Married people, have you ever been in love for a long time after getting married?

It is important that two people have a suitable personality together, and if you feel that you are comfortable together, happy, have common interests, common hobbies, and have a lot to talk about, then you can consider continuing to date. Not all love is vigorous, life after marriage is made up of small things such as firewood, rice, oil and salt, and ordinary is the real life. Love can't be forced, let everything be natural, believe in your heart, believe in the feeling in your heart, I wish you happiness!!

Personally, I think. You can't count as love like that. I don't feel tempting. It's not a liking. Or to put it more simply. Yours is just a matter of habit.

Truly. Over time, there will be love. At the same time, you have to know. If you are together, you will be divided.

Of course. The word "Hejiu Bifen" can only happen on some emotionless basis. At the same time, the relationship is just the opposite.

Yes, my grandparents have never even met when they get married, and they have lived well for decades.

That's how I am, I didn't have much emotion at the beginning, but after a long time, I always felt that I couldn't do without her, and now we little ones have it. Life is quite good, when you are together, like lovers who have just been together, it feels very good, the key is to look at the personality and hobbies of the two!

Now many people are like you, as long as there is no problem with his character, there are many people who get married for the sake of marriage, and after being married for a long time, a big component of love has become family affection.

This landlord is the owner of the world.

It's so big.

There are still a lot of them.

The longer you get along, the easier it is to form a friendship.

The basic condition of love is only to have a certain material basis. The people around you are right, "Poor couples mourn everything". However, you must distinguish between a "certain material base" and a "poor" for yourself.

The former is the bottom line that you think you can live a normal life, for example, some people think that it is okay to eat three meals a day, some people think that it is okay to eat meat every day, and there are also days like the girl who said, "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle".

The so-called poor is the kind of condition that is far below your bottom line. Some people think that working people who have no fixed place to live are poor, some people think that ordinary employees are poor when they crowd the bus every day, and some people think that it is poor to pay off the mortgage every day and be a house slave. The key is where your bottom line is.

The phrase "love over time" is good, but the two people who want to get along are peaceful, if you are disgusted with him in your heart now, then this sentence should not be verified in you.

When we first got married, we had nothing, wandering around and having no fixed place to live. However, I know that my husband is a positive person, so the hardships will pass. Moreover, my requirements are very low, as long as my husband loves me and cares about me, I don't have to worry about 3 meals a day.

So, but when we are now living a well-off life, I only have gratitude in my heart.

Think about what kind of life you can bear. If you don't have money, you can squeeze the bus to and from work every day, and you won't feel aggrieved even if you have a big belly; If you don't have money, you may live a life of being chased back and forth by landlords all day long, you don't say there are not so many bad landlords, all of us in the office have experienced the time of being chased by landlords. I don't have any money, so I have to go to wholesale markets and night market stalls to buy clothes full of threads; If you can do what I mentioned above, then you can rest assured that you don't think about economic conditions and only think about love.

Of course, I'm actually very opposed to getting married just for money. It's just that the current society is too impetuous, have you thought about it?

I still suggest that you first think about what your material bottom line is, and then, on your line, go to find your love.

Aesthetics will be tired, good-looking people may not feel good-looking after watching for a long time, and ugly people may not be so ugly after looking at it for a long time. Try to get along with him and find out his good qualities, how do you know it's going to be bad if you haven't tried it yet? As for the family conditions, it depends on everyone's values, some people think that love is the world, and some people think that money is the most reliable, what do you think in your own heart?

The married life without money is indeed very sad.,Life is tight.,Class reunions, others are beautiful, but you are simple and appear on the stage, and even laugh and feel shabby.。。 But married life without love may not be happy.,Every day I share a bed with a man who doesn't feel it.,Holding the latest LV bag in my hand but my heart is empty.。。 So, get along with him and then make a decision.

Anyway, you're still young and have a lot of time and opportunities.

Two people may not be in love all the time, but at least they have loved deeply. If you don't even want to talk, you won't be happy even if you are barely together. There is also a premise for blandness, that is, they have loved each other deeply, and love must withstand blandness.

You don't have love now, and it's even harder to get along for the rest of your life. Maybe some of the parents are right, but they also have to feel a little bit about it!

You're not willing to give the first time to someone you don't like.

I support you mentally, first of all, you have revealed between the lines that you don't like to marry him at all, and you don't even want to speak, and I don't think you are completely judged by your appearance, and indeed sometimes two people have to look at each other when they are together. Now the key problem is that your parents and sister-in-law think he is good, and you yourself don't feel that he is good at all. I would like to ask about your family's economic situation.

My suggestion is 2: the first is to try to talk to him about love, just verbally, don't force yourself to hold hands with him and kiss or something, maybe you will slowly feel it, you also said that the conditions of their family are good, and the current society is so realistic, right, it is useless for men to look good. The second is to talk to your parents, to put it bluntly, they are interested in the man's money (or for your future life), but a knowledgeable young woman, I don't think it should be so vulgar, I think you yourself think so, a man can have no money now, but as long as he has an upward heart, then one day he will give you the life you want, and what questions can you continue to ask.

