There are so many people looking for me right now, and I don t want to see them.

You shouldn't tell him that you're no longer a virgin, this should be your privacy, if it's not necessary, it should rot in your stomach, you must know that sometimes white lies are much better than the truth, the truth is always cruel, and if you think he can be entrusted with it for life, go ahead, there is nothing unworthy in the world, give up those bad memories of the past, otherwise it will become your spiritual baggage, people have to look forward, work hard for their own happiness, bless you.

Tell him directly. If he truly loves you, he will marry you.

But if you don't tell him that you really love him, then he will be in trouble when he finds out for himself.

Stop holding this concept There are many people in this society who have already accepted and adapted to it People who really love you will not care about your past, they will only care about the present and the future This issue is also something that everyone, especially men, should consider carefully The traditional concept of China has harmed many women and can no longer be stubborn.

I'm a man, and if it's my first time I won't be able to accept it, and if I'm just as experienced, it doesn't matter. After all, it is difficult for a person's feelings to come out, let alone pay, can you really love him? You're just looking for a home for yourself!!

Please, the table has a mental baggage, he loves you and cares about this?

It's not a big problem not to want to go on a blind date.

And even if you go on a blind date, you may not be able to find the right person.

The most important thing about not finding the object is to look at your own attitude, if you are very active in looking for the object, as long as it is a general condition, it is really not impossible to find the object, unless you are too high-minded.

So I suggest that you can develop more of your hobbies, sports and so on, many people go to the gym to play ball and so on to recognize what they like, such examples abound. Because there is a common hobby that makes you attracted to each other.

Of course, it is also a good channel to go to social interactions, participate in more activities, broaden your network circle, and be able to meet some good people, which is also a kind of beauty.

But the subject has no object, needs a blind date, and doesn't want to go, so if it doesn't work, go to the Internet to try it.

Nowadays, many young people are looking for a partner on the Internet, which is still different from the blind date in reality, and there are more people to talk to, the scope is relatively large, and the probability of finding people who have many things in common will be much higher.

I recommend a few used marriage apps for you, such as a companion and only marriage, both of which I use well. The main reason for socializing on the Internet is to be afraid that the information is not true, but the identity authentication of a companion is very strict, and there is no need to worry about the authenticity of the identity information. There are also features such as interest tags, which can match people with the same interests and hobbies, and those who have common interests will indeed talk about each other.

I use a companion myself, and every week I see new people sharing stories on it, and some of them are really touching, so I recommend you to check them out as well.

In short, it's okay not to go on a blind date, but the key to finding a partner is to show your subjective initiative.

Since you haven't found a partner and don't want to go on a blind date, you can only change yourself and take the initiative, so that the probability of success will be higher, and happiness is earned by yourself, not waiting.

Then it depends on fate, if the peach blossoms come, they can't be stopped. Maybe the time has not yet come. In the case that you can't find it, you can go on a blind date, which is a good way. Give it a try!

If you don't have a partner and don't want to go on a blind date, you can only take the initiative on your own initiative or ask your friends to introduce you to you.

If you don't find a partner, then you can't do it but stay at home and go on a blind date, because when this kind of thing reaches a certain age, your parents are actually more anxious than you, and you should sometimes consider their feelings appropriately.

If I am still single and I don't want to go on a blind date, I may first improve myself, put a good attitude, and appropriately expand my social circle and participate in more social activities.

Maybe when fate arrives, you can meet someone who likes each other.

You first have to determine whether you want to find a partner, if you don't want such a person to appear in your heart, then don't go on a blind date, if you are looking forward to love, is there any other way to meet girls, then you really need to go on a blind date.

This, unless you want to live alone for the rest of your life, if your parents don't agree, then there is no way to solve the problem only through blind dates, and at the same time give your parents a reassurance.

I didn't find a partner, but I don't want to go on a blind date, like this, you can find your colleagues in your own unit, so that you can really find someone who likes you.

Wait slowly, after all, this kind of thing can't be rushed, and when you meet someone who likes each other, you will definitely be together.

I think your fate has not yet arrived, and it would be more reliable to consider meeting another partner through relatives and friends at the right time.

I can't find a partner, and I don't want to go on a blind date, so I'm so single.

There's nothing wrong with a person's life, work hard to earn money first, with money, there's nothing!

Blind date is also a way to find friends, not necessarily worse than the friends you are looking for, if you want to find your other half as soon as possible, it is best to feel it,

I haven't found a partner, and I don't want to go on a blind date, so are you thinking about it? Is it your own psychological problem? Or is it that you are not old enough, or that you want to start a career first, and then get married after a few years, you must first find your position.

If this is the case, he is destined to be lonely for a lifetime, and if the boy does not take the initiative, he will never find a partner.

In the world of feelings, not everyone can find their desired other half very early. You can fall in love with the person you love, and start a family with your favorite other half, and live a happy married life. In the world of feelings, there are still such a part of people, even if they reach a certain age, they are still alone and live alone.

In fact, many people who say that they don't want to fall in love also have a desire for love in their hearts, but because of their own personality problems, such as low self-esteem, excessive introversion, sensitivity, etc., they dare not touch love, so they simply don't fall in love.

This is also one of the reasons for not falling in love, some people have loved someone very deeply, but in the end they have been hurt, or they have not been together for some reason, but their hearts have always been in that relationship and cannot come out, so they will not accept new feelings.

This is also a reason, I feel that falling in love is really a very troublesome thing, all kinds of emotional problems to deal with, think about it, the head is big, it is better to get along with a group of friends and buddies, so I don't fall in love first, just like that, day after day, I imitate wild lead, and become the person who doesn't fall in love.

