Will the slow burning type last longer?

Updated on vogue 2024-02-29
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It depends on the two sides of the relationship, if the other party likes vigorous love, and you are a slow-burning person, your relationship is likely not to last long, if the other party will accept the plain feelings, you don't need too many words, but the other party can understand your sincerity, and your relationship will remain long-lasting.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think this is necessarily, if you are a slow-burning person, he will just be slower to warm up about her feelings, but it doesn't mean that her feelings will be longer.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Slow-burning people will maintain a relationship for a long time, because slow-burning people are more introverted, so they will not like to talk when they first start to get in touch, but you can spend more time getting to know this person, which will make you less conflicting when you are in love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, the ice can be melted, not to mention that he is not a cold person, he is just slow to heat, it will still be hot, and it is not cold and paralyzed or anything, but it will take a long time for him to be enthusiastic about a relationship.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, as long as you patiently wait for his slow heat period to pass, and after the slow heat period is over, you will love her madly and let him fall in love with you, so that it can last a long time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It depends on whether the other party is willing or not, because generally speaking, people who are slow to heat up are very firm in their feelings, but I don't know if the other party is willing to slow down with him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A long-term relationship is not about slow heat or fast heat, but about how two people maintain it together, and managing the relationship well will naturally last for a long time. Go and enjoy the nourishment of your feelings and don't care too much about the results.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I haven't heard of this kind of saying, the slow-burning type of people just behave slowly when they first get along, and it is difficult to get along with strangers, but whether they can maintain the relationship for a longer time depends on the joint efforts of the two.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In my impression, people who are slow to talk about feelings generally don't talk about feelings easily, but when they really talk about feelings, they are very firm, and basically nothing changes.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because they have no way of knowing that what they are encountering is love, and when they understand, they have found that love has been missed, and such people are often easy to miss love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, it's especially easy to miss, because these people belong to the category of slow heat. But after these people like each other. Maybe the other party is tired.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's because they can't grasp their love well, and they can't find their own love well, so it's easy to miss.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes, definitely. Because such a person will not take the initiative to confess when he meets someone he likes, nor will he take the initiative to grasp it, he will always miss out on love and will always regret it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think it's such a person, if you are too slow to react in love, you may not be able to keep up with the rhythm of the other party, sometimes you are not ready to love, the other party has chosen to break up, in terms of love, you must react quickly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Slow-burning people are usually not good at expressing their emotions, they can only wait for others to love them, and they will not actively look for their love, they will miss out on the person they like.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It is too easy for a slow-burning person to miss love, because he can't grasp the opportunity of love, and he will not notice it until others are already bored, which will make the other party very unhappy, and it will be easy to miss it slowly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think the biggest reason may be that they didn't give each other a proper response in time in love, so that the other party felt that it was impossible, so they left him. So you will miss love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Slow-burning people are easy to miss love, because everyone's endurance is limited, when the other party frequently shows you favor, and you don't react for a long time, at this time, the other party will think that you don't like him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think it's easy for a slow-burning person to miss love, because he is too slow to express himself, which will make the other party's attitude towards him misunderstand.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The reason why people who are slow to heat up is that they are slow to heat up, and by the time they figure out their minds, the other person is already disheartened.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes, after all, if a person likes you and you remain indifferent, the other person will feel that you don't like the other person, so they will gradually leave.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    For this question, I think it still depends on the specific situation of the individual. Because there is no standard answer to this question, it depends on the situation and who you meet. It also has something to do with your own personality.

    Slow-burning people treat feelings, once they fall in love, it is difficult to empathize, and they are more responsible people.

    People who are slow in the relationship are generally more affectionate than people with other personalities, they will not easily accept a relationship, nor will they pursue a relationship without scruples, in their bones they are afraid of being hurt, and they are also afraid that they will disappear after being familiar with that person in life, so people with a slow heat personality will be more cautious about feelings. Once they invest in a relationship, it must be wholehearted, they always advise themselves that it is enough to love each other for seven points, and at the same time, they unconsciously give each other a lot of love, and always want to give the best to each other.

    Love is probably like this, it always makes people feel uncontrollable. There will always be someone who will make you break the routine and make you obsessed. Once a slow-burning person starts a relationship, it is often the beginning of "no return", his feelings for you are accumulated day by day after a long time, from all the advantages seen at the beginning to all the shortcomings that are tolerated by you later, they can stand the test of time.

    It is said that love is too fast like a tornado, it comes and goes quickly. Many relationships often start with ignorance and end after understanding, because after understanding, they find that the other party is not what they imagined, so they feel unsuitable. But for people who are slow to burn, this kind of problem generally does not happen to them, because when people are slow to invest in a relationship, they must start after getting to know each other and each other relatively well, and once they start, they will be wholeheartedly.

    If it's not a matter of principle, or if you've hurt the other person too much, the slow-burning type usually won't take the initiative to break up. They are very serious about their feelings, so if there is such a person around you, you must cherish it.

    Slow-burning people treat feelings, once they fall in love, it is difficult to empathize, and they are more responsible people.

    People with a slow-burning type in a relationship are generally more affectionate than people with other personalities, they will not easily accept a relationship, nor will they pursue a relationship without scruples, in their bones they are afraid of being hurt and afraid of familiarity in life.

    It is said that love is too fast like a tornado, it comes and goes quickly. Many relationships often start with ignorance and end after understanding, because after understanding, they find that the other party is not what they imagined, so they feel unsuitable. But for people who are slow to burn, this kind of problem generally does not happen to them, because when people are slow to invest in a relationship, they must start after getting to know each other and each other relatively well, and once they start, they will be wholeheartedly.

