After the breakup, I felt like I wasn t normal

This is a normal manifestation that most people will have after experiencing a failed relationship. It varies from person to person, with some lasting longer and others lasting shorter.

It's like if you lose a beloved thing, you naturally feel sad. It is recommended that you go out more often to meet with friends, there are many beautiful objects in the world waiting for you to pursue, don't be depressed because of the frustration of a relationship, you may experience such difficulties in the future. That's the price of growth.

It's better to let him go after love than to think about it in the twilight.

When you want to see his space, find something to do for yourself and keep yourself busy.

What you miss is not necessarily your fault, be grateful in your heart for the beauty of the past, and let the miss pave the way for the beauty of the next paragraph.

It's okay, it'll be fine after a while, pain and loneliness will make you more mature and more attractive :)

This is normal, and I was the same at the beginning, similar to you, but gradually I got used to .........It's okay.........

It can only be said that the time is not long enough, and the new love is not good enough.

When you have both of these things, even if you think of him, you won't have any thoughts, and you won't be bored to follow him.

It's okay, it's normal. Maybe when he's gone, you'll feel like you're missing something, and you're definitely not used to it. If it doesn't work, try to relax, go out and play with your friends, and gradually wipe it out of your mind!

I'm in the same situation as you, but I'll resist not contacting him and work hard to regain my self-confidence, so that I can come out, otherwise I will give up on myself and he will ignore you

You still love him, why don't you try to reconcile?

Because of what broke up? See how the reason is half.

Answer: Because you have really loved each other, and the other party may not like you, only for the other party to pay for the person, the more will feel that the feelings are precious, and do not know how to give, will only gladly accept everything from others, but feel indifferent, but also you are like this, then how to get out of such a state, the following is for you to go into the analysis, I hope to help you, as follows:

Clause. 1. He doesn't love you and wants to stay away from you, so he will feel that he is very happy. When you meet such a person, you can only say that you are unlucky, because you meet someone unladylike, waste your feelings in vain, take your feelings too seriously, in the eyes of the other party is indeed insignificant, you love him deeply and have no reservations about him, but the other party does not take it to heart, so after the breakup, you will always think that you are so good to him, why does he have to break up desperately, making you sad, but he does not feel a little unhappy, even happy.

Clause. Second, he is playing with your feelings, now many people are riding donkeys to find horses, looking for the other half, also have to prepare a few spare tires around, when he finds the person he needs, the person he loves, he will not hesitate to kick you away, go to their two-person world, and you, the spare tire that pays for the feelings, can only be abandoned, and they are sad and crying.

Clause. 3. Because you love the other person too much, he can't breathe, the pressure is too great, and he doesn't feel love, but is full of possessiveness. When such a person leaves you, he will feel much more relaxed, he doesn't need to think about your feelings, he doesn't have to be called by you, just like a wild horse, as free, so it may be your reason, let him propose to break up, and the last happy is of course him, and you feel pain because of the breakup.

Clause. Fourth, after a peaceful breakup, the other party thinks about how to start over, but you are still in deep memories, because the other party has learned to look forward to meet a new life, and you are still sad about the pain caused by the loss of love, which is why he can be happy and you are sad.

If you feel that you are only in pain after breaking up, and the other party is very happy, then in fact, the meaning is very obvious, the other party has long stopped loving you, if you have you in your heart, and still love you, it will not behave like this, so if you give up a person who does not love you, you also have to be happy, think about it in your heart, don't let your life be too painful, the other party is happy, it is because the other party does not love you.

If he feels that he is only in pain after the breakup, and then he is very happy, it means that he is not sincere in this relationship, and then he is very relieved about the end of this relationship.

Because you still love each other, and you are right and the other party doesn't love you anymore, so the other party is very happy after breaking up, because you will naturally be happy after ending a relationship that you don't want and recovering your free life, and you are very sad and painful, which means that you still love each other very much.

Because when you break up, you can feel your pain more clearly, but you can't feel his pain, and you will feel that he is very happy.

You feel that you are the only one who is very painful after the breakup, but the other party is very happy, it may be that you are more sensitive, because generally after the breakup, both parties will be more painful.

You are suffering because you still love him, and your heart is full of reluctance. And he is happy because he doesn't love you, and without your constraints, he is free to find his new purpose. So no matter how painful you are, it won't help, it's better to put it down and start over.

Because everyone's contribution in the relationship is different, when you attach great importance to the relationship between the two of you, and the other party doesn't really care, so even if the separation has a great impact on him, it is not particularly big.

In fact, there is no need to dwell on this, you have already broken up, what is the point of dwelling on whether he is sad or not, and it will not alleviate your pain. It's good to think clearly, I like him to be his own thing, I pay willingly, and I am willing to accept the result, time will dilute the sadness.

This shows that he didn't take it seriously in this relationship at all, and didn't give a little sincerity, then you shouldn't be sad and should be happy for the wise decision you made.

If his happiness is real, it can only mean that he may have wanted to break up for a long time, and he has endured it for a long time, and breaking up is a relief for him.

Because in your relationship, it has always been your unilateral giving, you have given everything, and you are very good to each other, so when you break up, you will be sad and painful.

And the other party has nothing to do in this relationship. So if he breaks up, he naturally won't have any sadness.

Because after the breakup, your own pain, I am because you like each other very much, so there is such a pain, she doesn't like you, and she doesn't suffer.

