I feel like I m good and strong sometimes, I m a girl

There is no problem in your heart, but you are very self-motivated and have very high requirements for yourself, and you will be sad if you don't get the first. It means that you are a self-reliant girl, but a little bit of perfectionism, so you will live a little tired, but very fulfilling!!

It's not a psychological problem

It's that you say it's so strong!!

It should be said that you admire the feeling of being in the limelight Actually, this is not a bad performance, you can see it as your motivation, but you have been in a state of nervous tension at this stage Loyalty to learning is a good performance, and you should also experience some of that happy life in moderation

After all, the motivation of others comes from you, and in the same way, your motivation also comes from your classmates This kind of learning atmosphere is better!! Self-blame is unnecessary!!

If you put pressure on it, it's fine, but if you do, you feel like you can't do anything

A little obsessive-compulsive...

Take it easy. Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

You can (*.)

There's not much need to focus on the rankings, just stay in the top three. People don't live for exams. Of course, it's good to be as self-motivated as you are, don't think too much, tell yourself every day that you're already great.

You take your grades and reputation too seriously. Sometimes, after going out into society, the test score does not really represent a person's ability. Don't push yourself too hard. If you can't adjust it yourself, it is recommended that you consult the professional advice of a psychologist.

I hope my method can help you: 1. How would you feel if you were the first in every subject? A is very proud to be the first in the class!

bYour parents will not scold you, but will praise you and give you many gifts; 2. If you didn't get the first place in every subject and did poorly, what would you do? aFind a place or find something or a way to vent desperately. b violently study hard for homework or tutoring or the like, and push himself into a state of madness.

Choose the option that you think or feel is more suitable for you, and give it a try!

If you really have the ability to be a teacher, why don't you take the school exam, the school will definitely recruit teachers, and you have to take advantage of it at this time. And you must not have a bad relationship with your superiors, otherwise it will be in vain if you don't let you go.

All the troubles in life, in the final analysis, are not learned to let go of life, so that the body and mind carry a heavy burden, so life is becoming more and more tired and hard.

In fact, it is a virtue to let go of these innocuous personal rights and wrongs, tolerate others, and not be difficult for others. A kind of generosity. This kind of generosity can influence people, enhance the mutual assistance and goodwill relationship between people, and make the society form a kind of generous and contemplative atmosphere of goodness, so that villains will not be produced, there will be fewer dark things, and when they have misfortune, they will also be easy to get help from others.

If you have a good family, let's be together, so that you have a relationship, and your family is not bad, if you are not good, let it go, there will be many difficulties in front of you in the future. You'll have a fight from time to time. Feelings will fade. The truth is brutal, don't blame me for being too direct.

I used to be like this, but as I grow up, I will understand that many people have different views on issues, and there is no need to force others to accept your point of view, even if you are right. Because everyone's cognitive level is different, so the mentality, comprehension ability, and viewpoint of knowing things are different, so in life, if you can live in the world, you can get by without embarrassing others and without damaging the dignity of others, even if you win the argument, it will not be of much benefit to you, and they will not accept the theory that others are not convinced. It's good to stick to yourself, others have different opinions, smile and keep your own opinions.

Obvious misconceptions about yourself can be corrected mildly, or half-jokingly. If you are more serious about everything, not only will you be tired of your own life, but others will also think that you are too serious or even mean and difficult to get along with. So I have my point of view, you have your cognition, as long as it doesn't hurt the principle, everyone can be friends, if the three views are really not in harmony, then they will not continue to communicate.

Just get to the end of everything.