The boyfriend firmly said that he broke up, how to redeem it

Updated on psychology 2024-02-11
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Look carefully at every word I say to you!

    I understand that when you go to him, he is in a state of extreme anger, and he is in a bad mood! If you want to save this long-lost love, you must take the initiative to tell him that you want to see what you are with! If he resolutely breaks up.

    It's just a little bit of a trivial matter that you will understand, but if you do it resolutely, you should take the initiative to say, yes. Just leave, and you'll be distraught when you leave! Makes sense!

    But what's the point of being with someone who doesn't understand himself and doesn't understand his lover! You say yes! There is a good saying, it is better to find someone I love than to find someone who loves me!

    I hope you can understand each other, care for each other, and find that long-lost love! There will always be small hills in love, and you always have to cross to see the style in front of you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In his current state, he is tired of you, and his long-term patience has exploded, and it is impossible to go on like this for a long time, and for the last time, give yourself one last chance, and you will be tough and say: If you still can't change it, you don't need to say anything, I will leave quietly. The first is to show an unprecedented resolute attitude, and the second is to show that the attitude is somewhat aggrieved and seeking perfection.

    Maybe you can touch him a little That proves that you are not suitable You need to find a person who can tolerate you The best person who loves you (chasing you) Understanding this sentence is of great help to you now and you in the future Love is like quicksand The tighter you hold it, but it will only lose faster! Love is a very high-tech thing, come on, come on, I wish you success, I wish you happiness

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Feelings cannot be forced. You also said that you have been in a relationship for 6 years, it is not easy to talk for 6 years, you have faced a lot together, experienced a lot, and the feelings must be very deep, he said that he hates you when he sees you, and he is also angry, maybe the psychology does not think like this. You just give him time, don't stick to him all the time these days, leave some space, you all think about it.

    Calm down, you take the initiative to apologize, move him with actions, and say everything you want to say. You guys have a good conversation. I wish you happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You seem to have sent it once.

    A turnip, a pit, You choose the wrong man, hum yourself, After reading your story, I know that you are a woman of the kind of character I like.

    Will live but have a big nerves.

    It should be very principled.

    And it's more innocent and pure.

    But I don't think there's any tacit understanding between your boyfriend and you.

    It's not that your boyfriend isn't a good man or anything.

    It just feels like you don't fit well.

    If you really want to make it back, don't be too tired.

    Then change and let yourself become a feeling that suddenly brightens his eyes.

    There will be a new understanding from the senses and psychology, and the change starts with the appearance and packaging.

    Then, get him to accept the promise in a way that you wouldn't have promised before.

    That is to say, the so-called 2 hedgehogs fall in love, and one of the hedgehogs begins to pull out the thorns, which is a very painful thing. The other party is a man, and if he has a strong sense of responsibility, he shouldn't do something disgusting.

    Also, we should be persistent but principled in dealing with feelings!!

    Look at Jenny in Forrest Gump, and compare it with Forrest Gump, and you will get the answer.

    Life is like chocolate, you never know what the next one will taste like haha.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you can't let it go, it won't be able to keep you going. Now that it's here, it's impossible to get it back. Everyone else has broken up, so it means that you are really not suitable for him.

    If you barely do it once, can you guarantee that there will be no next time you propose to break up? As long as you exist, there will be a day before you exist. Long pain is better than short pain, break up.

    Let's face it. If everything could be undone, it wouldn't have gotten to this point. Learn how to deal with it.

    And know how to face your life!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Too many promises have been made. He didn't believe me anymore"

    My letter and childishness. He forgave me when I broke up n times"

    He even said he hated it when he saw me"

    Can't let go of 6 years of affection"

    It can be seen from the above that he was indeed a little tired from being tossed because of many such small contradictions.

    And these small contradictions, in fact, are not a big deal, and there is no real thing in principle.

    So, I don't think your boyfriend will let go of a six-year relationship easily and you can see it.

    He cares about you a lot, and he doesn't want to be separated from you, otherwise he won't forgive many times, but you do need to adjust yourself and adjust your relationship with your boyfriend.

    Start trying to change yourself now, change your thinking and your way of doing things.

    Give him some time, give him some space, let him be quiet and quiet, lest the more he is in a hurry to find him, the more angry he becomes.

    Of course, to give him time and space, to be quiet, is not to give up on him, but to pay attention to him silently on the side.

    Care for him, take care of him, and make him feel that your warmth is always there.

    For example, I often ask for warmth, and after being together for so long, I must know him better.

    When does he need warmth, he needs help, he needs you to be with him, and so on.

    In the days to come.

    When you want to do something, think about the other person first, and think about him a lot, for example, how he would feel if he did this; If he did that, he wouldn't mind.

    Slowly, he found that you were more considerate, more sensible, and liked it more.

    Don't be in a hurry, for the existence of some problems, give both sides time, give both sides the process, don't rush.

    Take your time, stick to it and he will see what you have done for him.

    If you want to be consistently good to him, then time will help you solve this contradiction.

    I wish you both a speedy reconciliation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Wow, it's been six years, and it's really hard to let go. Sometimes it's yours that is yours, even if you let go of him, he will come to you, and if he feels that you are worth letting him endure all your shortcomings and is willing to spend the rest of his life with you, there is no need to redeem it. In fact, this is also a test for you, if you give your sincerity, but he is still indifferent, then even if you go on, it will be just as difficult.

