Why are the people around you like this, are there such people around you?

You may be overly sensitive, (and so am I) (;) Too much self-esteem.

Try to relax yourself and adjust your emotions, in fact, others don't necessarily see you like that, it's that you think too much.

Be sure to do more than you think, and be sincere with your friends.

Establish your own goals so that you can do things that you want to do and that can reduce some of your negative emotions.

In short, bless you.

You have a certain amount of autism and depression, you are overly sensitive to others, and you have too much self-esteem.

Don't always think what others think of you, you have to recognize your own value, do your best, and care what others say?

In fact, others don't necessarily look at you like that, it's that you think too much, too much doubt, I hope you can adjust your mentality and face your beautiful life with a positive attitude!

Bless you!

Don't worry too much about those. Doing your job well is the most important thing. The leader can afford you, and the others dare not do anything. If someone is good to you, you will be good to him. If others ignore you, you should ignore him.

Maybe you've made a lot of mistakes that make them ignore you, but you don't notice it.

Nowadays, people have limited comprehension and please be considerate - =

Someone else is thinking about things and doesn't pay much attention to you.

It is also possible that people are cyclical.

Maybe you're not speaking at the right time.

Thinking too much, with a normal mind.

Walking on the road, you always don't walk well, you always feel that others are looking at you all the time I tell you In fact, no one is looking at you! By the same token, don't overthink it

You think too much and relax yourself.

Communicate or have a deep talk with him.

Go see a psychiatrist.

1.Don't argue or lash out at their behavior.

If you find someone who is greedy, you should not argue with them or scold them in any situation. This may make them more rejecting of your opinion and will make them more deeply involved in the wrong actions they have already made.

As one of the parties in the relationship, he should be actively guided on the basis of personal morality, and find the truth that there are unexpected benefits, so as to inspire him to change his behavior of greedy for small profits.

2.Establish strict rules and systems to deal with violations.

If you are a member of a business or office organization, consider having stricter rules in place to prevent any violations from occurring. These rules should include an analysis of the pros and cons of small bargains, and clearly stipulate that they must be followed in a pretense whether in the office or in a production and distribution shortage factory. In addition, you can also establish a whistleblowing mechanism so that employees or colleagues can report any violations anonymously.

3.Promote the concept of "taking the right path and refusing to be greedy for small profits" in the company or organization through incentives.

Another way to control the behavior of the little cheap is through incentives. This may involve offering rewards or other rewards to those who are doing the right thing. In addition, training courses can be conducted to help them understand the principle of taking shortcuts on the right path and achieving great results in the long run.

Encouraging good behaviour in employees should also be an important aspect of company culture. Finally, the organization or company should promote a sense of quality in employee development through public displays to understand the impact of defective products or misconduct.

Song Ningfeng and Zhang Wanting are a pair. One is used to being a "gas bag", whether he is ridiculed by his partner or hurt his self-esteem, he always looks like he wants to explain but has no chance to explain, and the other is to suppress his partner when he has the opportunity, be aggressive, and never speak well.

Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng were married in a flash, they knew each other for less than a month Zhang Wanting was pregnant, and the two got married until the child was born, and there were all kinds of contradictions between the two, Zhang Wanting still commented on this relationship in an interview - we are not familiar with each other.

The audience thinks it's very strange, three or two months of marriage can be said to be unfamiliar, and children have been born for so long and still can't be acquainted, how should this kind of marriage be lived?

In this marriage, quarrels are full of them, Zhang Wanting feels that Song Ningfeng doesn't love her enough, and keeps asking for love, but what is the love in Zhang Wanting's mouth?

It is the partner who has to notice her emotional changes all the time, it is to save face for her in front of outsiders, it is the partner who can't fight back, the old man scolds and doesn't return the scolding, and it is the divorced Song Ningfeng who meets Zhang Wanting, who is willing to give birth to him and is ten years younger than him, so he has to love her unconditionally.

And what did this woman who asked for love from her partner do? Blaming and suppressing the partner, not respecting the partner's right to speak, and removing the partner's face for the sake of his own face......All in all, the series of operations is very suffocating. There are several scenes that are most impressive:

One is three pairs of "husband and wife" sitting on the moving bus laughing and chatting, Zhang Wanting's spearhead suddenly pointed at Song Ningfeng, and said in front of everyone that Song Ningfeng had a good life and found a good wife like himself, unlike his own hard life, he found a drag oil bottle like Song Ningfeng.

If it hurts her partner's self-esteem very much, Zhang Wanting can blurt it out without thinking, indicating that in places we can't see, similar "verbal violence" often happens.

Just look at Song Ningfeng's expression, embarrassed and a little submissive.

The second is that Song Ningfeng and Lu Ge are happily playing frisbee, Zhang Wanting chatting with several other guests, speaking of Song Ningfeng, using the word "sinner", and immediately after Song Ningfeng sat down after playing frisbee, he turned on the attack mode - disgusted that he was not qualified as an actor, because he couldn't even detect his wife's emotions; If he dislikes the belt, he doesn't know people, and he has such a good time with the insincere Lu Ge; He was forbidden to speak and deprived him of the right to express himself.

Zhang Wanting felt that what she said was reasonable, and finally left very angrily.

The third scene is a love letter read by a waiter, Song Ningfeng said what was in his heart, and Zhang Wanting cried while listening. Just when everyone thought she was touched, she said in the interview that Song Ningfeng's love writing was particularly ridiculous and hypocritical, and shouted in front of Song Ningfeng that she would not change it, saying that what he wrote made her very faceless.

Zhang Wanting often talks about "face", most of the moments when she suppresses her partner are for face, saying that Song Ningfeng is dragging the oil bottle to show her superiority, and the accusation against Song Ningfeng after playing frisbee is that she feels that the other party has not maintained her face, and it is not right to write love letters because he has made himself lose face.

But Zhang Wanting should never have reflected that when she suppressed and blamed her partner in front of everyone, she lost her face.

Category: Annoyance.

Problem description: I have a colleague who usually likes to cry poor, maybe her family is not very wealthy, and others are more sympathetic at first, but she is not seen to be thrifty, and always spends money to buy things that can be bought or not, and with colleagues, such as ordering takeout at noon, going out for a ride. There's no change, there's not enough money, there's always a reason, and when it's time to pay back, it's procrastinating, or even never mentioning it, I don't know if it's intentional, or I really forgot, because it's a colleague, so I'm embarrassed to ask for these small money. But after a long time, I feel very annoying.

I wonder if there are such people around you?

Analysis: Keep some distance from this kind of person, and keep a respectful attitude when interacting with this kind of person. If he asks you to borrow money, you can make up an excuse to deal with it, and it is not difficult to make up a reason, anyway, try not to give him the money, at least have to talk to him to let him know that you are not willing to lend him money.

- You only see the bright side of others, but in fact, everyone is the same, it's just that the suffering of others is not spoken out and not let you see it.

Does your roommate often take advantage of you and keep using your things, but others can't use her things? It's not enough to take advantage.