Now many people want to have a second child, is it necessary to have a second child in society now?

It can be said that having a second child is not only a family responsibility, but also a social responsibility, family responsibility is that the child has a companionship, and the burden on the child will be lighter when the parents are old in the future. Social responsibility is that national development needs labor and talents.

Xiaoyu is already in her 40s, the children are in high school, seeing that many age couples are all children and daughters, and they also want to have another child, the couple is pregnant without doing two things, and has not discussed with the eldest in the family before, after the second child was born, the eldest brother was very unhappy, not only because the economic development conditions do not allow, but more importantly, after the parents are old, the second child is still young, many things still have to be taken care of by the boss, and it can also produce a lot of pressure on the eldest brother, because that is, Family disputes in Xiaoyu's family have continued. In fact, having a second child is a good thing, after all, it can make the eldest brother have several friends, and he will not be lonely when he is a child, and it also makes the children of parents and mothers have a complete life, and they can better enjoy the joy of family when they are older, but the key is that having a second child is not as simple as a sentence, and it is necessary to consider the situation in all aspects, especially the eldest brother has grown up, it is important to understand the boss's advice, so that the family can be better and beautiful. If you have these situations, I don't recommend having a second child, and I look forward to mothers referring to it.

First, my mother is very old.

From a medical point of view, even if the age is over 35 years old, even if the mother is older, the physiological condition of the mother's body is not as good as before, whether it is the quality of the egg or the uterine environment, it is not much beneficial to the baby, not conducive to the standard of eugenics. In addition, the uterine environment is sensitive, and the probability of miscarriage will be expanded, bringing more risks to the baby and the mother. Therefore, if you are over 35 years old, you must be cautious about having a second child.

Second, the family's economic conditions are limited.

Today, the cost of having a child is much higher than the time of the fathers, from pregnancy to the birth of a child, and then from supporting and studying to marry a daughter-in-law, etc., it is a very large amount of money, if your family's economic development conditions are limited, and the couple's income is very limited, then the child first ensures the happiness of the eldest and then talks about it, if the second child does come, it is very likely that more family disputes will be caused by money problems, and the wish for happiness and harmony in the family will be more long-term.

3. The eldest brother was delivered by caesarean section and the time will not exceed 2 years.

Some mothers choose cesarean section for various reasons in the case of the eldest child, this is an operation after all, although the wound will heal soon, but it takes some time for the mother's physiology to be completely repaired, the step point at this time is 2 years, in this case, couples who want a second child, it is proposed to have a cesarean section for 2 years before pregnancy, and at this moment the eldest brother should go to kindergarten, take care of the children to rest assured, save effort.

The age is relatively old, already over 35 years old, because more than 45 years old belongs to older mothers, overweight, and physical diseases, it is not recommended to have a second child.

The economic conditions are not good, the physical condition is not good. Having a second child under poor economic conditions will make the burden on the family heavier, and having a second child under poor health conditions will make the mother's health worse.

Two children. There are mainly the following reasons:

1.Relaxation of the birth policy.

With the change of population structure and the intensification of aging, ** began to relax the birth policy. In 2013, the "Comprehensive Two-Child Policy" was adopted, allowing families where one of the couples has an only child to have a second child. In 2016, a comprehensive two-child policy was introduced, allowing all couples to have two children.

This adjustment of the policy gives the condition of having a second child.

2.Improvement of the family's financial capacity.

With the rapid development of social economy, the economic capacity of the family stall Lu Ting has been significantly improved. Have enough financial resources to cover the cost of having and raising two children. In addition, the cost of children's education, medical care, food, housing, etc. is an important factor in considering the number of children.

3.A shift in the concept of childbearing.

Having two children, each child can get a better environment to grow up, take care of each other, and help each other. At the same time, I am worried that if there is only one child and the child becomes an only child at home, he may grow up to feel lonely and lack emotional support and comfort.

4.Expectations of the elders.

In the traditional family culture, having two children can increase the strength of the family and allow the family to continue. In addition, the birth of a child is one of the most important events in life for grandparents, and the number of children often becomes the expectation of elders.