the strengths of the other person are more noteworthy.

The reason why we choose to interact with each other is mainly because the advantages of the other party attract us, these flashes make us feel excited, but after a long time together, the shortcomings of the other party will be exposed, and slowly forget the advantages of the other party, and only care about and pay attention to the shortcomings of the other party, this transformation makes us more and more dissatisfied with "him". Always pay attention to the shortcomings of the other party, it is better to explore the advantages of the other party, and appropriately lower the expectations of the other party, which can greatly reduce the disappointment in the heart.

When you find the shortcomings of the other party, it is better to try to communicate with the other party, only communication can find the problem.

If you find the other party's problem, you should point it out in time, and only by raising the problem can you face the problem head-on; Only by facing the problem head-on can we solve the problem. The intimacy between couples is second only to that of parents, and as a person who is close to "him", he should actively help each other correct his mistakes.

When the shortcomings of the other half are unbearable, why don't we calm down and consider whether the other person is the best choice for us? Is "he" really right for him? When you stay with "him", which is more troubled or happy? Do you really like "him"?

If the answer is no, you should terminate this untimely relationship in time, and stop the loss in time is not only responsible for other people's lives, but also responsible for your own life.

Finally, I hope that we can also do "self-reflection", and only by improving ourselves can we have the ability to be worthy of a better "him".

After many years of love, I found that my boyfriend had more and more problems, at this time, I should actually calm down, everyone will have problems, the other party is the person I care about, I must learn to tolerate everything about the other party, and at the same time help the other party correct the shortcomings on the body, so that I really love each other.

Since the other party is his boyfriend, then he should be responsible for him, and the more time spent together at any time, the more he will understand, and the more the other party's shortcomings will be exposed, but this is a normal phenomenon. If you love each other enough, you must want the other person to get better, and you will help the other person change some problems, not only to make the other person more perfect, but also to make yourself more satisfied.

To love someone is to love him as a person, instead of only loving the good part of the other person and disliking the bad parts of the other person, this kind of love is definitely not true love. Since the other party is your boyfriend, then you should tolerate the other person's problems. Many times if you love someone, you will willingly accept everything from the other person, even if it is a problem, you will feel acceptable and will not cause too many problems.

Everyone is not perfect, they will have their own shortcomings, and they are no exception, since the other party has nothing to say to themselves, then don't ask too much of your boyfriend, which will affect each other's feelings. Many times we should learn to look down, so that we can live better and enjoy life better.

Loving someone should help the other person to achieve themselves better, rather than being with the other person with disgusting thoughts, which will affect each other's feelings. Having problems can help you change and grow together, but don't care too much about each other's problems, which will affect the relationship between two people, and you will not be truly happy.

You should have a good talk with your boyfriend, let your boyfriend make some changes, and you have to see more of your boyfriend's shining points, so that the relationship between the two of you will get better and better.

I think you should think about it, he may also have these problems when you are together, but it is only because the relationship between you is getting weaker and weaker, so you will find that he has more and more problems.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer this question for you, it's always good to fall in love at the beginning, the longer the time, there will be a lot of problems, just like a lot of trivial things after marriage, consultation record · on 2021-07-29

I've been with my boyfriend for two years, and I'm usually together almost every day, but now I have a lot of problems. I don't know what's wrong.

Hello, I'm happy to answer this question for you, it's always good to be in love at the beginning, and the longer it goes, there will be a lot of problems, just like a lot of trivial things after marriage, hello.

Hello. I've been with my boyfriend for four years, together every day, but I don't sleep together, is he no longer emotionally attached to me?

I had a minor surgery the other day, and he didn't care, should I give up.

He's not very busy, it's understandable if he's busy at work, but if he's numb and bored together, this needs to be considered.

He's not busy at all.

It means that from these things, he doesn't have me in his heart, right?

This is just that I don't think I care about minor surgery.

You can look at it again in other ways, such as dizziness, illness, and see how he reacts.

He would say, I haven't rested well, so let's have a cold war for a while, don't have to contact him, think about it.

Haha I believe that your relationship problems are caused by you、、、 quarrel is the most unpleasant The man who wants to quarrel with you can see that he still loves you a lot, [Now as long as he quarrels, he will be very annoyed, he always doesn't want to say anything, so he goes to sleep. That's for you.

You should think more about him, you can't just think about yourself (men are tired...) Men want their women to be like people, and when you lose your temper, you will change your image in his eyes, and you will become a shrew, and no one will like such a woman.

This is the third stage of love, "annoyance".

The relationship is like this, and it is very sweet at the beginning. But after a long time, you will get bored! But if you really love each other, keep going!

Two people together are two angular stones, constantly bumping and polishing, until each other has become smooth, and they will not bump again......Wishing you all happiness!!

His temper is made by your temper.

If you want to change the status quo, then start with your temper, and I believe he will soon become.

1. Picking the door and being diligent and thrifty must not be equated! The old man is a person who has come from the past and understands that life is not easy, so it is not a bad thing to be tighter in terms of property; Didn't you say that half of his house is estimated to have a loan, so isn't it right to open up sources and reduce expenditure?

2, your boyfriend didn't give you something on your birthday or some holidays, I personally don't think it's a big deal, if you think that giving you something means that he cares about you and cares about you, do you think this logic is convincing?

3. There is no romance in daily life. In life, we do need some romance, and romance can make us feel happy. However, maybe he is a person who doesn't understand romance, how do you make him romantic?

4. Appointments will not be arranged, they are all asked to you. It is not excluded that he is indeed a little unfocused and indecisive, but it is not excluded that he respects you. Of course, looking at your description, I think the former is more likely.

This is very bad, a man who does things without principles and plans is difficult to grasp the initiative;

5. Regarding the game, you also said that when it is time to work, he is still very serious, then it is not a problem. Nowadays, social life is fast-paced and stressful, and it is necessary to combine work and rest. It's better for him to play games than if he has nothing to do and go out for a drink or something.

In addition, he doesn't have much money in his pocket now, it should be that his parents think that he is not short of food, drink and daily expenses, so they don't give him too much pocket money, if he gets married, I believe his mother will definitely relax the control of his money appropriately.

The so-called life is the truth when it is ordinary! There are no perfect people in the world, everyone has shortcomings, but as long as people are affordable! If you are dissatisfied, talk to him!

Ask yourself what you want, and I personally think that only a mature man is qualified to talk about marriage.

Suggestion: You must watch 10 episodes of Love Defense Battle today. I'm sure you know what to do.

A word for you: don't get married early. Even if you get married, you should be independent and don't live with your parents-in-law.

If you are in love, you must bring firewood, rice, oil and salt to fall in love, so that you can know whether it is suitable for marriage. Girls should not be too materialistic, just have a house. In much matter is not your own after all.

The wealth you create is truly your own. I wish you happiness.

Think about it in the future, is this kind of life what you want, will he change it in the future, how much place do you occupy in his heart, think about it yourself...

In fact, this is the man who can live.