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Simple people may be happier, but complex people are able to protect themselves well. I choose complexity because our lives are full of uncertainties and danger is always around us. Sophisticated and proficient in some human affairs can keep a highly sober brain in the face of danger, so as to achieve self-help or save others.
More societies will not pity you because you don't have anything to do with the world. Many times in order to survive, or to win the tasks assigned by the company, in order to get the customer's order, we need to be appropriately sophisticated.
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I used to read an article about life is actually very simple, after reading it, I feel really deep, life is really short, sometimes I think about it is too fast and too fast, cherishing every day is so important, the simplicity of life is reflected in the beginning and the end have been decided. No matter what happened when they were alive, they didn't exist before they were born, and after they died, everyone was the same, and they didn't even have ashes left. The complexity of life is reflected in the fact that people have the ability to think, and thinking itself reflects the complexity of life, of course, this is only reflected when you are alive.
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Patience is a good character for a person, but if you don't say it, the problem will never be solved. Seeing your sincerity and seriousness, he will become a more responsible person and be more able to take care of your feelings. If you like something, go buy it.
Don't always think about saving money to buy cheap ones, don't always think about waiting until it's on sale, and don't always think about dispensable. In this life, people are working hard all the time. Moderate enjoyment is also a reward for yourself.
Life is not complicated, but living a simple life is also a rare ability. An easy life requires a simple way of thinking, and in this world, it is always those who have the courage to break the rules.
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Personally, I'm in a phase where I'm just coming out of the ivory tower, and even though I have a plan for my life and what my goals are, a lot of the time, I may need a lot of help. Like I said before, form a circle of your own and chain of interests. It's not that friends are meant to be used, but I should at least make sure that my friends' ideas and many opinions are not contrary to my own.
The complexity I understand is to be proficient in human feelings and sophistication, and to be able to hold unworldly kindness. In other words, it is a kind of gentleness with a gun. I don't know what a lot of people say is simple, but if I had chosen to, I probably wouldn't have changed my choice.
Thinking more about things in life is a summary of various experiences in this world, and it is also a kind of self-improvement.
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At the age of 18, I went to college. At the age of 20, I ended my sophomore year, and began to regret my childish behavior in the first two years, so I began to work hard, at the age of 22, I graduated from college, but found that I couldn't find a job that satisfied me, at the age of 26, I watched the people around me get married, and the money for the wedding increased year by year, and I went home during the Spring Festival, and my parents changed from taking me to relatives to taking me to meet the blind date, and then I was 60 years old, after a lifetime of hard work, I wanted to go out for a walk, and the person next to me passed 30 years, and at a certain moment, I think this may be good, Life may be so complicated and simple.
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People will inevitably fall into depression and sorrow in this life, and sometimes because of bad luck, this is helpless. Sometimes it's because I think too much and put pressure on myself. In fact, life doesn't have to be too complicated, one thing is in front of you, don't guess too much.
If you can walk in a straight line, why take a detour, simplicity is the essence of life.
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There is a book called "If You Are Simple, the World Will Be Simple for You", and simplifying the complex is an instinct, a return, and a kind of wisdom. After being punished, he discarded his simple instincts and went with the flow, and all kinds of complexities and rules were derived from the fall of original sin. As a result, the world is no longer simple, but the depths of human nature have always been unable to resist the call for a return to simple instincts.
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If you miss someone, give him a **. Listen to his voice and tell him that I missed you for the last second. Talk about each other's recent situation and relieve the loneliness in your heart.
Don't always worry about disturbing someone's life, maybe he will miss you from afar. And your voice may be his antidote. If you want to be understood, go to him and explain it.
Different people have different ways of thinking, and it's hard for others to guess what you're thinking just by saying a few words. It is inevitable that two people will have misunderstandings. It's better to tell him straightforwardly what you're thinking.
Maybe he also suddenly realized, laughed, and both of them relaxed.
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I often hear a very ironic sentence: "I understand a lot of truths, but I still can't live this life."
And now some practitioners have given a new answer, you don't need to understand a lot of truth, you can live a good life - a minimalist life.
When many people hear about minimalist life, they think it is an extremely simple life, and then they think of the life scene of being poor and poor.
Nonono important things said three times!
Minimalist life is not to overdo the only black and white in your life, but to find and have the only color that you really like to recognize in your heart.
It's not too much, it's beautiful and refined, it's a kind of comfort that suits you, the pleasure you like, and the satisfaction you recognize.
Make room for life and your heart, don't do useless things with your useful body, time is precious, life starts in a countdown way, and what you waste is life.
There can be some friends here who will put a question mark, so how can it not be a waste of time?
This is a question of method, let's first explain the concept clearly, and then make up a list of minimalist life to make up for it.
Human beings are simple, and they become more and more complex through the big dye vat of society.
Do you remember the sentiment you often hear?
