My grandfather was probably going to die in a few months

It can be seen that you are facing your grandfather's imminent death and don't know how to help his confusion.

I don't know if you know Buddhism. Those who study Buddhism have learned from Buddhist scriptures that life and death are not in this life. People are going to die, but the current physical body can no longer be used, and after death, they will go to reincarnate and find a new body.

However, there is a difference in karmic retribution, and I don't know which one I can be reborn into. In the six realms of reincarnation, sentient beings are in such a constant rotation.

Then, when Grandpa is seriously ill, the most filial way is to persuade him to learn Buddha and recite the name of "Amitabha", so as to persuade him to live in the blissful world of Amitabha Buddha. When a person is dying, if the last thought is to recite "Amitabha", then Amitabha Buddha must come with the bodhisattvas and saints of Elysium to guide this person, rebirth in Elysium, and lotus rebirth.

If a person can be reborn in Elysium, it is the greatest blessing. From now on, he will no longer suffer from birth, old age, sickness and death in the six reincarnations.

Do you have any people around you who are studying Buddhism? If so, ask them for advice, or look for more information on the Internet that should be taken care of to help people die in Elysium. Then, your filial piety is really the great filial piety of the world.

When a loved one is sick, it is a great test for both himself and his family. The torture of illness cannot be replaced, and no one wants their relatives to die because of the persistence of family affection.

However, it is impossible not to face reality. Then, if the whole family can be vegetarian and recite the Buddha, it will be in the greatest interest to the person who is going to die. Even if we cry and grieve our attachments are nothing more than doing something wrong, and they can only cause the person who is going to leave to live in nostalgia and attachment, and only make him fall into the evil path.

The best way is to let go of attachment and crying, give him the confidence and desire to live in the Elysian World, and always concentrate on the name of Amitabha Buddha to help him succeed in his death.

The Amitabha Sutra and the Amitayus Sutra have a detailed introduction to the Elysian World, and the old Master of Pure Space also explains it, and many of the monks also explain it. If you really want to help grandpa, then it is necessary for you to take a look first.

Before the old man was alive, he should do a good job of filial piety, otherwise it would be too late to regret it after he left.

When communicating with grandpa, you can be grateful to him, grateful for the difficulties of his life, his contribution to the family, and his care and teaching ......for his children and grandchildrento make him understand that everyone loves him and appreciates him. As the eldest grandson, you must be very important in your grandfather's heart, so accompany the old man more, do what you can for him, wash him, feed him water, eat, take urine and urine, etc., all of which are filial piety. Or, not saying anything, just silently accompanying him, is a kind of comfort and thoughtfulness.

Of course, you can talk about things that make him happy as much as possible, and you can also talk about some of your previous little things and so on.

Your grandfather is on a mission to another place, and we should bless him. Because he is in close contact with nature. It's best to be happy every day.

Your grandfather has passed away, don't be too sad and sad, in heaven, he won't like your grandson who is as depressed as lead, so you should cheer up and work hard.

Everyone has this time, in fact, everyone will face it, maybe for your grandfather to leave is the beginning of another life, and they will remain in our hearts.

Your grandfather is liberated, to enjoy happiness, people can't be resurrected after death, grandpa in the spirit of heaven definitely doesn't want his children and grandchildren to be so sad.

Birth, old age, sickness and death are the most common things, people cannot be resurrected after death, and the living should live well, otherwise your grandfather will not rest in peace.

1. Take care of Wu Shou and his family, grandpa just went to a place where there is no longer pain, and the mourning becomes Lu Shen.

2. The world is impermanent, birth, old age, sickness and death, this life is too short, maybe leaving is the best comfort for grandpa, don't be too sad.

3. At this moment, I can understand your overwhelm, cry if you want to cry, sort out your emotions, and send grandpa on his last journey.

4. We must learn to let go of the obsession with our departed relatives, otherwise grandpa will also be uneasy, everything will be fine, and we must be strong.

5. I know you are sad, hug you, hope you are strong, and at the same time wish grandpa no longer suffer from illness in his life in heaven.

6. Birth, old age, sickness and death are the greatest sufferings in the world, but people always have to go through such a thing. Let's mourn and change, and take care of yourself and your parents.

7. For the death of grandpa, maybe all the comfort at this moment will seem so pale, but I still hope you can cheer up.

Grandpa died, mainly because your father kept filial piety, and in ancient times, he needed to keep filial piety for three years, of course, in modern times, there is no need to be so rigorous. As a grandchild, you don't have to stick to these old customs. Even according to the old custom, before going to an important memorial service, you only need to fast for three days, live separately from your girlfriend, and bathe and change your clothes on the day of the memorial service.

The funeral customs of the Chinese are calculated according to the time of the deceased's death, combined with the days and hours of the heavens and earth, but it is customary for everyone to think that the "first seven" refers to the seventh day after the death.

I really want to see my deceased grandfather just look at his **, but the best thing to do is to divert your attention, because the more you think about it, the more you think about it.

