What should I do if I feel very insecure? See supplement for details!!

You know your problems very well, and your problems are the problems of many people.

Do you know why your parents do this to you? Because they are also insecure, they must turn you into a cowardly and obedient child, such a child will obediently not leave them and listen to their commands, which is a completely insecure relationship. So insecurity is not only you, most people in this society are like this.

Now that you know the reason, you have to break free from it. You see, in today's society, almost all people can't trust each other, that is, we all live in an environment where we blame each other and have no love. These are what you call the cause of insecurity.

The more a person seeks security, the more cowardly he will live, and he will be afraid of danger or harm, but this is also an opportunity to hinder the upward improvement of our lives, and we cannot open up our lives more, which is also the problem you encounter today.

Now that you know what the problem is, you have to take a brave step. Don't hide in the dark, interact with others and trust each other, rest assured that others will not hurt you, only you will hurt you.

The more you interact with others, the more you will find a sense of security. It turns out that the acquisition of a sense of security is in that complete trust, and that experience is incomparably beautiful.

Try it, you won't have anything to lose, but you'll get a lot of friendships.

Care more about the people around you, and what you give out is your own. Finding a reliable man to fall in love with is not a problem.

Hello, generally speaking, this is a psychological problem, and the cause may be related to the environment in daily life and one's own personality and behavioral factors. It is necessary to pay attention to maintaining a good attitude and self-regulation and inhibition. If the symptoms are severe and cannot be relieved by self-regulation, it is advisable to consult a psychologist in person.

Belong to the psychological shadow, participate in some activities organized by the school; Don't get old and think about the past.

Since you are at ease in learning, you can enhance your own quality while learning, where there is no grass in the world, why bother with a green onion! I wish you all the best if you find yourself soon! Happiness always belongs to the prepared strongman!

Now the social pressure is high, everyone is talking about the problem of security, everyone is actually insecure, in fact, is not confident, to build their own self-confidence, if you do not correct the mentality in time, it is really to be included in the mental disorder, there is a borderline personality disorder, now people's common psychological disorders, lack of security, loneliness will be depressed,,, mentality to adjust themselves.

Nothing is impossible.,Be cheerful yourself.,Look for a boy who really loves you.,A boy who can really be responsible.。。 You'll be a lot happier, but first you have to be happy. Tell yourself every day, "I will definitely find the person who loves me the most in my life!!

After the lunch break, he gave it to me in front of everyone, and went to his house last week, usually he is very busy, and he was going to have a good rest, but I always made a fuss, he didn't sleep well, and it was because he talked about things in the future at night, and I asked him if he was sure he could bear my character?

Angry told me that he knew that I went to his house for fun, but he wanted to show his heart, the last day back to Nanchang, he had a black face in the car, my phone fell into her sister's bag, he chased him over to get it, the things I ordered were not delicious, he said with a black face that he ate him.

I think he's always tolerating me, and I've learned to care about him, but yesterday I saw him post a ** that he practiced with that young lady in the circle of friends, and I was very jealous, but I didn't know how to deal with this matter reasonably. I think there are many girls in our lives who are like this girl, who have gained and lost love for each other. There are a lot of similar letters from my backstage every day, because I am insecure, so I hope that the other party can unconditionally satisfy my sense of security.

I would like to talk about the manifestations and characteristics of insecure people.

Summary. Manifestations of insecurity At work, you will meet people who like to seek their identity and role by showing off their unusual relationship with their boss, which is called insecure people in psychology.

Specifically, it is manifested in: psychological insecurity, excessive self-esteem, and limited self-ability; They often think that they are not easy to surpass others in terms of ability, so they lack self-confidence and do not know how to stand in their own team, so they will take other ways to highlight their value.

Manifestations of insecurity At work, you will meet people who like to seek their identity and role by showing off their unusual relationship with their boss, which is called insecure people in psychology. Specifically, it is manifested in:

Psychological insecurity, excessive self-esteem, and limited self-ability; They often think that they are not easy to surpass others in terms of ability, so they lack self-confidence and do not know how to stand in their own team, so they will take other ways to highlight their value.

In order to achieve some purpose for the individual. As soon as the focus and special relationships he creates in himself go unnoticed, he will turn to fabricating other people's so-called "inside information" in order to show that he is superior. They are especially fond of spreading "gossip" about interpersonal communication between the upper echelons, because these "gossip" are often unverifiable and easy to be believed; And through these news, he can also raise his own "unique value".

Therefore, once the people around him believe him, they will spread falsehoods, but cause some kind of harm to the protagonist of that rumor.

Whatever the reason, the most important thing to do with such people in your daily work is to maintain a good attitude. As long as you are not greedy and do not worship power, it doesn't matter what kind of relationship exists between others and your boss, let alone whether this relationship is true or false, and you can't be hurt. If someone really shows off these special relationships in front of you, then there is no need to dwell on them, just one sentence:

If you're so capable, why are you still in the same office with me? This sentence of your righteousness can leave him speechless.

I was very annoyed at school, I even thought about suicide, I was distrusted by my teachers and even my parents, I felt that the whole world didn't care about me, I was particularly insecure, I didn't want to talk to my roommates in the dormitory, I would rather be alone.

I can't say why.

Did you talk to your parents.

You have to turn to them and let them help you, after all, it's your parents, will they not help you?

Didn't talk about a lack of communication with parents.

No matter what I think is my own reason.

If you have difficulties, you must ask for help from your parents.

Don't be too inferior, be confident, and have your own ideas.

In general, the strong.

They are all full of self-confidence, because the strong are superior to others in some way. Most ordinary people are also full of self-confidence, because ordinary people will have a Q mentality, always thinking that they are superior to others in some aspects. It is precisely people who have no self-confidence who feel that they are inferior to others in everything, and are afraid of being ridiculed by others, resulting in an inferiority complex, which makes them lack self-confidence and a sense of security.

Most of the time, people with such a personality are generally more extreme, and because they are often based on such self-psychological suggestion, once they break out, they may be extreme.

In fact, you don't have to be afraid, it's a normal psychological situation!

Face the mirror every morning and do autosuggestion, telling yourself in the mirror, "I'm going to do well today, I'm going to be good today, I'm going to make a new friend today," and so on.

Slowly find your self-confidence!!

In love, many girls are prone to insecurity and gain and loss, how to solve it?

Be confident and don't overthink it. The soldiers will block the water to cover the earth, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge. Believe that you can be independent.

First of all, I can do a small thing independently, so that I can have confidence and a sense of achievement, in fact, I can do it, but it is not as complicated as I imagined. Then gradually develop your own independence. When you are empty, divert your attention, write homework, learn English, make more friends, communicate with friends, or cultivate some other hobbies such as singing, dancing, sports, piano, chess, calligraphy and painting.

There are some people around me who don't have fathers, they are very strong, and they have made a difference in life, I wish you to overcome yourself and surpass yourself!

I'm also insecure, but not as bad as you, I used to have low self-esteem, I always thought I was inferior to others, and I didn't want to be in contact with strangers. But you have to try to change, and when you succeed in something, you will find that it can increase your self-confidence. Try to make yourself independent, if you are always so dependent on others, your heart will be very fragile, you will not be able to withstand the wind and rain, a little setback can defeat you, try to be independent, contact with people more, I wish you all the best.

How do you feel a little like me, introverted, you have to do something that can make you feel fulfilled, chat with people more, learn to protect yourself so that you are not afraid, it is useless to be afraid, you don't know what to do when things happen, you know that you are afraid, there are acquaintances who often walk and play, try to follow it, a little risky, but there are acquaintances, safe, and you can practice it, good.