Happiness is a simple thing when you are a child, and simplicity is a happy thing when you grow up."
That's right, simplicity = happiness here.
So can we really go back to the simple happiness we want?
The answer is yes, you can! And a lot of people did!
You have to believe that you can first before you can really be able to, chicken soup can be drunk occasionally, and if you drink too much, you will get tired of it.
So we pay attention to ways and means, so let's first have a general understanding of what benefits can minimalist life bring to ourselves?
1.Be physically and mentally healthy.
2.Self-discipline habits.
3.A sense of order.
4.Not afraid of fat ways to eat.
5.Scientific fitness.
6.No confusion.
7.Meaningful travel.
8.Match your outfit.
9.Three views of positive love emotions.
10.No workplace confusion.
11.Won't be afraid of being single.
12.Get out of the confusion of life and the depression of life.
Tell it to you in a way that shares a real story + list it for you)
Become a better version of yourself and accomplish three things:
1.Like and follow, and start to understand the benefits of minimalist living from this moment.
2.As a practitioner of minimalist life, you are also a member of this circle of optimistic and positive life.
3.Let time witness us to find a better version of ourselves!
What are the benefits of minimalist living? What have changed our lives?
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Sometimes, we don't know what we're up to, as if it's all about living, for the simplest way to live. Sometimes, unintentionally, we emit some fragrance like a flower and infect others, which is something that we cannot predict and do not need to deliberately pursue. The fragrance may remain in someone else's heart forever, or it may not be at all, so we don't have to be happy or sad about something.
Casualness is the best, this is the true nature of life. The pressure is not that someone is working harder than you, but that those who are several times stronger than you are still working harder than you!
A simple life makes people easy and happy, and simple desires make people peaceful and serene. Because of simplicity, I deeply understand the lightness of life, as light as flying flowers and oak wax, as light as the falling sun, as light as rain; Because of simplicity, I can understand the tranquility of the soul, as quiet as the night sky, as quiet as a valley, and as quiet as a stream. The simplicity of everything contains the truth of indifference and tranquility.
Life is so simple, family, love, friendship are woven together to form a picture of happiness.
Clearly realize that every day is important, and live every day as an important day to create a virtuous circle of interpersonal communication.
Leave a little space for yourself every day, keep this time simple, free and pure, and recharge yourself regularly to recharge your energy.
Clean things up frequently, keep the space tidy, and don't let the cluttered space disturb your thoughts and emotions.
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1 All human problems can be grouped into three categories: occupational, social, and gender. If the problem of interpersonal communication is solved, it will be easier for us to solve the problem of career.
2 We are all human beings, and if we want to survive, we must connect with others.
3. Human beings have long known how to cooperate, and only then have the consciousness of division of labor, which is also a major prerequisite for human happiness.
4 Only when we understand the division of labor can we cultivate our skills and learn to combine.
The true meaning of 5 people's hardships lies in dedication and cooperation.
6. We should pay attention not only to our own interests, but also to the interests of our partners. It is more blessed to give than to receive, and this is the only way to be happy.
7 people's memories and lifestyles are definitely not the opposite. If a person always thinks of others who have insulted me when pursuing his life goals, then his memory will always be full of those insults after all.
8 Tears and complaints are watery forces, they are a means of destroying harmony and dominating others.
9 The superiority complex is a product of the inferiority complex. People who try to look strong and look good actually have a strong sense of inferiority.
10 Everyone has different levels of inferiority complex in their hearts because we want to make our lives a little better. However, if we are confident and change our lives in a simple and practical way, the inferiority complex will slowly disappear.
11 As long as the mental obstacle is overcome, the physical defect will no longer be an obstacle but will become an advantageous condition.
12 Until the end of life.
In a day or two, the personality can still be changed.
13 Inferiority complex is not only bad, it can also motivate human beings to change their circumstances.
14 Both want to be pampered, but no one wants to play the role of pampering the other. It's like they are standing in front of each other and expecting each other to give, but neither of them can afford to give. Both sides feel that the other does not understand themselves.
15Few people are properly prepared ...... before entering the familyThat's because people haven't learned to see with their partner's eyes, hear with their partner's ears, and feel with their partner's heart.
16 Life is not so difficult, it is you who make life complicated, in fact, life is very simple.
17 Life will always try to continue, and in the face of external obstacles, the power of life will never hold high the white flag without struggle.
18 The focus of life is not what a person inherits, but how he handles his inheritance.
19 Sometimes the most difficult path is the most straightforward way. As long as we are willing to walk on the right path in life, there is nothing we can't do.
20 people will succeed with courage. The task of the psychologist is to turn despair into hope, to give people the courage to gather strength, and to do useful things.
21 No meaning of life can be applied to all people, and the meaning of life is given by each person to his own life.
Both are very important, but there are contradictions, so it is necessary to accumulate practical experience and constantly strengthen the study of theoretical knowledge.
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