Parents are our best guides, what distorted views have you been poisoned by your parents?

People say that when a child reaches the age of three, he is always with his parents, and only after the age of three will he go to kindergarten and nursery. Therefore, before the age of three, parents are educating them, and children have seen old age when they are three years old, so we must figure out a problem, that is, parents are indeed the best guides for children, and all behaviors made by parents before the age of three will actually be kept in mind in the child's mind, resulting in a series of imitations.

Because by the age of three, children have learned to walk and talk, and have their own thinking skills, and when people do something for the first time, they will always remember it vividly.

Therefore, children in different family environments will have different behaviors when they grow up, a complete and happy family, they will always instill some positive thoughts into their children, because the life between husband and wife is very harmonious, they will feel that the family is very happy, and children who grow up in such living conditions will be very sound in thinking and behavior, and they will be more upright when dealing with some things.

Therefore, such people will be more liked by people in society in the future, and those who will only know how to produce filial piety under the stick The temper between husband and wife is not very good, and children may have to endure quarrels between parents from an early age, and when they grow up, they will have a great resistance to this kind of problem between husband and wife, so they will have very serious psychological problems in the future, and even more rebellious than other children. And this kind of rebellion will be more serious, your stick education for children can only make their grievances accumulate deeper, so education is never a violent quarrel, only the three views of integrity can better lead children to the right path.

For the formation of a person's three views, it has a great relationship with parents, if parents have a great influence on their children since childhood, when the person grows up, these things will be hidden in the character, so parents are actually very important to the formation of children's three views.

In fact, my parents' three views are still very correct, and they will not be very narrow. They agreed that I was in love when I was an adolescent, but they wanted me to find someone who was really good to me.

I think that in my upbringing, my parents' three views are actually very good, and they have a great influence on me, but I know a parent who has a very serious patriarchal thinking, which I can't accept.

There is nothing wrong with this, my parents are indeed our best guides, I have not been checked by my parents' visits, I think he said it very well.

I have seen such a pair of parents, they prefer sons over daughters, thinking that girls will marry sooner or later, why do they read so many books? So they let the girl drop out of school early and get married, which also ruined the girl's life.

In my opinion, parents are very important life guides in life, but sometimes some of the three views of the fathers are no longer applicable to us now, such as what is unfilial and has three nos.

I think my parents' three views are still relatively positive, and I have not been poisoned. At least he is upright and not greedy, nor is he the kind of person who is relaxed and strict with others.

It's probably my father's idea that girls are useless to study, daughters are going to get married sooner or later, and they don't have to provide so much money to read so many books, so boys need a high degree of education.

I think for my parents, because they are both highly educated people who can keep up with the pace of development, they don't have any distorted views.

In our country, many people do not follow the traffic rules. For example, running a red light. Once, I was in a hurry with my baby in my arms, so we passed without waiting for the green light.

Suddenly, I heard the child say, "The red light stops, and the green light goes." Mom, huh? At that time, my face was hot.

It's not anyone else who destroys our children, it's often us.

Parents are the best teachers for their children. Every parent should start with themselves when educating their children. Because, parents are the most beautiful scenery in the eyes of children.

There must have been, and the parents are also the first time, and they are gradually maturing in the process of exploration, but the good habits of the parents will be inherited more. Because parents are their children's first teachers.

It is said that when a child is three years old, he will always be with his parents. Only after he was three years old would he go to kindergartens and nurseries. Therefore, before the age of three, all parents are educated, and their children are already old by the age of three.

Therefore, we should make it clear that parents really are the best guide for their children. In fact, all the actions of parents before the age of three will be remembered in the child's mind and produce a series of imitations, so there is a sentence that parents are the first teachers of their children.

Because at the age of three, children learn to walk and talk, and have the ability to think on their own. When people do something for the first time, they remember it forever.

As a result, children in different family environments will behave differently when they grow up. A complete and happy family, they will always instill positive energy in their children, because the life between the husband and wife is very harmonious, they will feel that the family is happy and grow up in such living conditions. The child, who is also sound in mind and behavior, is more honest in dealing with some things.

So people prefer these people in society, and those who only know how to show filial piety are not very good-tempered between husband and wife. Maybe from the children, who have to endure quarrels between their parents. When they grow up, they will have a huge conflict with the problems of husbands and wives, so in the future.

There will be very serious psychological problems and even more rebellious than other children. And this rebellion will be even more serious. Your education will only deepen their resentment.

So education is never a violent quarrel. Only the three-point concept of integrity can better guide children on the right path.

Excuse me, because parents are the best teachers for their children, but parents are not necessarily completely right and wrong, and they have different opinions, so they have been distorted with him.

I think it's still distorted, because parents may also have more negative or negative things in life! Therefore, no matter who is not a saint, people will make some mistakes, such as what I think is right, and my parents are wrong. At this time, my three views may be distorted!

Yes. For example, my father, who is a salaryman, suffered a lot in his early years, so he thinks that there is nothing good in this society, and he is very pessimistic and negative, which leads to many pessimistic and negative elements in my current personality.

There must be, because parents are first-time parents, and they're trying to get used to it.

No, the three views of parents are very upright, kind and upright.

Well,,, I feel like I have to blame the phone for everything I did wrong.

