I like a girl, and the other party says that I don t want to fall in love, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-25
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Well, there are only two possibilities in this case, one is because she doesn't like you, it's just the reason why she rejects you, and the other is that she doesn't like to be in a relationship and has no plans to do so, and of course there is a little possibility that she doesn't want to be with you.

    Generally, girls will use this reason when they want to reject a boy, because they really can't think of anything to make him die. Anyway, I can't have a showdown with him directly, "Yes, I just don't like you, I don't like your looks, and I don't like your temper, I feel that it's not suitable for the two of us to be together." "This is too straightforward, not to mention that you usually don't look up and look down, and it will be embarrassing to meet again, so this way is the best shield.

    Anyway, that boy can't ask you why you don't want to fall in love, is it possible that he still wants to enlighten your view of love?

    There are also girls who really don't want to fall in love, and I'm one of them. It's really fulfilling to play treasure with roommates every day, go to class, and take a certificate in class, and there is no extra time to find a little boyfriend to fall in love. What's more, it's so troublesome to fall in love, I usually have to get tired of being together every day, I have to reply to his messages all the time, I have to go out on weekends, which costs money and time, and I get angry when I quarrel, how worthless it is, I will never settle if I don't meet the right person, so naturally I don't want to fall in love so easily.

    So if this girl rejects you, it's nothing more than these two possibilities, you don't have to think about whether she wants to get away with it, please girls now, who will play such a cliché thing, like is like, don't like is not like, if you like you, you will naturally be willing to be with you, so you don't bother her anymore, otherwise it will be a very troublesome thing for you and for her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Generally, when you pursue someone, but the other person says that she doesn't want to fall in love, it is very likely that she just doesn't want to fall in love with you.

    I have always felt that when you face someone you like, you can't say no in your mouth, so when you are rejected, it must be because you don't live in the other person's heart, so she feels that with you, she will encounter some uncertain things, and she is not willing to bother to deal with this matter.

    But this is also the case for most people, if the girl has never been in a relationship, and she doesn't have good friends of the opposite sex now, then she may really not want to be in a relationship.

    I think there's an example of this around me, she comes to school with us, she feels like she's never going to stay here, she's just coming here to study for a few years, and when she graduates, she's going back to where she came from, so she won't make a lot of friends here, and she won't fall in love here.

    If that's not the case for you, then you're still possible.

    If you really like this person, then you can first observe her preferences and slowly make yourself the one she likes. After a while, you can appear in front of him with a new look, and at that time your chances of success will be much greater.

    Every girl will have a male god in her mind, and you have to work hard to become that way.

    When facing a person who can make your heart move, if it weren't for the insurmountable gap, girls wouldn't be able to say that they don't want to fall in love, so make yourself better.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When a girl says she doesn't want to fall in love, it is divided into two situations.

    One is that the current focus of girls is not in the emotional aspect, such as a senior sister I know, it belongs to the type with a strong sense of dedication, from the beginning of my contact with her, I obviously felt her strong aura, at that time she was the minister of the department, listening to the evaluation of her by the same senior, it was called her by desperate Sanniang.

    In the later contact at work, I strongly felt the ability of the senior sister, when dealing with work in normal times, the senior sister belongs to the type of super concentration, at this time, if you do things with her, and are found to be deserting, it can be said that it is a big deal.

    Because of the senior sister's hard work, basically some honors in the college have been taken by her, because of the extra care for the work, the senior sister therefore has no time to fall in love, according to the gossip I have, there was once a boy who took a fancy to the senior sister's ability and the senior sister's confession, but was rejected by the senior sister I don't want to fall in love.

    In the face of boys' confessions, girls feel that directly saying that they don't like each other will hurt the boy's face, so girls express their thoughts in such a more subtle and euphemistic way.

    In a situation like this, I think it's no longer necessary for boys to continue chasing girls, at this time, I still consciously choose to give up directly, at least I can leave a girl with the impression that this boy understands girls very well, otherwise continuing to stalk girls will only make the other party think that you are a very cheeky boy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello dear, here is not to force Oh, the girl said that she does not want to fall in love There are several possibilities, the first may be that she is euphemistically rejecting us, the second may be that she is testing our sincerity, afraid that we are on a whim, then the third is that she really has no idea of falling in love, at this time we should not keep pestering her, we should spend more energy on improving self-cultivation, as the saying goes, if you bloom, butterflies will come. I wish you all the best in finding your own girl as soon as possible.

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