What is the experience of only one spouse who wants to dink?

Experience is a lack of confession.

Two people walk together because of a good relationship, children are the continuation of love, the person you love wants a child, why can't you agree.

It must be that every time the problem of children is talked about, no matter how good the relationship is, two people will fall into infinite quarrels.

On the issue of whether to have a child or not, the two had a huge disagreement, one couldn't wait to have a child, and the other didn't plan to have a child at all. As a result, contradictions arise, and the relationship between husband and wife is no longer what it used to be. ‍‍

I am particularly distressed, I don't want to have children if I can't give them the best conditions, but my husband feels that not having children is incomplete, so he always quarrels over this issue.

If both parties are happy with Dink, this is a happy thing, but if one party Dink, and the other party loves children very much, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels and awkwardness, I have quarreled with my boyfriend on this issue, many times, although I love him very much, but he loves children too much, and I refuse to compromise. ‍‍

I think it will be my regret if I don't have children, and I can't afford to raise them with my ability, so every time I discuss this matter with my husband, I feel very entangled. ‍

Originally, the husband and wife were loving and the relationship was harmonious, even if there were some small problems, but it did not affect the inner happiness, but about the issue of children, there would always be quarrels, and after a long time, the feelings would fade. ‍

As long as you don't talk about children, it will basically not affect the relationship between husband and wife, but once you talk about this topic, it will end in a cold war.

When you don't have children, you live happily, two people do whatever they want, and they are very free, but as long as one party proposes to have children, it will hurt feelings.

I'm like this, my husband wants to have children, I don't want to, because I feel like there are too many things to think about when I have children, and I will be tired, so we will often quarrel over this.

It would be nice if life could go on like this, but it backfired, and just this year, my husband and I had a very unpleasant quarrel over whether to have children or not, which once made me want to divorce. ‍

That's basically unbearable, the three views are different!

The outcome is either to have children or to separate ......

It is an indisputable fact that <> society is developing, and today is better than yesterday, and tomorrow will definitely be better than today. Humanity is constantly improving. Men and women get married and have children, which is a thing that everyone is accustomed to, and it is passed down from generation to generation.

But nowadays, many young couples only get married and choose Dink. Combined with the current social situation, the uncle believes that there are the following reasons, which are the biggest confusion of the Dink people.

First, the issue of faith, this kind of person is mainly hurt by love, trapped by love, looking down on the past of Hongchen, unwilling to be burdened by the world, and unwilling to set foot in Hongchen Inn again in his lifetime.

Second, the pursuit of the commanding heights of life, the sense of mission is beyond everything. This type of person is an elite member of society, busy with work and has no time to take care of and educate children. Career is more important than everything, thus missing the best childbearing age and becoming a Dink.

Third, economic problems cannot keep up with the pace of life. The low salary, house and car, resulting in too much pressure in life, dare not have children, at least in the short term, there are no plans to have children.

Fourth, congenital infertility, this kind of person is not able to have children, can only be said to be a little taller. Unable to have children, and unwilling to raise other people's children, he was forced to dink out of desperation.

Fifth, there are also some literary and artistic youths, especially women who love beauty, who are said to be young in order to keep their figures and faces young, and they are reluctant to have children, so they choose Dink.

Sixth, I am afraid that the quality of life will not keep up, I am afraid that my children will not be able to raise them, I am afraid that my children will be unproductive when they are older, I am afraid of this, I am afraid of that, I am selfish, self-interested, and I want to be happy and cowardly.

In short, choose Dink and link it to your own personal experience. If you don't want children now, you can't say whether you will regret it when you get old. Old Dinks who want to be in their forties and fifties, do you regret it now? Are you happy without children?

Because everyone doesn't want to take responsibility, raising children is very hard. So it's Dink.

Hope, thank you.

Nowadays, many couples choose Dink, firstly because life is too stressful, and secondly, because the mentality of young people has changed, and they feel that there is no need to have a child to be their own bond.

The main reason for the need for Dink is that I think such couples do not have the slightest sense of social responsibility and the traditional virtues of inheritance.

One is that you can't give birth and you don't want to adopt, so you have to dink, and the second is that you just want to dink.

Some women do not want to have children, because it is more painful to have children, and husbands do not want to see their wives suffer.

The word Dink, I believe many people have heard of it, Dink means that the husband and wife choose not to have children after they get married. The reason why more and more people have the idea of Dink is mainly because in this fast-paced society, the financial pressure to raise a child is very high. And parents want their children to get the best education, and they don't want their children to sleep at the starting line.

But choosing Dink also needs to vary from person to person, some people choose Dink and may live happily, but some people choose Dink and may eventually come to the point of divorce. <>

The reason why more and more people choose Dink is mainly because the pressure from life and work is very high, and they also know that if they want to raise a child, from primary school to university, the financial pressure is very high. And if a boy is born, then the parents have to work hard to earn a car and a house for the child. This type of person belongs to the active dink.

There is also passive Dink, although the standard of living is getting higher and higher, most vegetables and fruits are hormones, resulting in people facing some infertility after eating. In this case, even if you want to have a child, you will not be able to have a child. Therefore, there is no way to choose Dink, and for most people with better economic conditions, they may choose to do IVF.

2. Conclusion. However, choosing to do IVF not only requires great physical torture, but also costs a lot of money, and the physical conditions are also very strict. Especially now, the post-90s generation, although they have entered their 30s, still want to live a free life like a child and enjoy their old age.

So I don't like the atmosphere of Sun Mantang, I always like to be alone, so I don't want children after getting married, so there is no pressure to raise them, and you can enjoy the world of two people. However, I think that before deciding to be a Dink, you must think about it carefully, and you must be fully psychologically prepared, after all, children are not only a manifestation of inheritance, but also the crystallization of love between husband and wife. <>

I think it's understandable, because the life of two people is more comfortable, the life of two people is happier, they will not quarrel because of trivial things caused by their children, and the two people have a stronger sense of professionalism and make more money, so they can ensure that they can live in their later years and live a more sober life.

I think it's very good, it shows that the couple lives a very fresh life, and it also shows that the quality of life of the two of them is relatively high, and they are not willing to let their children drag themselves down, and the two of them are more ambitious, and they can achieve the life they want by working hard.

It's normal, life is not good now, high housing prices and high prices, the choice is not necessarily because of reality, but most of them choose Dink because of reality, which is respect for life and is also responsible for their own life.