    If it's not a matter of principle, or if you've hurt the other person too much, the slow-burning type usually won't take the initiative to break up. They are very serious about their feelings, so if there is such a person around you, you must cherish it. So, it still depends on the situation.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Slow heating is better than fast heating when dealing with emotional development.

    Slow heating, that is, fate is fixed, water comes naturally, and then the water flows for a long time.

    In the company of the rest of their lives, it is self-evident that they will work together and go through ups and downs, and then they will naturally grow old and white.

    And if it's hot, it's like an empty idol drama.

    There is a beauty filter of "Xi Shi in the eyes of the lover", and there is also a time filter of "the hottest but the first love", which is heavily rubbed and polished, making it difficult to distinguish between southeast and northwest.

    A relationship may be love at first sight and goodbye.

    Then there are many obstacles, and finally there is a vigorous, unswerving relationship, love to the depths, vows and alliances, and promise to be one for a lifetime, no other.

    However, when the filter of love fades and the catalyst called dopamine disappears, the two will finally be unable to resist reality, and they will understand that the alliance will also be separated, and it is not vain to grow old.

    Of course, this is not to say that slow heating is necessarily better than fast heating.

    Rather, in the process of slow heating, the two people in the intimate relationship, as they get along day by day, will slowly run in, and the longer they get, the more husband and wife will look, and the possibility of being able to go down hand in hand is higher.

    Fast heat sounds more like a fast food love, the first food is in the middle of the taste, and the gradual food is tasteless.

    The possibility of being able to go on hand in hand will be lower, but I don't know that after being dizzy by dopamine, when it subsides, the two will continue to be in love or be relatively speechless.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    How can people who are slow to fall in love well?

    To what extent I am slow to warm up about relationships, that is, if I am chased by someone I have known for a short time, my first feeling will be uneasy.

    Whether I like him or not, I'm upset, it's hard to describe, probably because it's not the way I'm used to facing love.

    If you know a boy and like a girl, you must dare to say very eagerly, "I want to be with you", and I won't feel like it if I am fooled by a girl with a joke, and if I like it, he will continue to express it. If the last two can't make it, he will soon be able to forget about it, and even talk to the girl occasionally and be friends.

    It's not a question of being affectionate or not, but, that's how people face love.

    This is the way to take the initiative in the relationship, and slow people can't do it.

    I think slow burners are probably always passive. For example, "when a person appears in the field of vision and expresses his heart to himself, he may still feel that we do not know each other well enough." Then, "when I came back to my senses, the other person was already feeling impatient."

    It's a difficult misalignment to deal with.

    Slow burners also tend not to express themselves.

    My ability to express myself may be limited to writing, and for many years, I couldn't say anything to the person I liked.

    As I get older, I hate that I don't have the ability to say "I miss you" directly, and I hate that when I am liked in a way that is not suitable for me, instead of communicating with people seriously, I shout "I don't need your love!" Your love is not good at all! But being liked by some people is precious, and I later realized that I hated that I had to stumble with our first place, and I hated that the more I was liked by the people I liked, the stranger it became.

    It's really too much to express that you don't want to be in the relationship, you like it so much, but you can't show anything, you take the initiative once in a while and you're awkward, and you don't feel embarrassed to take the initiative or whatever, it's really shy, and you want to think about it, people test you, find that you don't have any reaction, people decide to leave, you know that there is nothing wrong with people, it's just uncomfortable, why can't you say, "You are really important to me".

    Heck, it's actually slow heating, and everything will be fine after a long time.

    But most people can't wait that long.

    Love is that two people's emotions must fall on the same level, and the time must also be tightly matched, too harsh, too difficult.

    When you like me, I don't think you're good, I look back and think, oh my God, you're so good, why did I think "you're not good", it's useless, I used to watch the kind of movies where two people don't go around and don't get together, and I thought "it's impossible", and then I learned that for people who are slow to heat, "I can't like people who obviously like it", it's just normal.

    But what to do, I don't know ......I now feel more and more that my relationship is going with the flow, and I also believe more and more that "the people who should be together will be together no matter what".

    People don't treat love in the same way. Some people know each other on the third day together, and I don't think it's wrong, but I ...... myselfLet me confirm that I like it myself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This question is not absolute. Because some people think that whether the relationship lasts or not has nothing to do with how fast it progresses. Generally speaking, girls like to be slower, and they don't feel like they suffer for a long time; Boys like to be faster and have the feeling of taking advantage, but the idea of losing and taking advantage is unhealthy.

    It is necessary to start from your own heart, "devote yourself to liking a person, and even lose yourself", and silently rub the relationship that is determined by gains and losses, so that it will not last long.

    If the relationship starts quickly, you may be attracted by each other's characteristics or clothing at a certain moment, of course, it may also be obsessed with each other's appearance and temperament, so as to show your likes and love in a hurry and without reservation.

    After this kind of relationship has passed the love period, there is no "beauty filter" in Qingyushan, and there is no hormone blessing, and Yuzhong is likely to have some contradictions when facing many life details and conflicts with the three views. When a series of problems ensue, the relationship that cannot withstand the test may "go their separate ways" and become strangers from then on.

    Therefore, it takes time for feelings to run in, why do you say that the feelings of "flash love" and "flash marriage" are nine times sad. Because the lovers who directly get married and confirm the relationship are all doing minus points, gradually reducing from a full score of 100 points to a negative score.

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