I m so annoying, everyone read it carefully and told me what to do and how to adjust my mentality

What the upstairs said is so correct, such people are all dead to save face, always watching what others say, doing their own business, and caring what others do. Go your own way and let others say go! What do you care about them, the big husband can bend and stretch in order to do a big career, go to the college entrance examination well, if you can't take the exam well this year, what are you afraid of!

There is still a long way to go, but I have caused trouble for myself and troubles for myself. You need to change yourself, and it will be difficult for people like you to achieve great things in society in the future. Hurry up and change yourself!

Rabindranath Tagore said, "We see the world wrong, and whoever says it deceives us.""

I think you need to calm down now and figure out what you're doing now, what you need to do most urgently. Orient yourself. Obviously, your top priority is the college entrance examination, so you should put aside all distractions and go all out to prepare for the exam.

If you are admitted to a prestigious university, maybe that girl will take the initiative to ask you out! If you lose your name, it will be even more hopeless, do you say? Feelings are reluctant, let it be!

What should be yours is yours after all, and you can't ask for it if it's not yours. Leave the stolen matter to the school to deal with, don't let this kind of trivial matter be distracted, just look at it with a normal heart, and it's not a lot of money, it's not worth it to miss the college entrance examination for this little thing, and you have to be a man who can afford to put it down.

Finally, I would like to send you two sentences:

Don't be shocked by the humiliation, watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court; Go and stay without intent on looking at the clouds in the sky.

Go your own way and let others do the talking!

Life is not going to go as planned.

The same is true for peace of mind.

Haha: It turned out to be this bird problem.

Read the book well first.

Girls The little boy is soft-skinned.

Talk to him more, talk to him, talk to him, spend some time with him, and see if she's what you want.

If you really feel it, talk about how you feel.

But everybody is under a lot of pressure right now, so it's good to give you the answers after graduation and then get along.

You don't want to be disturbed by the outside world, if she likes you, she won't put pressure on you, don't restrain your thoughts now, do what you want, but don't connect with learning, one thing is one thing, don't connect it.

Where do you come from? The first thing is that you're being amorous, and there's no way you think a girl who you like will be open? I'm Khan, who do you like when you look at people directly?

The second thing is to ask him directly if he takes it or not, and he says that if he doesn't take it, he will beat him, (note that this is just to vent your unhappiness, but only if you know if you are sure that you can win a fight with him.)

3rd You go home to review Isn't there enough time? I'll go to her if I'm fine! But learning can't; Pull it down! The best way is to cook raw rice and cook it ripe, and everything will be OK, I really don't understand why you are so weak.

I'll tell you, people like you live the most tired, I'm also a person like you, coughing for fear that others will misunderstand that they have opinions on his words, after living too tired, I researched, in fact, you don't have to care so much about what others think of you, because they don't have this concept, so they don't think that you don't care about their feelings, so you just do it according to your own heart!

Don't think too much, why don't you have a wife. It's not worth it to influence the college entrance examination for adolescent girls. As for the second thing you said, since you have already said that no one believes in you, it is better for you not to make any more noise, and to be careful as a loss.

Finally, let me tell you a word, everything you are doing now is fake, only the admission to college is true. Think about it, when you go to college, you may never see these nasty people or things again. There is a saying that "you don't know each other when you leave school", why bother with this.

It's better to study honestly and talk less.

Finally, I wish you the title of the gold list!!

It's not that I'm talking about you, it's okay, but now many people are like this, saying that they have a problem with their mentality at every turn, maybe there are too many relevant psychologists or success mentors. If you go to the doctor's office, you'll find that there's no place in your body that isn't sick, but it's normal. I don't feel like I need to go home and adjust my mentality;

Such a thing is not a matter at all.

I think it's you and yourself who can't get by

First, the problem of girls, I think you really want others, but because of some objective factors and women's inexplicable psychology, you can't find the right exit in your heart, so you are very annoyed. I feel that my left and right mentality is not very stable and balanced.

It's all a bit of a past, and I don't think you have to do anything about it. Let it be, and I'm sure that's what the girl was hoping for.

Second, the problem of theft should be dealt with by the principal, and if it is not handled well, call 110 if necessary.

These are all very real problems, even if you have a good mentality, it will not help, it is better to do what you should do as soon as possible.

I really don't understand that people nowadays say that they have a bad mentality and are depressed at every turn

is like Liu Chuanzhi said, "Who dares to say who is very mature?" "Again, who dares to say himself.

Have a good mentality?

Understand you very well. But the big war is coming, don't let trivial things mess with your mind. Actually, you should be glad.

Fortunately, this happened ten days before the college entrance examination, and you still have time to adjust. If it happens a few days before the college entrance examination, you will be miserable, right? Regarding that girl, if she really has a deep relationship with you, she will not give up on you because of this little thing, and if she really gives up on you because of this, it doesn't matter if you don't pay it, what you have to do now is to actively memorize the exam.

I'm also an introvert, don't dare to express yourself bravely in the face of the girl I like, don't be sad, don't be sad, as long as you have your personal charm, there will be a girl who really belongs to you to face you, people grow up in setbacks and failures, as for the dormitory, I feel that there is no need to pursue it, if it is he took it, spend 90 yuan to understand a person, it's worth it, it's much better than meeting him in the future, be more careful in the future, if it's not for him to take it, just take the sinking to resolve this unhappy past, Time dilutes everything, doesn't it? Believe in yourself, believe in your charm, take a deep breath, look at the blue sky, see the white clouds, use more time to devote yourself to studying, you will get a good grade, you have a good university in the future, you will have a very good job in the future, you will also harvest your future better wife, work hard, friend, for your future, don't think about those trivial things, the future belongs to you!