I feel that after I break up, only if I am in pain, the other half will be very happy, I think this may be your delusion, if it is normal, two people break up, whether men and women talk about it is more sad, but the degree of sadness is different. Generally speaking, even if a boy is sad, he will hold it in his heart, and he will not expose it outside, they are all better faced.

He felt that he was the only one who was in pain after the breakup, and he was very happy. It's probably because you're restraining him too much, and he's feeling free now, that's why it's like this. Or maybe it's because you're feeling wrong, and he's just not putting the pain on the surface.

This may only be your own opinion, because both parties are in pain after the breakup, but you don't see the sad look of others.

In the relationship, most men and women will suffer after breaking up with girls, and men are more open-minded, which is a normal phenomenon.

If the two of you have a good relationship and he loves you very much, he won't be very happy, maybe just pretending, if he is actually very uncomfortable and he is really happy, it means that he doesn't care about your feelings, he hasn't loved you, he just perfunctory your feelings, not treating you sincerely, and it doesn't matter to him if you break up.

After a breakup, you feel miserable because you still love each other, and you feel happy after a breakup because you feel that you have finally gotten rid of it, and you may no longer like you, or you may feel unhappy together.

I felt miserable after the breakup, but he was happy, it may be that he wanted to break up in the first place, so after the breakup, he was very happy, but it was very painful, and it was because you gave more in the relationship.

It may be that he doesn't like you in the first place, so after the breakup, he will only feel relieved and finally free, so you should feel happy after the breakup, because you see clearly what kind of person he is

He must have had a hard time after the breakup, if he was sincere to you, you used to love each other too. He treats you sincerely, there is no hypocrisy, he must be very uncomfortable, just pretending to be very happy, but in fact he is very painful inside, but he doesn't want outsiders to see it, and he is more responsible.

It is possible that he will not show his pain on his face, but will bury it in his heart. So you're very happy to see the appearance. It doesn't matter who is after the breakup, if it is.

If you love each other deeply before, you will be very sad and sad after the breakup, and some people are not good at expressing their emotions, so there will be such problems.

In fact, many things in the relationship ourselves know the answer, but we still prefer to lie to ourselves. It's normal to feel pain after a relationship ends, after all, a breakup is to remove someone who was very close to you from your intimate list. And you feel that he is very happy, these are all ** your feelings about him, and these "feelings" of you for him ** are nothing more than from his circle of friends after the breakup.

Or a handful of information about his life obtained from a mutual friend. He's not necessarily really happy, he's very happy maybe he's pretending not to care. But whether he is doing well after the breakup is not important long after you break up, and you don't need to affect your mood for his state.

I feel sad after a breakup, but my ex seems to be happy, and the question should be "how can I get out of being emotionally affected by the other party after a breakup". He is really happy, then you can congratulate yourself on getting rid of a hypocritical person, if he is strong and happy, then it has nothing to do with you You have broken up.

Feelings are not the whole of life, especially a relationship that has ended. It is rare for two people who like each other to have a complete match in terms of personality, and it is normal to break up for various reasons, and you might as well live your life to the fullest after breaking up, and there are many interesting things in life than love. Find something to do for yourself, and when you're done with the business at hand, you may no longer care whether your ex is happy or sad.

After a breakup, there is no need to immerse yourself in pain, and there is no need to pay too much attention to the dynamics of your former partner, and you will be much happier to be a free and easy person. There are many regrets in life that are difficult to fulfill, what we have to do is to maintain our own mentality, adjust our state to meet the future, and the people who will appear in our lives in the future. Reflecting on why your previous relationship failed, reflecting on what you learned in this relationship, and reflecting on whether you have grown in your relationship are all more important and meaningful than being secretly sad.

This is because he doesn't love you at all, and he doesn't give much in the relationship, so he is naturally very happy, and maybe he will feel relieved.

Because he felt that he had nothing to lose, he didn't care in his heart, so he didn't suffer at all, and he was able to find a new person after the breakup, so he felt very happy.

It may be that he doesn't love you anymore and wants to get rid of you for a long time, so he behaves very indifferently and is very happy.

<> reason is obvious, that is, he doesn't really love you, and you broke up, which is exactly what he intended. Maybe he didn't want to be with you in the first place, or maybe it was for some other reason, for example, money, work.

Since you have broken up, don't dwell on the past, the past is the past, even if you are in pain all day long, and wash your face with tears every day, he will not know that he is filial. In fact, from his expression, you should understand that he doesn't really love you, and why should you bother yourself for him? Be brave and say goodbye to the past, you still have a long way to go, and maybe the person who truly loves you is waiting for you not far away.

There are many such men in reality, they will do everything possible to chase you down, treat you well for a few days, and then throw you aside. In fact, you may not know that this kind of man is having an affair with other women while dating you.

I advise all women, love is not everything, there are more worthwhile things waiting for you to do, go to your parents' house to accompany them, and go shopping and travel with three or five friends. Don't give up more for love, you can find it again if you don't have love, and you can't find it back if you want to find family affection.

In a good relationship, it is the result of both parties running to each other, not that one party loves hard and the other party still thinks so, and it is only a matter of time before such a love disintegrates. In a relationship, a woman is always the humble party, and in the face of the man she loves, a woman will do whatever it takes to meet any of his requirements. But men, they think this is what women should do, so they do nothing all day long, do not do their jobs, and sometimes even ask women for money.

Therefore, the process of falling in love is the process of choosing, and if you find that it is not suitable, you should stop the loss in time, so as not to give it to your future married life.

Unnecessary trouble, woman, please be kind to yourself, for yourself and for your family.