    You'll just as much worry about the problems that come later.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't talk about reconciliation yet, ask him out to a quiet place to talk, talk about your 6 years, and finally ask him if this time? You can't be too willful to correct it! If he still doesn't get along, it's possible that he really doesn't love you anymore. I wish you success, my lord!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Do you think he loves you? If you think he loves you, don't give up – you should ask him if he still likes you? Ask him if he can let go of his six-year relationship?

    If he says yes, you give up and don't want this kind of person who doesn't pay the responsibility The man in this world said yes Don't give up everything for one person It's not worth it No matter how much others say, it's useless Look at your own heart Don't think too much Follow your heart Come on.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Prove it with practical actions and influence him. Even if he ignores you, you can be caring, gentle and considerate.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you want to get away with it, if you can persevere, and he still ignores you, it means that he has no love, so what's the point of redeeming it? If he turns around, please admit your mistake first. Cherish it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Let go of what should be done! Barely can't get happiness, instead of this, why not let go happily, let the two of them feel better, and each of them will find their own happiness

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you don't have a feeling of trust, you won't be happy if you get it, what's the use of redeeming it, it's better to wait for a while to calm down and think about it, maybe it's too difficult for you, but what can you do?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Not everything can be reversed.,It's all your own making.,I'm his words have already ended with you.,There's a limit to people's endurance.。。。

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The lingering love is not worth nostalgia, and you must let it go if you can afford it, otherwise it will only make him look flat, and he will have a shadow in his heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, I think maybe you are not suitable, you should try to let go, maybe you will find the love that truly belongs to you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Feelings are something that can't come reluctantly, if he really doesn't care about your previous feelings, it's useless if you can't let go of yourself, I hope you can be happy!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Sister. He has no feelings for you anymore, you say he hates you when he sees you now, how can you still be together? Alas.. Anyway, I hope you are happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can't change it, at least not for long.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you're telling the truth, he basically doesn't love you anymore, renew a relationship, why care about someone who doesn't love him, right?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Emotional matters are always the most difficult to do. The place of the heart is home, can he give you that feeling? Think about it!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What you have to think about clearly is: putting aside the 6 years of relationship, do you really love him? And does he really love you?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Help him do as much as he can.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When your boyfriend firmly talks about breaking up, you may feel hopeless and helpless. However, don't give up easily, because it is possible to redeem lost love. First of all, you need to calm down and don't make any decisions when you're feeling down.

    Next, you need to find the reason for the breakup, and if it is your fault, then you need to apologize to your boyfriend and promise to change it. If it is your boyfriend's fault, then you need to express your thoughts and feelings firmly and let him know your worth and needs.

    When facing a breakup, you need to put your best foot forward. Keep a positive attitude, constantly improve your charm and attractiveness, and make your boyfriend realize your value and importance. You can improve your charisma by changing your image, learning new skills, participating in social events, and more.

    In addition, you can also salvage the love by maintaining good communication with your boyfriend. Don't dwell on it too much, but don't be too distant either. Maintain appropriate distance and respect, but also express your feelings and needs.

    You can share your life and hobbies with your boyfriend so that he can feel your uniqueness and charm.

    Finally, it is important to remember that it takes time and effort to recover lost love. Don't take chances, and don't give up. Maintain a strong belief and a positive attitude to believe that you can win your boyfriend's heart again.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you want to redeem it, you have to understand what makes your boyfriend unhappy, so he said to break up.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    When a boyfriend proposes to break up, our first reaction can be sadness, anger, and despair. However, if you really want to salvage the relationship, the best way is to calmly analyze the reasons and then take positive action.

    First of all, you need to understand what the reasons for the breakup are. Maybe it's because of poor communication, a lack of mutual understanding, or because of the pressures of life. Whatever the reason, you need to accept the reality and think about how to fix the problem.

    Second, you need to give each other some space and time. In the days or weeks after the breakup, you need to calm down, think about your feelings, and give him time to think as well. During this time, don't try to contact him, as this may make him feel more upset.

    Once the two of you have calmed down, you can try to reconnect. You can apologize to him, express your feelings, and let him know that you are willing to make changes for the sake of your relationship. However, you need to be careful not to put pressure or threats on him, as this may make him more alienated from you.

    Finally, you need to make changes. If your breakup is because of your behavior or attitude, then you need to work on changing yourself. You can seek help and advice, attend counselling or self-growth classes to improve your situation.

    If you can demonstrate self-change motivation and practical actions, then your relationship may improve.

    It takes effort and patience to save a relationship. You need to analyze the problem carefully, give each other space and time, and take positive action. If you really want to save the relationship, then you need to make an effort to have him come back to you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    1.First of all, it is necessary to understand the reason for your boyfriend's breakup, whether it is due to poor communication between you or other conflicts. If that's the case, you can try to have a good talk with him, listen to his opinion on the relationship, and find a solution to the problem.

    2.If your boyfriend breaks up because someone else or because his feelings for you have faded, it may take more effort to get it back. You can try to give him some space and not pester him too much, but also don't cut off contact completely, and show your care and warmth appropriately.

    3.At the same time, you can also try to change yourself, improve your attractiveness, and make him re-notice your strengths and charms. Try changing your hairstyle, wearing new clothes, or learning some new skills to show off your versatility and make him feel good about you.

    4.The most important thing is to be firm in your beliefs and determination. Don't give up what you really want, and if you're sure that there's something worth salvaging in the relationship, don't let it go easily and try all kinds of ways to salvage the relationship until you get the result you want.

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