Birth, old age, sickness and death, we must accept it and try to comfort and comfort ourselves more:

1. People will always walk one day, if he walks happily, then he has nothing to worry about.

2. Birth, old age, sickness and death, the law of nature! Don't be too sad, he will feel your filial piety.

3. Repay the old man with practical actions, and only by working hard can he be worthy of his spirit in the sky.

4. Birth, old age, sickness and death, everything is a natural phenomenon; Since ancient times, no one has died, as long as he always lives in my heart.

6. Relatives lose pain and part, and suffer for people's wet short sleeves. I don't know when we will meet again, the moon is full of flowers in heaven and earth.

7. Relatives go to the Yellow Crane, and people go to the sound and save the building is not empty. But to comfort mercy with a smile has never been the most hateful.

8. Dear relatives, believe me, I will take responsibility to make you happy and make you feel the warmth of home.

9. Loved ones will be watching you from heaven. With you. Loved ones will always be there for you. It's just that you can't see him anymore.

10. Although Grandpa has left him, Grandpa has left many things and will live in his heart forever.

1.Birth, old age, sickness and death are natural phenomena, so we should mourn and change and take care of our bodies.

2.Birth, old age, sickness and death are the laws of nature, and death is the most important rule for grandpa, so you don't have to be too sad.

3.Birth, old age, sickness and death, the law of nature, don't be too sad, your filial grandfather will sense it.

4.People will always walk one day, if grandpa walks happily, then he has nothing to worry about not staring at Qi Feng.

5.Birth, old age, sickness and death, everything is a natural phenomenon; Since ancient times, no one has died, as long as grandpa lives in our hearts.

6.Just don't let them worry about it, and don't be sad, after all, people can't be resurrected after death, mourn.

7.Relatives lost the pain of parting, and the bitterness was wet and short-sleeved. I don't know when we will meet again, the moon is full of flowers in heaven and earth.

8.Relatives go by yellow crane, and people go to the sound storage building is not empty. But with Kai Sheng's smile and comforting kindness, this hatred has never been the most infinite.

Others say that the festival mourning has the following for reference:

1. In addition to grief, words are not righteous, if there is no thoughtfulness, please understand. Thank you very much! And bow to all neighbors, colleagues, friends, and clansmen!

2. You are my nobleman and relative, I will never forget it in my lifetime, and I will repay you in the future.

3. Thank you for all the hard work you have taken to come here and say my final goodbyes to my family.

4. Thank you for your concern, I don't have to worry too much about everything, I will adjust myself.

5. Thank you for your concern, you can comfort me at this time, so that I will not be so helpless and sad.

6. Heartfelt thanks, please send the old man all the way with our respect and nostalgia!

8. On behalf of the family, I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to all the leaders, colleagues and all relatives and friends who attended the farewell ceremony.

9. Kneel and thank you for coming in the rain, and kowtowing to you with your wife, children, and children, in order to express my highest respect.

10. Since my grandfather was old and sick, relatives and friends came to visit, and our family was deeply grateful.

Yesterday morning, my grandfather passed away.

Yesterday morning, I hurriedly sent my daughter to kindergarten, out of the garage, I heard the sound of WeChat messages, clicked and found that it was a message sent by my mother, and voice calls, usually at this time, she would not contact me, there must be something important to find me so eagerly, I trembled and clicked on the voice, your grandfather is gone, and my head was blank for a while.

Grandpa is 84 years old, for us this is a very happy silver Jianqing longevity, although I know that grandpa is old, but the body has always been very tough, why would he go to leave us in a way that self-deprived of life when I still couldn't help but burst into tears. I can't imagine how sadly he chose to end his life in such an extreme way.

Little by little childhood memories come to mind, scene after scene, this year's Chinese New Year, because of the epidemic at home for the longest time, go to my mother's house to live for a month, in the activity square, from a distance to see grandpa pushing the old scooter, lonely figure, a feeling of discomfort, I took Niuniu to him, grandpa is not confused at all, or the way I remember, I have to give my daughter New Year's money, I don't want to take it, but I can't bear to brush grandpa's heart, that is the last time I see grandpa.

After the death of grandma, grandpa lived alone for nearly twelve years, a solitary life is obviously lonely, but he does not want to get together in which son's house, always said that he is more comfortable alone, in whom to live will be constrained, occasionally to Luoyang aunt's house to live for a period of time, maybe grandpa is tired of living alone, so he chose this way to liberate.

I wanted to go back to see my grandfather but was blocked by my family, because the distance was too far and thousands of miles apart, because the children had no one to take care of, because the new store was about to open, because there were too many reasons, how far-fetched the excuse seemed to be, and how unbearable it was behind it.

I want to cry but I can only cry a lot, tears and sadness are only left to myself, not to mention my husband's side, after knowing this, it is quite indifferent, so that I also understand some truth, cold and warm self-knowing, tears should be swallowed back into the stomach, tidy up the mood after the tears collapse in the toilet, change a smile to face the surroundings, private affairs and work should be isolated with a vacuum.

Today is my grandfather's funeral, I couldn't be there, I blame myself deeply, I wish you a good journey......