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Not feeling your own presence is a sign of lack of self-confidence. It's a psychological feeling. It is recommended that you study more, enrich yourself, improve yourself, and make yourself a confident person, a useful person.
In this way, you can make yourself stand out on any occasion, and others will naturally look up to you. The sense of presence is natural. Don't be afraid.
It's just that you don't feel like you exist for no reason. Even if you understand and speak. But I don't realize that I'm doing these things.
Most of the reason for this phenomenon is the heavy brain. There is pressure in the subconscious. I touch too much with a sentimental thing.
There is a lack of awareness of the beauty of the real world. To put it simply, I didn't come out of the sad fantasy world. The brain thinks too much.
Focus on your studies. Get along with your friends. Look at it a little.
Exposure to sunlight is a lot of things. It's all vulgar, but it's certainly working.
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From the moment you are born, your existence is meaning.
Emotions are the most delicate thing in the world, and the master of sensing and controlling emotions is like a highly skilled athlete who needs long-term training.
First, do what you have to do. Everyone has something to do at each different stage, and when they reach the age of school, they go to school, receive education, and receive knowledge. When it's time to work, find a job to support yourself and start a family.
Second, it's hard to do what you're doing. When you have done what you should do every day, every month, and every year, it is time to be yourself, think about what hobbies you have, and do it; If you have any dreams, pursue them.
You have to know that you have to influence yourself before you can influence the environment around you. Whether we live a meaningful life depends not on the height of our social status, but on the height of our own hearts, no matter what the circumstances, whether we have the strength to live a life. Weeds are not qualified to choose the environment, but they are qualified to decide their own activities.
There is no absolute meaning, only relative meaning. Sheep mean nothing to rabbits, but they mean a lot to wolves. If nature is right, then the meaning of human existence for the world is destruction.
The meaning of each person's existence is to make himself happy, and the meaning to others is to make others happy.
In fact, we should care about ourselves the most, only if you understand your own value, can you play the meaning you want. You know you love your parents, so you care for them. You know you want to go to a good university, so you study hard; You know you want to be loved, so you love someone first.
It would be more accurate for me to understand the meaning of existence as the meaning of life, the scope of the meaning of survival is too narrow, and the actual meaning is more absolute, considering that it is related to us, that is, the "meaning of life".
These are the reasons for your existence, to love yourself first and then others.
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This is because you are too lonely, do not communicate with people, are more autistic, and feel that you can survive alone, so you do not feel the meaning of the people around you for your existence.
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Because you can resist everything around you, and they are not as strong as you, you feel that they are useless to you. And when you're in trouble, you never think to ask them for help.
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Because you don't really like to communicate with the people around you, and you don't want to open up to the people around you, and the people around you often ignore your presence, that's why you feel this way.
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I think it's a lack of belonging. Feeling like you don't belong to this family or group. It can be seen that your condition is not good.
Feeling like you don't exist in a group or family can be uncared for. For warmth, for sure. and a sense of loneliness.
Lack of security due to not being recognized, valued, and affirmed.
At the same time, it is also necessary to pay attention to whether it is your own reason. Due to cultural or ideological differences. It is because you are not understood in a group or family or that your value is not reflected, and then it is because the behavior of the people in the group is unacceptable to you and you do not want to have anything to do with it, and you psychologically separate yourself from the group.
If it's your own reason, you should pay attention to it. On the one hand, it affects future communication and life. But most of them are due to their own mentality.
For a person, what will never change is others, and what will always change is oneself.
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