Since it's the college entrance examination.

Then don't think about anything.

It's now.

Immerse yourself in learning Riba.

After time allows you to enter the society, you will feel that the current troubles are a rare happy time, and I will send you a poem-

If life deceives you.

Pushkin. If life has deceived you, don't be depressed, and don't be indignant!

Tolerate it when it doesn't go your way, believe it! Happy days will come.

Our hearts are always looking forward, even though we are living in a gloomy present.

Everything is temporary and fleeting;

And what is gone will become lovely.

comfort…How can there be so many misunderstandings ......Pay attention to the adjustment, the college entrance examination.

First of all, you have a crush on that girl, don't you? So you tend to think of some of her behaviors as you want them to be. Most girls express their emotions in a more subtle way, of course, they don't want to be seen through their hearts, so she doesn't necessarily like you!

You'll find out soon enough. Don't think about it now, let's talk about it after the college entrance examination.

Secondly, the truth of stealing will come out sooner or later, and you are not afraid of shadows, everyone's eyes are still bright. Believe in you, you have to be confident!

Therefore, it is worth the loss to destroy the mood of exam preparation. I wish you success in the college entrance examination.

Oh no! Not a psychologist!

Reach out to this girl as you go home and review and explain your situation to her and she'll understand.

You can analyze the source: such as work, interpersonal relationships, family conflicts, etc., if you can find the source, you can try to calm down the matter as much as possible, if not, you can leave temporarily, and let yourself get out of the high-pressure environment first.

If you have a bad mentality, you will be nervous and overwhelmed, and in this case, it may be that you are more insecure and have no self-confidence. Sometimes, you must not panic when encountering problems, you must learn to let things be in your own hands, and you can think and deal with things calmly, and if you can't deal with them, you can seek help from people around you.

Poor mentality is because the blow you encountered is relatively small, in the past, when you encountered difficult things, your parents will help you solve them, even if you leave your parents, your dependence on your parents has not changed, so when you encounter difficulties, the first thing you want them to help you solve.

If you encounter something in the future, whether it is big or small, you should not ask your parents for their opinions, and after a long time, your mentality will improve.

Be quiet and think about why this is happening, you can also go out for a walk, change your mood, do more things you like, and divert your attention.

If you have a bad state of mind and don't know how to adjust, you can follow the advice of a psychological counselor, and then gradually alleviate your bad mood and slowly find a way to adjust.

If you can't control your mentality, then how do you deal with work and relationships? You have to learn to be in control.

If you have a bad mentality, you should try to improve yourself and try to adjust your mentality to the best state.

If you are upset, look up at the starry sky in the sky, although the sky is not so bright now, but remember a word, forget the stones under your feet, because those will always be stepped on by you, become a thing of the past, as far as you wind, even if you shout loudly behind you, it is just a gust of wind. Remember your steps, one day you will stand on the top of the mountain, look at those things and people in the past, and then be proud of the indifference and enterprising heart at that time. Or you can quarrel with them every day, and then you may be bruised, you may win, and then, when you win, you will find that your youth, your dreams, your hopes, have become garbage in the ditch, and finally when you are old, you find that you have not gained anything.

If you are a beggar and people say, work hard, you will become an emperor, do you believe it? If you are a scoundrel and people say that one day you will be self-serving, do you believe it? If I say that one day, you will be the happiest person you think you are, would you believe it?

If you have studied history, you will know that the beggar who became the emperor is called Zhu Yuanzhang, and the hooligan who became the emperor is called Liu Bang. I don't know what your name is, although these two people are one in ten thousand, but I feel that being generous, looking farther, and living a happy life will not be more difficult for you than their road to the emperor. I hope you have a happy life.

You've been here for ten years, why do you still hold a grudge now when the old man doesn't have many days? Like you said, she's already got retribution, isn't she? Perhaps the misfortunes of your childhood are seeking happiness for the rest of your life.

If you always hold a grudge against a person in the past, isn't it impossible to get along with yourself, what's the use of holding grudges, others are still the same, it is better to live your own life happily. Frequent grudges can also lead to depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and so on. Relax your mindset and your life will be fine in the future.

Friend, I understand your current mood very well, as for the old lady what she has done is indeed very excessive, as for you can't care about her, just as she has Alzheimer's disease, as a person, kindness is the most important thing, if there is no kindness then life will be very painful, life is short, there is no need to let yourself live in hatred, you have to let yourself live happily, learn to understand others.

My grandfather was worse than your grandmother when he was alive, in his eyes everyone was a danger to society, even to my parents, for example, my parents gave him a birthday material and almost went to prison, or the coffin prepared for him He went to sue my father countless times, and he couldn't say anything else, if you can be a friend, 136 The number is me**, 083 have time to send a message, 22 I hope to be friends with you 373

Landlord, after listening to the story, I am very sympathetic to your experience. We are not saints, we can't be tolerant of the world, but, think for yourself, you are so young and have a long way to go, the more serious you are, the more you can't extricate yourself from the more painful, try to look down on everything from this moment, gains and losses, grievances and grievances just pass by like a movie. Keep an indifferent heart, do everything with peace of mind, and think about anything to open, it's not a thing.

The old and the old, the young and the young. People are doing it, the sky is watching, let go of all distractions, and what you think in your heart will naturally come

I've endured it for 10 years, so don't care about this time. As for people, send people under the fence. There will be suffering, too. Good people will also be rewarded. Let's live a normal life with a normal heart. Don't get carried away by hatred. Take the wrong path in your life.