What should I do if my parents are always attacking my girlfriend based on their own preferences?

Whether the shoes fit or not, only the feet know!! Love is no gray stage!! You insist on your own opinions when you think it's appropriate, like a man, a little assertive.

If you feel that you can't be happy with her, you will listen to your parents! Although parents think from a good starting point, the times are changing too fast now! Many times the decisions of parents can no longer keep up with the changes in society!

Sometimes after blocking, you agree, but maybe you'll regret it for the rest of your life!! Stick to your original intentions!! Support you!

Are you looking for a wife or are they looking for a wife?

Really. You're not a three-year-old.

My parents are still rural.

They are all open-minded.

As long as I'm satisfied.

They don't have much to say.

Be considerate of your parents' motives, don't blindly refuse, the more you refuse, the more persistent they are!

At the right time, you should also communicate your preferences with your parents so that they can understand you.

But you have to be considerate of your parents first, maybe there are some motives you don't understand, but parents always think about their children!

It's good to communicate with your parents!

That means your parents are overbearing, or that there's something wrong with your girlfriend.

Solution: 1 Break up 2 Get married.

Then you're going to have to find a way to get your parents to know about her, to understand what you love about her.

You have to stick to your point of view and find an opportunity to talk to them.

Stay the course, because it's your happiness, in your hands!

I don't know if I'm an assertive person, but if you make your girlfriend look down on you because you don't have an opinion, and in the end it's useless to say more about her lack of dependence on you

Show your boyish spirit!

And also make your parents think you are very filial, since you can bring your girlfriend to your house, it means that they still agree, why do you want to treat her like this? You should tell your parents: I like my girlfriend very much, please don't do anything that will make me sad for the rest of my life

Finally, it's all about communication.

Looks like you're looking for a wife.

Take your time and prove to them with your actions that your choice is right But then again, parents have a lot of things to do, and it will be more accurate to see people! You tell me? It depends on the status of your girlfriend in your heart or the status of your parents in your heart, this is a contest between them, you are good at both ends, and I deeply sympathize with you!

The shortcomings you say are greater than the strengths you say are in her, so give it up, otherwise, convince your parents to accept her.

You have to be specific.

The landlord must not listen to some people's opinions and say elopement, if you don't solve the problem, I don't think you will do it, you also know that your father is not in good health, which means that you are very filial.

This problem can't be forced to parents, you must be ready to fight a protracted battle, let your girlfriend work hard, since she loves you, but also love your family, this time is the time to really test her feelings, "love" is not just talking, you have to take practical action, your family said that she has a low education, why she no longer further her education, it is also beneficial to her own development, with this platform to be competent for a better job, I think your family will see her efforts will also have a change in her, and remind me again, She can bribe your family with a gift to her liking, anyway, the younger generation should respect the younger generation, the parents are old and sometimes like children want to coax, there is a step down, but it is easy to solve, and there must be no frontal conflict.

ps: My husband and I have also experienced, the Anti-Japanese War for 3 years, only to be together, my dad also thinks that I have a higher education than him, better work than him, and then he also worked hard to be admitted to graduate school, so motivated child My dad finally agreed, I wish the landlord's father good health, your love road can be smooth!

So hard typing, take a look.

Tell them. If you don't agree, you'll never look for it. Let your girlfriend care more about them.

The twisted melon is not sweet, think carefully, which is more important.

While praising your father's virtues, he belittles the shortcomings of his education. Then let your girlfriend behave well, and I'm sure you'll make your parents feel it!

Try to convince your mom and dad, and then weigh one or two and listen to your parents' opinions. If it's good for your future, you should accept it, including giving up on your girlfriend.

It can be seen that you are still young, there is still a chance, there is no shortage of women at any time, as long as your conditions are good, love is not the only one, and divorced people are not the same to find love.

Try to communicate, after all, parents are also a test of marriage.

What type? We don't know if you're against good girls or bad girls!