My parents gave me a lot for me, and they generally didn't want me to see their hardest side, otherwise it would put me under a certain amount of pressure, but they perseveredBy chance, I found out that my parents did so hard work, it turned out that the money I spent was their hard-earned money, and I immediately felt sorry for them, sorry for the hard work they paid, I didn't count at all when I spent money outside, I felt that I wanted to eat what I wanted, what I wanted to play, but when they made money, they were desperate to make money.

I worked there for a long time just to earn a little overtime pay, at first I didn't understand them, I thought they loved money too much, but then I found out that I was naïve, no matter how money can make life better, even if it's not a birthday? So I think they were more stressed during that period and their spirits were more fragile.

Slowly you will find that only your parents will be dedicated to you, others say so much is false, only everything your parents do is so real, only after you really understand them can you be better filial to them, and you can do your best to give them a better life in the future, so that they are no longer so bitter.

Of course, when we were sick, they did their best to take care of us in the hospital, and this is when I saw my parents as vulnerable as possible, so when I grew up, I tried to be their strongest support.

I've seen them at their most vulnerable, when their families are in financial crisis, and it feels like they're getting older in an instant. Family life takes on a lot of stress.

I've seen times when my parents were vulnerable, and when I had a stomachache that I fainted, my dad and mom cried, and I never saw my dad cry, and that was the first time.

I haven't seen my parents when they are the most vulnerable, but I think their fragility is definitely not easy to show, maybe we don't find out, maybe they are hiding it, but I hope I still be filial to them.

I have seen them when they were vulnerable, when my father was working abroad, and my mother was raising me at home alone, and sometimes I saw my mother secretly shedding tears.

I saw that my father was a guarantor for someone else at that time, but I didn't expect that person to run away in debt, and then the pressure was concentrated on my family, and my parents were always very sad during that time, sighing from time to time.

I think the most vulnerable time for them may be when they are working outside, and they have to look at the faces of others, because they are only working, and they have to look at the face of the boss to work, and I think it is quite bitter.

Of course there are, but their vulnerability is generally not easy for us to see, and it is not easy for them to be seen.

When my grandmother was sick and hospitalized, the family was also in chaos, and I felt that it was not easy for my parents at that time, and I had to raise the elderly and children, and I would be filial to them in the future.

Have others in your heart, and you can't be too selfish in doing things. Be generous in your dealings with others. We must know how to respect the elders and respect the elderly.

The first is the survival of adversity, the conscience of being a person, having a good heart but definitely not a bad person, and the greatest education my parents have given me is to be good.

A lot of things like: talking, eating, walking, etc...

Polite, friendly, strong, tenacious

How to be a good boy who is worthy of others' trust and preciousness.

In their parents' lives, they were not happily married. The biggest influence on me is that I have to rely on myself in my life and not rely on others emotionally.

It makes me very strong and I am very lonely. Suffice it to say, no boy can walk into my heart. Even if you walk in, you can't stay inside for a long time. Because subconsciously I don't think they're my relatives.

This loneliness continues into adulthood. The biggest benefit for me is that I can look at the world more calmly and objectively. Of course, there are also disadvantages, which is a lack of investment in every relationship.

But I try to avoid the effects of my condition on my children. Actually, my husband and I are quite happy. Hopefully, my husband and I can set a warm example for our children.

Thank you for reading.

My father told me that I will not lag behind in action, I will not be stingy when I am with generous people, I will not be stingy when I am with wise people, I will not be confused when I am with smart people, I will be smart in doing things, I will borrow the wisdom of others, improve myself, and learn from the best others.

My father stayed with me for a short time, and he taught us every time during meals and during the rest time in the evening, that we must be a good person, that we must think about others everywhere, that we must make things convenient for others, that we must give charcoal in the snow, and that we want others to praise you behind your back and give you a thumbs up, that is a good person, and we can never do things that harm others and benefit ourselves.

My father taught me word by word while eating, and the simple poem is well-known to everyone: "On the afternoon of hoeing day, sweat drops fall into the soil, who knows that the Chinese food on the plate is hard work".

And explain to me that every grain we eat is bought by the farmers by sweating and working under the scorching sun, and we must cherish every grain and never waste it.

As far as my mother is concerned, my mother is very hardworking and can endure hardships, get up early and be greedy to make money to support her family, for decades, the wind and the sun, and the wind and rain, this spirit is worth learning from me!

As for my dad, he is lazy, has a bad temper, loves to drink and smoke, hates others and hates himself when he is sick and still on fire and does not let go of hatred, and drinks hard all day, but he never says that it hurts, and he also told his mother not to say it in front of us.

And when I was in high school, he was never late for parent-teacher conferences, and he would come to school a long time early, and he would come to give me parent-teacher conferences when his health was not as good as before, and he once said that every time he had a parent-teacher conference for me, he had to rest at home for several days.

Every time I made an appointment to go out with someone, my dad would urge me to leave early and not let others wait, and not to be late for work in the future. Look at the positive side of people, no one is perfect. So, I guess that's what they did to me.

Teach me to be a man, let me grow into a normal and honest person, there are unfilial children**, I am glad that I did not become such a person.

The biggest influence of parents is to be an independent individual and learn to rely on yourself.