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Alas, a tangled relationship, to be honest, judging from his approach, he may not really love you, but what you didn't get was the most precious thing for him at the beginning, but now it seems that the freshness has passed, you are no longer so important to him, and in turn, he has now has a requirement for you, if you meet his request, then you are equivalent to buying a grave for your feelings, understand? Or, he expressed it in the wrong way, what he said was not what he really thought in his heart, and occasionally caused some misunderstandings.
Girls in a relationship, to men will only get better and better, so you really to him, and did not get the corresponding return, he is now playing with you all day long, just because he is unwilling, after all, he feels that he has paid a lot for you, unwilling to end like this, of course, he should also be looking for the next target, but he has not found it yet, one day he really finds it, he may treat the next one in the same way as you, and when he encounters setbacks, he will think of your good again.
If you are really deeply in love with him, and maybe you still have a trace of attachment to him, then it can only be said that there is a lack of communication between you, and maybe effective communication can have a chance to save your feelings, provided that you were once sincere with each other! Good luck.
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Judging from what you said above. First of all, this man cares about you a lot, that's why he did it for you. Then he is immature!
This is known from his mouth. I think men pay for women because the other party cares about you and is willing. But there is no need to talk about it all the time, so he is immature!
Second, he blindly asks your family to buy a car before getting married, he has no confidence in himself, and he is worried that you will be separated sooner or later! He may be afraid of losing you! I suggest you ignore him just yet.
Find a chance to talk to him and tell him what is in his heart! It could be a lot better.
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After reading your experience, I thought deeply, I wonder if you all buy a car as a dowry when you get married? What a woman wants in her life is nothing more than true love and a warm home, you are a good girl, in this materialistic era, you can do this, it means that you love him deeply, but for him, it needs to be pondered. Feelings are a matter of two people, maybe your temper is too good, so that he is entangled with you, a person who hangs the car all day long, do you say that he will love you 100%?
Wealth is just a passing cloud, and the ordinary is true!
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Love sometimes needs to be rational. Because your love is for marriage. So it is right to be prudent and calm.
Love or not love is through two aspects: one is words and the other is deeds. There are some things that cannot be judged by simple truth or falsehood or lies. Because there is a beautiful lie to tell. Of course, on the whole, two people need to be sincere with each other.
Loving for the sake of love can sometimes be very long-lasting.
The main feeling is still the main feeling of the feelings of two people. It's good that material things don't mix too much.
Two people also need basic respect when they fall in love, and there is no need to cheat and drag each other down. Yuan Zhi is the end of the fate!
Bless you to find true love.
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After all, the introduction of the new marriage law is not very fair to some people, and the car is a depreciating product and is not cost-effective. Instead of buying a car, you should buy a house. As for whether to love or not, it depends on your own inner feelings, and others have no way to say for sure.
Before getting married, take him to meet his parents, see what attitude the old people in the family have towards him, you must know that the older generation still has a very good eye for people, you might as well listen to the opinions of the elders in the family before making a decision. And if you want to get married, don't remember to do things satisfactorily, don't leave any pimples after getting married, no one will feel comfortable.
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First of all, you can be sure that you are very rational in your approach to life, without the psychology of comparison, and can make a very good plan or plan for the future. But your boyfriend may have been thinking about buying a car for the sake of face, you can communicate with him first, and show off your family, after all, you will need money to live in the future, if you take a large amount of money to buy a face now, and eat coarse tea and light rice every day, how boring it is, it is better to save money first, and after the life is prosperous, if you still have spare money, then consider this!
As for the idea that you feel that he is dragging you to find the next one now, don't think about it for the time being, don't think about it, and communicate with him well! Let's live!!
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It is indeed to please you. Marriage should be a matter for two families, and the decision should be made after considering the financial situation of both families, especially when it comes to money. The effort you make should let him know. See how he reacts.
If you really don't want to be with him anymore, then you have to know why he can't tolerate his girlfriend the most? And then you say you're that kind of person. ......Self-destructive breakup.
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Women have women's intuition, men have men's intuition, if what you say is really understood, then he may not love you, he may just find a marriage partner, or he may think that his money needs to be reciprocated by you, anyway, intuition told me that it is not love, with your woman's intuition and personal feelings, what do you think? When it is broken, it is broken, and if it is continuous, it is chaotic. Love also requires reason.