I don't know if your parents are against real women or fake women!

Then you have to figure out why your parents don't like it, and then you can better solve it!

You should still listen to your parents, they are from the past after all.

In our own way, we try to convince them 、、、

It shouldn't hurt you to listen to the old man.

You are the bridge between them, on your parents' side, you have to persuade them to ask for a low price, and on your girlfriend's side, I hope that she can be hungry and hungry to know and answer the courtesy, and you are smart and capable, so it's fine

Do you know the story of the thatched house? Why is Liu Bei so fond of Zhuge Liang? Because there are too many people who praise Zhuge Kuan and Liang in front of Liu Wang's lack of preparation, and join Zhuge Liang himself to go to Liu Bei and say, how can I be knowledgeable, will Liu Bei believe it?

Therefore, you should use the power of a third party, the third party is your sleepy argument, or even your other friends, let your friends go to your house to play, and ask them to praise your girlfriend intentionally or unintentionally, just say: Uncle and aunt, your son's object is really good! ......

Of course, it must also be in line with the facts, and you can't lie all over the place, hehe......

Hopefully your parents will like your girlfriend

Looking for a girlfriend, you don't necessarily have to match yourself, what height, education, family, temperament ......, that may not be perfect, not necessarily accompanied for life, grow old together.

The old man thinks that becoming a husband and wife is a kind of fate in a sense, and it may also be "providence".

Marriages in the old society were almost all the orders of parents, matchmakers, and husbands and wives, but they all had children and lived a good life.

If you love her, you don't care about the likes and dislikes of your family, boldly realize your pursuit, and you will be happy.

Parents who love their sons will inevitably love their daughters-in-law, so you don't have to worry. As long as your girlfriend has a dessert in her mouth and a little diligent in her hands, she will definitely be affirmed and accepted by your parents and family.

I didn't, it's good if it lasts a long time.

Buy something, something better, the kind that is worth a lot of money at a glance, and they like it.

Treat each other with sincerity! Heart-to-heart! After all, your parents love you and will support you after a while!

Little brother, although you typed so many words, you can understand your situation and difficulties at a glance.

Maybe it's a result of experience and years, in my opinion. Everything is not a problem for you.

It's just that you've never encountered anything more complicated or tricky, so in your eyes, it's already a tough thing.

What the hell are you going to do, you ask?

I'm here to help. But the premise is that you can listen to the advice, and all cause and effect lies in your choice.

I'm not going to say what to do for now, let's assume that if you don't choose her, more than ten years later, if you reach my age.

Will you regret it? Will you always regret it? Do you feel guilty, what would the result be if you persevered?

You really need to imagine what it will look like in 10 or 20 years.

Next, I will talk about the solution.

The main reason why your parents are so intervening is because of your own problems. Because they think you're not mature enough, you're not self-reliant enough, and they're afraid that your young ignorance will lead to painful ...... later in life

Since this is the crux of your parents' problems, if you want to win their blessings, you must be strong and open up to your parents well.

Let your parents see your determination and your mature and self-reliant side.

There is also a higher performance of emotional intelligence, love is not about academic qualifications, only about caring about not caring.

Care, everything is not a problem.

Little brother, you're still young.

In fact, it is really not easy for a girl to wait for a boy for so long, think about whether she should give a good effort to give a girl a home after graduation, the girl's youth is waiting for the light, and the landlord will find that it is really not easy to find a person who loves herself, and it is really not easy for a girl to be outside.

Parents are resolutely opposed to reluctant marriage, and it is difficult to have a good result, give your daughter-in-law a face every day, and fight every day your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and your wife will take the initiative to file for divorce.

The parents gave the woman's parents a look on their faces, and the two families fought.

The twisted melon is not sweet, learn to let go. Marriage isn't just a matter for two people. By the time you go through it, everything will be understood.

Anything happens in life, sometimes bad things turn into good things, and sometimes good things turn into bad things. Let it be. If you can't be a husband and wife, you can still be friends.

