I broke up, what should I do with the gift from my former boyfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My method is:

    When you think about him, let yourself think about him, let yourself cry when you want to cry, and things are the same, don't do superfluous things, just let it go.

    If you think about it too much, you will get used to it, cry too much, and if you cry again, you really don't feel it, anyway, don't give it back to him, this can only mean that you care about him anymore, and you are not a person.

    Remember that the opposite of love is not to hate but to forget.

    Just balance your mindset and treat him like a stranger and deal with his stuff.

    That way you'll never regret your decision.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's up to you to see how you feel, if what you leave behind can only hook up your bad memories, then throw them away, and if you leave behind good memories that seem to make you uncomfortable now, then seal them away.

    Wait until you open it later, and you will feel that there was once someone who loved you so much.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    These fond memories should be in your mind!

    What if you give it back to him?

    Let's stay as a memento!

    Remember these good memories, I believe you will remember them for the rest of your life.

    It's inevitable to feel sad in the city, because you still love this love.

    Isn't it sad for him to return things?

    Believe that time is the best medicine.

    Bless you

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can send it all to him directly in a package, so that the medicine will be completely broken, and the pain will be better faster without those things in the eyes.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can choose to seal it up or give it back to him

    If you want to start your new life, then don't use it, seal it up, give it back to him, and start your new life!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Keep it and then slowly feel that there is nothing to be sad about.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Send it back? You're stupid.

    It's better to burn it or just throw it in the garbage pile.

    But I personally suggest that things are also bought with money, don't waste them).

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What a good memory, don't learn to enjoy, not competitive.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hung on the ** above and sold.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you want to give it to him, then he won't trouble you later, and you don't have to worry about some things, these things are just things outside your body.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You must give it to him, otherwise if you keep it, you will think of the other person and increase your sadness.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Not necessarily, if you feel that you have given a lot of gifts to the other party, ** are almost equal, you can also not give them to the other party.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In this case, it's useless to keep it, just return it to him. Why keep these things to bore yourself even more.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The psychology of children, this kind of man must be a very selfish person, after breaking up, he feels that the other party is worthless, so he wants to get back the money spent on the other party, in this way to reduce his losses.

    Such men feel really inauthentic, they feel that they have not received affection, or they have not continued with the other party, and they have to claim back their so-called investment.

    First of all, the boy spent money for the girl for love, and even said that he was spending money for his own woman, but now she is no longer his own woman, so isn't this money in vain.

    Different boys will have different practices, and some boys may choose to get the money back, especially some valuable items, which must be returned to me, and this part of the boys belongs to the kind of boys who are more concerned about things.

    I can't say that boys with this kind of character are bad, but they will leave a not very friendly impression on girls, I think since it's a couple, we should still leave a good memory for each other, whether it comes together or not, after all, there have been good memories, and it should be the right to pay for your mistakes.

    At the stage of love, many boys will give some valuables, and I have to say that these items should still be tactfully returned, after all, this is not only a gift, but also a bet.

    Use this kind of valuable item to express your determination to love, but since you are not together in the end, you have to return the gift, at this time, there is another problem, that is, some girls who love money may not be willing to return this valuable gift.

    There are no laws and regulations at present, and you can only see the negotiation between the two sides.

    Different people have different choices, I hope our choices are from the heart, on the basis of not hurting feelings, the beauty of the past, is the memory you cherish each other, although it is said that you have broken up now, but that year and that month of gratitude is that she is accompanying herself, after all, items and money are things outside the body, don't hurt the harmony.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When couples are in love, they will give gifts every New Year's holiday, and after the relationship is not good, do you want to return the gifts given to you by your ex? It depends on the breakup situation and the attitude of the other party, and the specific situation is treated on a case-by-case basis, and it will be better to return it if it is more valuable.

    Look at the value of the gift, look at the other party's attitude, if the value of the gift is too large, it is better to return the family, it is not easy for anyone to make money, the gift was given to you, and the value is so big that your boyfriend still cares about you, we should also take the initiative.

    The other party loves you, naturally these gifts are actively sent to you, it is his heart, he will naturally not ask you to ask, asking you to ask you is equivalent to hurting you, so he will not want it, if you automatically return it to him, it is not necessary, because after all, it is his heart, he will not take back. If the other party doesn't love you, he will naturally not suffer, he will take the initiative to go back, then return it to him, and the two will not owe each other.

    1. The practice of returning the gift is very ungentlemanly, maybe he just doesn't want to be nice to you anymore, but after all, it is for you, he wants you to return it, there is no need to entangle too much.

    2. At this time, you should return these original gifts to your boyfriend, after all, some gifts may be more expensive, so he wants to return.

    3. Then return it to him, and at the same time ask him for mental damages, and you can't accompany him for so long in vain.

    I'll throw it away, of course, depending on how you break up, if you break up peacefully, you can still be friends, of course you can keep gifts as memories.

    I think everyone's reasons for breaking up are different, and their attitudes towards their exes are also different, and I think all the gifts given by your ex-boyfriend are also different, and you can understand how you deal with them.

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