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You just tell him, let him know that you care about him, boys are not as careful as girls, easy to detect, some boys you don't tell him, he never knows your love for him, boys are hindsight, as for buying a car, with your own conditions, if you really can't buy it, just say it, make it clear, don't cold war. Personally, I don't think buying a car has much to do with whether you love him or not.
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No, perhaps you should learn how to better express your inner thoughts, and think about whether there is a better way to express yourself, that is, to express your own meaning: for the consideration of the other person, your own difficulties; without hurting the other person's feelings. You're not bad people, you both love each other, talk about it and he will understand you.
And there's nothing wrong with cheap laughter, not for him, but for yourself Hehe
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The good love that the sentence said is not spoken, it is made It shows that the boy has you in his heart through action, in fact, the boy is a little temperamental, it is estimated that your boyfriend is a little machismo, you said that you are sick and will not have children to break up, when you said this, you thought about the consequences of this or you yourself planned to break up, and heart disease still needs heart medicine!
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How to say it, the real feeling in his heart is only known to him, and you describe it as if he is trying to get married, but maybe he can't express it, and he is not a person who can speak well. You should be clear about this yourself. Buying a car may just be his vanity.
Think about it and follow your feelings.
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If you really don't want to pay attention to him, you can add him to the blacklist, which can prevent him from harassing you, since you yourself feel that he is dragging you to find the next one, then what do you still miss him?
If a man really loves you, he won't let you spend money to let him enjoy it, but just the opposite... This man is not worth cherishing anymore...
It can be seen that you are a very careful person, and someone will definitely cherish you and love you...
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Your dedication is truly admirable! The car is indeed a very heavy burden, and it is also a matter of controversy among you at the moment! Let's talk about it again!
I feel that he loves face! Indeed, as long as people live happily and healthily, the material conditions are only to satisfy the vanity of the moment! Hopefully, you'll make the right choice.
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Emotional matters can only be decided by yourself You feel that this person is not good for you It is not so easy to find someone who is good to you Two people communicate more There is trust in each other Feelings without trust will end sooner or later People who really love you are rare now Only love yourself Cherish each other well Don't regret leaving.
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It can be seen that your feelings for him are very deep, but the reverse is not like that, since you can see it, just pay attention to yourself, don't get too involved, otherwise it will always be the most painful pain in your heart!
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If love is too stressful, it will be breathless, so it is better to break it off early. And according to what you said, this man is somewhat of a problem, you have to be careful. Don't be fooled.
And I don't like what your boyfriend said: I pay you to laugh... If I met this kind of man, I would have broken up a long time ago.
I support your decision! Parted!
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Love yourself, don't want your parents to pay, support you! It feels like he's hiding something from you, you need a thorough communication, get to know each other, this requires his confession, and if he can't do that, I suggest you leave him, the farther away the better.
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He is not mature yet, he doesn't know what love is, and he can't love people, if you think he's not worth your time, make it clear and let him die completely, otherwise it won't be good for either of you.
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Love him and tell him, let him know that you care about him, boys are not as careful as girls, easy to notice, some boys you don't tell him, he never knows your love for him, boys are hindsight, as for buying a car, with your own conditions, if you really can't buy it, just say it, make it clear, don't cold war. The cold war will not solve the problem.
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Or do you care more about him, if you don't care, you don't have so many ideas! It's true that you think about what to do next, and leave yourself a way back! Girls should protect themselves first!
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If two people are together, there is no need to continue if there is no feeling of happiness, love is love, not love is not love, since you have decided to give up, don't dwell, entangled for too long is not good for both of you.
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He's immature! But you're the same age, and the boy matures a little later. My opinion is to grasp the general direction of principles, and small details can be ignored.
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This kind of man is not wanted, I feel that he is not sincere to you, although we can give you a lot of advice, but in the end it is you who makes the decision, you have to think about it.
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You don't love deeply enough, you question this relationship so much, he can't give you a down-to-earth feeling anymore, what are you still doing together, so many things happen to you, the only thing that's wrong is that you don't empathize
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If you don't want to get married, it's a hooligan to fall in love, if you want to be together, then meet the parents of both parties, if he doesn't want to see it, he doesn't want to get married.
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True love is in your own hands, don't cheat, no one can stand it, your boyfriend is immature, talk about it!
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If you like it, you like it, it's so complicated.
If you really like it, you won't be distressed, if you like it, you must have it.
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"I like it so much", then aren't you asking for it, if you really like it, and she has given you a chance, then why do you still say those words? Don't put gauze on your heart with your own excuses!
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Sometimes you need to be quiet and put this memory in the memory pawnshop
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