I often taught my sister that love without bread will not last, and your future him must let you live a happy life. Otherwise, I will never agree to your relationship!

The reason why I say this is because I have been tricked like this twice. So, the first point: money is important!

Second, even if you eat instant noodles, you should eat the best and biggest brand of instant noodles, but please think about it: no matter how good instant noodles are, they are still instant noodles, which can be worth swallow wing abalone? So, prove once again that money matters!

Third, without love, how can we talk about life, let alone have children and live a lifetime? So, love is the foundation and is more important!

It is often said that with a loved one, even drinking cold water is sweet. I can say very responsibly: anyone who persuades people like this is not understanding love or has been hurt by love, or even has not loved at all!

Feelings can be cultivated, holding hands every day is love, holding hands once a month is basically after marriage, and ten years later, you can still walk hand in hand is true love!

I think you should be able to understand: love is the foundation, and without love there is no family; Money is the framework, but as long as you don't eat bran every day;

You are a good girl, and you are also a girl with a little romance in reality, and you will be lost because you don't understand love yet.

Final advice: Try to date for a while, and if you really can't cultivate a relationship, just let it go.

Wishing you happiness!

There is a saying called holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son, I always believe in it, but I also believe that few rich people have the time to join hands with you, they are too busy.

You can get along with him slowly for a while, if you really don't feel it, then forget it, don't care too much about your family's opinions, because it is not your family that wants to live with him for the rest of your life, but you, and your family will gradually leave you on the road in the future, which is also inevitable.

If you don't get along well and blindly follow the advice of your family and marry him, even if he is rich, can you promise not to quarrel with him? If you have children in the future, do you want your children to watch you sullen every day and watch you quarrel every day?

It's nothing if it's not pleasing to the eye.

Find someone who lives an average life with two lovers, and it is true that it is plain.

I think I still listen to my parents, my parents too, basically send messages every day to ask him if he has contacted me, telling me to get along with others, don't talk outside, because his family has a house in the city, and my parents are powerful, but I really can't live without money, and I'm also very depressed! You talk to him first, don't have too much money, you're looking for it, find someone with better conditions, like each other, and then kick him, but this is just a secret in peace of mind, no one can say!

It's okay with him, you can't do it without money. Once you live together, you'll fall in love with him.

It depends on the man, if the man wants ten days and a half months, he can do it.

It's big, it's big, so I changed my place of work.

It depends on whether people chase her or not.

Material life is important, but love still has to be kept fresh, husband and wife have lived together for a long time, and they know more, there will be some friction, if there is no love, it is easy to have a marriage crisis. Therefore, love is also the focus of maintaining marriage.

Yes, love makes marriage happen, and responsibility makes marriage last.

Material life is important, but love cannot be completely without.

You have entered a misunderstanding: the first thing to know is the difference between love and marriage. Love is a phenomenon in which the opposite sex loves each other and is nostalgic for each other; Marriage is based on love, building a family, creating and owning wealth together, and having children.

That is, marriage must have three conditions: love, wealth, and children. These are common to both married couples.

In general, without any of these conditions, the marriage is not strong. Do you understand?

I'm 26 years old, my son is two years old, I feel very good, I've tasted all the ups and downs, and this is the whole life.

Why do people get married? It's for love. We live to make ourselves happy and to make those around us happy.

We got married to make this love complete and full. Legend has it that women are the lost ribs of men, men and women fight from birth, only half of life, we have been looking for our lover, looking for our own other half. In the vast sea of people, only when we find our other half can we have a complete life, and we can make life abundant and happy.

So we keep searching, bravely fall in love, wrong, hurt, and then despair, lost, because we have not found our true love, because true love is hard to find. In this life, you may meet several lovers, or you may have only one. You may be with your lover forever until the day you die of old age; It may also be that happiness is like a flash in the pan, happiness or sorrow, both love and marriage.

In fact, many people misunderstand the true meaning of marriage, especially some young ignorant teenagers Marriage should be the ultimate witness of true love, it is sacred and solemn, some people may mistakenly think that marriage is a shackle that can tie two people together, or some people think that there is a home Although marriage is essentially just a formality, it must have a very profound meaning No matter what, it should come naturally, regardless of the reason. Let everything that should happen happen, and follow the trend, without force or deliberateness. I like this sentence very much:

Let's get married, it's idle anyway, it's really boring to fight, so as not to be lonely.

There are many people who have been married for a long time, accounting for more than half! Happiness is rare! You are forced to have no choice but to go on a blind date, everyone is. However, more than half of the divorces are divorced over time!

Love is rare, and happiness is also rare. Because of love, so together. If not, then there is no happiness at all. This is the original thought of your heart, and it is also the eternal expectation and truth in people's hearts. Of course, this is also true.

It's ambiguous, and it is estimated that the man has a very good appetite for her.

After a long time, this must have passed. It's not that simple, it's generally difficult for men not to steal food, let alone take the initiative to send it to the door.