I did what I despised the most, but I insisted on what I wanted to stick to the most.

I've met someone in a similar situation to you, and I've just been enlightened by me recently, so you can add me hi

I can't say anything, he has a wife who can be divorced, but he has children, if they divorce, what about the children, if he really loves you, he will be with you immediately, you are still young, look away, look around you, maybe you can find a more suitable one for you, sometimes two people together, it is really not just love can be.

You can see that you already have the answer. But I still want you to be respectful. The hardest thing for a person is to know their worth.

What is more difficult is to respect one's own value, not to sell it cheaply. You've done a great job. It's like saying that if you're a princess, you don't have to be what others want you to be.

Don't take other people's opinions too seriously. The important thing is to be yourself. To be a true self is worthy of being a man.

If you become a person you don't even know, what will it be? At least, no one will take you seriously anymore. I'm afraid you won't even be able to secure your current life.

I'm sticking with you!

Despise? Probably not! After entering society, in order to live, whatever you do is right.

Nowadays, many women rely on men to have that status, and now people are nothing more than the pursuit of money, fame and fortune, and if you want to get these, you must pay a price, and everyone pays differently. If someone despises you, it means that they are jealous of your success. That's just my personal opinion.

Friend; In order to survive in society, not in a vacuum, you will definitely encounter such and such things"People and things are normal"Don't make a fuss, as long as you think the right path and things, do it boldly, and move forward bravely, so that people who have already helped a lot should be a little more open-minded and open-minded, and sometimes"I can't bear to let the child trap the wolf"Oh, don't pay attention to other people's gossip.

I, too, am a woman, and I feel the same way about your description. What I do know is that this world is a male society, and it will be difficult for a woman to fight it alone. I feel that it is best for women to follow the mainstream in life, such as Xue Baochai.

No matter how indignant you are in your heart, and how helpless you are. If a woman is not very clever and fights with men who are much better than herself, she is doomed to suffer. You have to know that your body is different from theirs, that your status is different from theirs, and that men are very egoistic things.

I think that as long as a woman asks for less, there is nothing that she can't get by.

This society is a money society, when you think so, you should see people who are richer than you and live more chic than you, you feel envious, jealous and hateful, and some of the resulting ideas are downplayed, in fact, there is nothing to do without money, I am afraid that there is no money and no thoughts, and there are no ideals, and directions. Let's work hard, at least we live to the fullest.

Isn't there someone in your life who genuinely cares about you, or you don't see it. If you become like that, unfortunately, this society is as you said, deception, exploitation, and contempt have always existed, but good things have always existed, and your mentality determines whether you can detect these beautiful people or things.

Be a man with principles and a bottom line, so that others will respect you. People are warm and cold, the world is hot and cold, don't go astray, and be cautious in dealing with the world.

If you don't have the bottom line of being a human being, you have lost yourself. Please be kind to yourself.

Now in this era, think about how to make money first, run the time, live a good life, and sooner or later you will meet what you want.

Live for yourself, for the people you love and for the people you love, don't live for money. Cherish yourself.

Be confident and be yourself.

Maybe you're done here!! Forget it, don't get too obsessed

I've had it too, but some things have passed, and there's no going back.

It's been more than 4 years and I advise you not to go to her.

Wouldn't it be nice to keep a good memory?

Because you don't know about it for more than 4 years, she may have undergone a lot of changes, to the point that you are very unfamiliar.

Or maybe she already has a boyfriend, and you will only feel more bitter when you see her, even if she hasn't changed, she is still the princess in your heart, but can you guarantee that she will be with you?

So leaving a good memory is far greater than the cruelty of the unknown reality when you met her.

Get a girlfriend well and transfer your feelings to your girlfriend.

You will live happily ever after.

Love is really beautiful!

But no one in love will wait for anyone for a lifetime!

In the days to come, you will meet her who is suitable for you in every way!

After all, with the improvement of ideology, culture, economy, and social status, your requirements will also be high, and of course she will be the treasure in your heart.

Always believe in a word, distance produces beauty. Are you sure that if you were to meet her now, she would still be the one you liked. If not, then treasure her in the psyche!

Look for it, work hard, and don't regret it when you think about it later.

No one will despise you, it's just that you are doing something wrong in your heart, don't put too much pressure on yourself, take it easy. Studying hard and making progress every day is the right direction.

It doesn't matter if you despise you, you have to let those who don't study hard all day know that they despise you now, and they have a day when they are despised. So come on and study, don't think about anything else. It's 5 months away, come on.

If possible, we would be at the same university.

What everywhere despises the eye, knowledge does not despise people, read your book well, dedicate yourself.

There is nothing to despise, just work hard, and don't care what profession, provided it is legal.

Three hundred and sixty lines of the line out of the champion.

What is reasonable and lawful is justified and will not be despised.

Suicide attempts, crying, begging in a low voice, flattering the boss.

Perseverance means staying the course and not letting up.

One day, it had just rained and the air was fresh, so I went out for a walk. As I walked, I suddenly saw a black thing next to the big tree, and when I walked over to see it, it turned out to be a spider with a big belly and a thin waist, and it was weaving a web! The wind and rain had broken the spider's web, and it was rushing to re-weave it.

The spider was about the size of two cents, with a black-brown skin and 8 claws encircling a big round belly, and it was hanging in the air, and I decided it was strange, could it be that spiders could fly? When I got closer, it turned out that it was suspended in the air by a long soft filament, the top of which was tied to a branch, and the bottom of the silk was connected to a small hole under the spider's belly, and as the eight claws kept paddling, the silk continued to extend. Oh!

It turns out that spiders secrete mucus from small holes, and when they encounter air mucus, they turn into soft filaments. The spider landed on the stake below, fixed the filament, and quickly returned to the original high branch along the trunk. It jumps down and doesn't fall.

Because by this time, the second filament had already been spit out of the small hole. It landed firmly on the stake again, and then the third, and then the fourth, ......After a while, the spider had to go to the web.

Although the spider is small, its spirit of perseverance and perseverance has to be learned!

Haha, the back grass is not delicious.

Work is work ··

Love is love ·· But your boyfriend doesn't even mention getting married, so you might as well not want any of them

This kind of thing is urgent in this era, I think you can find a third one, it should be a good person to listen to you, I pray that you find a third one.

Personally, I think it's better to have a relationship with your first boyfriend, after all, he is waiting for you, it can be seen that he is sincere to you, and the work problems you are talking about, your problems are so big, I don't think you should lose your life's happiness for this job, otherwise everyone will be uncomfortable! Also, I also read your questions about others, your first boyfriend is willing to marry you, there should be some unsolved problems before avoiding it, or dating your first boyfriend!

I wish you happiness.

I think it's better for you to be with the second boyfriend, the first boyfriend you mentioned marriage and he avoided it, which means that he is not ready to marry you, which also shows that he is not 100% of the heart of you, so that when you return to him, he will feel that you can't do without him, and it will get worse after a long time, and you will still be more sad when the time comes, no matter what, you have to think about it yourself.

I think you actually want to get back together with your first boyfriend, since you have said that you are going to get married, then get married, you can find a job again, and the person you love may be difficult to meet again.