It's also very helpless to think about it, many very good men and women don't fall in love, not really don't want to, it's not rejection, it's just that they don't have time, and another one, I've been single for a long time, and I'm a little afraid of love, and even a little strange, so I was scared to talk about falling in love.

Nowadays, many people will be more ambitious. In the hearts of such people, they feel that at the age when they should struggle, they should work hard for their own careers and ideals. And love may affect their careers, so they will put love aside for the time being and don't think about it for the time being.

In fact, in the hearts of many people, they are still very eager to fall in love, but they will not become blind because of their longing for love, they are still very rational. People with such a wide spine know that what they want is to find an object that can give them happiness for the rest of their lives. It's not because of my own impulsiveness, I just found someone to settle with.

It's not because of age or because of the urging of parents, just find someone to be with casually, so it's not responsible for yourself.

Many people will definitely be able to find a partner if they really want to fall in love. But the object you find in this way is not what you really like and what suits you. It's because of a momentary impulse, and I casually found someone to fall in love with.

Many people will have a plan for their own life and career, and they will know what to do when they want. As for falling in love, many people pay attention to fate. They will not refuse when fate appears, and they will not be too anxious until fate has not arrived.

Ideological changes and willingness to live alone.

In this world, there are people who really love each other getting married every day and getting the beauty of love; Every day, there are also those poor people who fight for love, but only get hurt. Therefore, only when you are deeply hurt by the person you love very much, you will naturally give up on the person you think you love very much. It is said that love is an innate ability, but there will always be some time when you find that the instinct of love is slowly withdrawing from the body

Once the sea was difficult to water, except for Wushan, it is not a cloud.

There are some single people who don't want to touch love, thinking that they can live well alone. Many of them have been hurt by love, perhaps because the last relationship was vigorous, but the ending parted ways; Or maybe the last relationship was too good and I want to keep the warmth.

After experiencing the ups and downs of the relationship, their perception of love has gradually changed, and they are more afraid to invest in a new relationship, and they will be more rational to avoid some people or things that may hurt them.

Life is precious, love is more valuable, if it is for freedom, both can be thrown.

Some people who are single or in love, think"Forever"、"Talk about marriage"These words make the scalp tingle.

They may be afraid that love will wear off in the days of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and they may also be afraid to take on the responsibilities of the family. And, for them, choosing one person means giving up other possibilities, which is a terrible thing. Therefore, the plan for marriage and children can be delayed, and it is not easy to make promises.

Maybe it's hard to fall in love, but the difficulty is that both parties have their own hopes.

Some people in love are often complained by each other that they don't know how to love, in fact, it's not that they don't have the ability to love, but they won't adjust themselves"It's okay to love"position, do not know how to take care of each other's needs.

In this case, the valve of mutual emotional communication is closed, and even if there is full of love, it is difficult for the other person to feel it.

There are everyone in this world, and you don't want to find a partner, only you know best, and you still use it to ask others.

In today's society, many people think that having a romantic relationship is a normal thing and is even considered a necessary stage of life. However, there are also some people who don't want to fall in love when the conditions are good in all aspects. Here are some of the reasons that can cause this.

1.Worries and stress Some people may not want to be in a relationship because of other worries or stress. For example, they may feel that it takes more time and effort to challenge their career, study or other goals.

As a result, they may want to focus on these aspects and avoid distractions in a relationship.

Reluctance to face risks Falling in love and getting married are both risk-related decisions. When a person feels unwilling to take these risks, they may not want to fall in love. For example, they may worry that the relationship will eventually fail, or they may not want to take on the financial or psychological burden of emotional problems.

Perceptions of Relationships Some people may be reluctant to fall in a relationship based on their values and beliefs. For example, some religions may teach different views of love, and perhaps one's life experience and family background may also influence the view of love. In addition, there are also people who may have developed a negative attitude towards a relationship because of the failure of their past relationship experience.

4.Self-growth and development Some people may want to use their single status to pursue self-growth and development. They may want to focus on studying, traveling, pursuing their dreams, or becoming a better person.

In this case, they may not want to be in a relationship because it can interfere with their goals.

Previous trauma and pain Trauma or pain experienced in a past relationship or marriage can cause people to not want to be in a relationship again. For example, they may have been betrayed, cheated on, or disappointed and therefore afraid to fall in love for fear of being hurt again. In conclusion, everyone has their own reasons why they don't want to be in a relationship.

Sometimes this condition may only be temporary, while in some cases it may become a way of life. In either case, we should respect everyone's choices and decisions, and let them live a happy and personal life. The reason why you don't want to fall in love

I don't want to find a partner, this can't be said to be psychologically problematic, it's just that fate hasn't arrived:

1. If we don't meet someone we like, we don't want to fall in love, so we will have such a mentality, because we haven't met the person we like, because we won't fall in love with someone we don't like, so the psychology of not falling in love is that we haven't met someone we like.

2. Fear of falling out of love again, fear of not being able to afford to be hurt, and not wanting to fall in love, and the fear of falling out of love again will make us almost unbearable, because the loss of love in the last relationship makes us sad for a long time, so we don't want to fall in love.

3. We don't want to fall in love for fear of being deceived by the bad state, and there is this fear of being deceived again, because we have been deceived by lovers who disturbed us when we were in love, so now, we will be cautious, and we will have the psychology of not wanting to fall in love.

4. It is certainly understandable that my parents are forcing me to delay marriage, but my current life, my life goal has not been completed, not everyone believes that love is sweet and career is smooth, most people are living in dire straits, and the road is full of ups and downs, what I can do is to try to stick to my pursuit and live every day.