I m a girl, and I feel like I m bad. What to do?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Go your own way and let others say go! I've watched "The Invincible Ugly Girl".

    No? If you haven't watched it, I recommend you to watch it, the TV series is coming. Baby, why do you care about other people's eyes, always worrying about other people's eyes? You're living for yourself. Ugly duckling.

    So what? In the end, it didn't turn into a white swan.

    How many people envy it! Do girls have to be so smart? I don't know, there is a saying that the more you know, the more troubles you have?

    You should be happy and live simply, why pursue fame and fortune? What if you're not smart? Baby, you're really kind, willing to sacrifice yourself to make others happy, what's wrong with foreign appearances?

    It can also make people remember you more deeply! If you like to sing, you can sing it loudly, but what's wrong with your hoarse voice? I don't know if bass is very popular now?

    Baby, you have to be yourself and don't care about other people's eyes, okay? Be true to yourself, set a goal, and finish your life on your knees. When you look back when you're old, you feel like it's nothing, it's nothing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Haven't you heard of cute ducklings, look at the mentality, if you look like it and say slow reaction characteristics, with a cute type and cute girl as the development route, it will definitely be very attractive. As for the appearance of dressing, now it can be simulated on the computer, which is very convenient, and I often help my friends around me to have fun, and many people take it seriously, which still has a great effect.

    The hoarse singing voice may be more distinctive, many singers are famous in the music world by their rustling voices, of course, even if they don't want to be a singer, they can also take this as a hobby of their own, and develop their specialties.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When I saw your post, I didn't habitually copy and paste to find the answer, but I saw that what you said caused me to hurt! The difference between me and you is that I am a boy, I used to be a "bun" in the class, dressed as a dirt bun, and I was also a punching bag for other classmates! I can hear them sarcastically and taunt me every day, and people who are often bullied are usually not good at studying, and I admit that I don't like to study because I can't get into their fighting atmosphere, and I feel that they are hypocritical!

    That's why the teacher asked me about it, and I looked good! Maybe you will ask me how I am now, hehe、、、 I am the kind of person who is very vindictive, and the more they look down on me, the more I try like crazy, I want to stand on them and laugh! In the past, when I was small, I didn't understand anything, and I would only suffer it silently, so I advise you not to give up ,,, ,,, believe in yourself!

    You have to face the difficulties, pay more than one or several times more time than others, sometimes ,,, just complaining there is not a problem, what you have to do is to be strong yourself, no matter what others say, you are not living for others!! Why care what others think! Eighteen changes in women's colleges, this sentence is true, if you just think about how to improve your appearance every day, you just become their kind of person!!

    To improve their temperament, knowledge, that is beauty!! Alas、、、 I'm getting a little excited.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I won't tell you what kind of perfunctory bullshit you say, now you first have to know what the meaning of your own life is, don't make unnecessary changes, don't "pretend", do your best, do what you should do, everything in life is a passing cloud, the only ideal is to leave no regrets, and one day you feel that you have no regrets in your life, then do you still care about appearance?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Welcome to YY Channel 7450.

    In fact, I am the same as you, introverted, inferior, and feel that I am very bad, but, I have to live anything, nothing, at least I have to have confidence, have a firm belief, love this thing, to use the vulgar point is not reluctant, in fact, love you, he will find you, will accommodate everything of you, it is better to take this opportunity, exercise yourself, no matter what, you have to believe, as long as I do my best, the person who loves me will always appear, come on!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's good to be happy yourself, and you don't have to care about what others say.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Have confidence in yourself and believe that you can do well! Happily face your future!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Just be yourself, try to get better and play to your strengths.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. Be happy.

    2. Read books.

    When your mood is gradually opened up by optimistic things, you can try to read some books to improve your mood and self-confidence. Learn from the book the methods and tips you need to help yourself improve your self-confidence.

    3. Life practice.

    After mastering the theoretical methods of improving self-confidence, you can test and run in the ways to improve self-confidence in your own life. Review and summarize the problems you have encountered in practice every day, and improve and perfect them the next day.

    4. Build self-confidence.

    After a period of exercise, your self-confidence will be built, so that if you re-examine yourself, you will find that you will not be very bad, and there are still many areas of strength.

    Ways to make yourself more confident:

    1. Don't be afraid to fail. If you want to make yourself more confident, in this case, don't be afraid of failure when doing things in ordinary times, even if you fail, this is also a valuable experience, the more failures you experience, the next time you encounter some special ones, you will choose the challenges you can face according to your own ability.

    2. Don't set yourself goals too high. If you want to make yourself more confident, in this case, when you usually do things, don't set too high goals for yourself, it's best to divide the goals into a small goal, if the goal is too high, when you are not capable, it will bring endless disappointments and blows to yourself, which is very detrimental to your self-confidence.

    3. Autosuggestion. If you want to make yourself more confident, after doing some things in this case, if these things are done well, you can give yourself some self-suggestion at this time, and you can silently meditate on yourself in your heart that you are awesome, with such a long-term positive self-suggestion, you can slowly increase your self-confidence.

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