It's all about the choice you make.

I know that what worries you the most is actually caught between your parents and your girlfriend, and if your girlfriend is willing to stay with you, then you can definitely do it.

The crux of the problem is still in your family, but the initiative to solve the problem is in your hands. Don't be in a hurry and tell your family slowly, if you can't do it twice, twice or three times, if you can't do it in the end, you will have a showdown with your family and tell them that even if you don't get married, you won't choose her again. The person I choose is the one who can give me happiness, no matter how good the girl you think is, it is not my crush, I am not rare, it is me who marries, not you who marry, whether legally or morally, you have no right to interfere with my freedom to marry!

Put it aside for now, and improve yourself first. Because you are not independent at the moment and have no sense of security, your parents will worry too much, and when you can be independent, you will be able to make your own decisions, and your parents will not worry too much.

I think you should stand up as a man at this time, because it's not just this sentence that you burst into tears, your girlfriend must have forced herself to make this decision when she told you to listen to her family, her heart must be dripping blood, all the decisions she made were for you, do you still want to escape? There are few girls in the world who are so dedicated, and it will be difficult to meet someone like her if you miss it, and even if you meet someone who is dedicated to you, it will no longer be her.

It's hard to say, if it's true love, you can talk to your family, maybe your family thinks that you are still in school and don't have the capital to talk about this, you might as well talk to your family, and then talk to her about the future when you come out and have a good job, but I hope they don't care too much during this period. If you really love her, you have to prove with your actions, your family is only temporary, usually if you stand firm, your family knows that it is useless to say too much, and will not say about you...

Is your parents going to marry a wife or are you going to marry a wife, what's wrong with low education, ability is the most important thing, your parents just want to find a good condition, snobbish, people with good conditions can still look at your family, just like your parents still want to find a rich lady, think too much.

Although the opinions of parents are also important, they are in charge of their own affairs. The person you find for your beloved wants to live with you for a lifetime, and your parents can't be with you for a lifetime. Of course, your parents are also good for you and always want to check for you.

However, they can't do it all either. College is important, but it is not the only one, as long as you work hard, be positive, strengthen self-study, and improve yourself, you will be fine in the end. Therefore, as long as you really love her, boldly express it to your parents and relatives.

Eventually, parents and family members will understand and accept it.

Only communication is the root of the problem, coercion will only aggravate the dissatisfaction of parents with girls, if you can persevere, then time will solve everything, after all, your parents will not let you stay single, you can only compromise.

As for the bad idea, I won't say anything about it. After all, it depends on the personality of the parents.

It's too easy to get a certificate, isn't it? She is not rooted in the love of your parents, a good girl should be cherished, and she may never be found again in the future.

Most people will compromise for their parents, this woman is quite reasonable, if you are not wrong about her, she is not a particularly fragile person, I suggest you still choose your parents, you will have your own home to take care of in the future.

Good girl, you have to cherish, you have to be brave if you have love, it's your girlfriend, not your family. Even if you listen to them, you can't guarantee your happiness 100%. Parents should try to guide rather than discourage.

The saying of "50 parts, 80 episodes" is also the director Yu Yueting recalled listening to the report of relevant personnel at that time. Later, due to several changes in the personnel of Fujian Station, many of the materials retained by the play have nowhere to be found. Therefore, it is difficult to have a definite answer to the total number of chapters and episodes filmed in the show.

Brother, let me give you my opinion. According to your description, this is a very good girl, and she can't miss it, and after so many years of ups and downs, she shouldn't let go. On the parents' side, I believe that at least parents love their children, if you take a firm stand, they will compromise like you, this does not involve filial piety or not filial piety, because it is you who live your life, not your parents.

You can be a filial son, but you can't be stupid.

It's okay to do more ideological work with your parents and put a little pressure on them. Make your stand with them, it's really not easy for this society to meet such a good girl.