Periodic love is very distressing, ask for advice!

It means that you have not found someone who is suitable for you or that you like very much. It may also be that you are still immature in your own thinking, and you can't correctly view that everyone has shortcomings, and you don't have big and small problems between lovers. It is recommended that you find someone you like and the gap in all aspects is not very large, that is, reliable to fall in love.

Then try to accept your boyfriend's shortcomings, face the problems between you properly, and try to find ways to solve them, instead of being unhappy when you encounter problems and then give up. If you don't give up, it's called love!

You have already realized that this disturbing affliction is a phenomenon of samsara. It's good that you've found the reason. You already know that this phenomenon arises because of the emergence of various problems, and you feel that there is a problem that cannot be solved, of course you will be "unhappy" (your heart is blocked), and in the face of these problems, your usual approach is to run away and end a relationship, thinking that this will solve the problem.

However, the repetition of events of the same nature reminds you within you that running away is not the solution to the problem, and that if you run away from them without facing them bravely and resolving them, the problem will always be there and present itself to you through different events. That's how it reminds you to process and learn from it, not to run away.

What do you think is the purpose of a relationship that needs to be "persistent"? The ultimate goal of a love relationship is to allow each other to grow, explore themselves, and realize that the true self is "love", rather than maintaining a relationship for the sake of a relationship.

True love comes from the heart, think about it, when you really love something, what is your "reason"?

Is there a problem with the above, people are girls, what girlfriends have problems. Many of the reasons for this situation are your own, your standards cannot be met by the other party or you feel that you cannot meet the other party's requirements, adjust appropriately, relax your mind, and give yourself a buffer space, which will slowly disappear as you mature.

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You're insecure, and the boyfriend you're looking for doesn't give you security.

You should have more contact next time and then decide who to be with, it may be that you are too soft-hearted, and the boy chases you, and you agree to it if you are soft-hearted, but you don't know enough and don't like it enough.

Also, affection is tolerance, no one is perfect, there will be problems for two people to get along, the focus is on tolerance

Hi··· That's right. Wait for Lao Tzu to teach you. This kind of problem, either your girlfriend has a problem, or you have a problem. You have to try to change yourself, you don't have to be very serious, just be careful, patient, and considerate.

Life is very distressing, I will still persevere, I will still try.

Are you trying to make a sentence?

As long as the meaning is smooth.

That's not the only answer.

For example, it's very painful to fall in love, but we still have the courage to try, and we still enjoy it.

I was very distressed, tell the teacher about the small actions done at the same table, and the same table will complain about me, and no longer be good friends with me; Don't tell it, as a class leader, you have betrayed the trust of teachers and classmates.

I'm so distressed that I have to do my homework every day!

Girls go shopping, boys help girls carry things, a word tired.

When you fall in love with different people, you have different feelings, and you have to experience this yourself.

It's super cool, you can try it and you'll know.

Follow your instincts, learn to love since you don't know how to love, you are a good person, but everyone's vision is different. If you still love her and can't let go of her, just chase her, I support you; If you let go of her and feel that it has nothing to do with you whether she is there or not, just let it go and go to the person who loves you and the person you love. Actually, I have no experience in love, this is just a little advice, come on!

Let's let it go, let's find another one. Take more time to find a partner, and don't go to work until you die.

This woman obviously doesn't like you and doesn't have a good impression of you, and if you do this, it will make this woman more and more disgusted with you.

The other party's meaning is obvious, and I won't say it anymore.

In fact, you can see the situation clearly, it's not your conditions or anything, but that the other party really doesn't call you ......At the beginning, you can see that the other party is not very satisfied with you, so you don't ask for more contact. According to the general mode of getting along, you should take the initiative to withdraw at this time.

Sometimes, you can't be too demanding, too demanding will become annoying, especially for boys, too active and too demanding will make the girl very insecure, if she doesn't like you.

It's not hate, it's not hate, and it doesn't mean love and liking.

You may still have a chance, and that must be based on the premise that you give up the entanglement now, let the other person take a breather, and at the same time allow time to slowly remove the bad impression you have on her.

If she was still alone at that time, you might still have a chance to ......

Give up this love that is difficult to achieve.

You don't really meet for three hours, and if you don't have a fit between you, you don't deserve it.

Let each other go, she's already talked about it.

Give yourself and her a chance to be free.

Learn to be relieved.

Brother, are you writing an essay? Such a long story!

Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower?

Choosing to give up a forest just for the sake of a tree?

Should you say you're stupid, or are you infatuated?

Ay! Ask what is the situation in the world, and teach people to make a promise!

Lovers will eventually become family members, good luck!

On is also a kind of growth:

Give her up! There are roughly three types of girls looking for a boyfriend:

1. One is to want to get married and be more realistic - the man has a stable job and a strong family is the choice they want, and on this basis, as long as the boy is not very bad, the general girl will agree to fall in love and go on. As for the landlord's place of work, it is inconvenient to go home and the mother's affairs should not pose much of a problem.

2. Another kind of girl is born beautiful and has a restless heart or is born with a solid family, this kind of girl wants to challenge the outside world of men, generally speaking, they will not get married honestly, for them when they get married.

3. Particularly self-conscious, they have their own ideas about love when they are young, and they will not easily change their opinions because of their own or the other party's family conditions, this kind of girls are more self-conscious, believe in love at first sight, believe in love, but must be their own love. It's not easy to impress, but after getting her love, she will never swerve to you, unless she finds out that you are not what she wants.

The girl you said is a bit like the third type, but there are few information desks, so you can't judge very accurately, but you still advise the landlord to give up. With your conditions and disobedience to trouble, you should be able to be considered a good man, and besides, your love goal is very clear - that is, to get married, so it is better to find a girl who is meaningful to the future family (that is, to find a good wife and mother, you can't serve the master who is too individual), so that it is fair and beneficial to you, her and your wife in the future.

Pure handmade, pure personal point of view, I hope to help the landlord.

Nabs. How to say that. You say there's something going on at home. But it was not explicitly stated. Sure.

Be a little higher and more interesting, and others will think that you are worthy of respect. This girl has already said it so clearly, it doesn't make sense if you continue to entangle. Even the ** number has been blocked, and there are a bunch of things that mean that you have caused some trouble to her life, and she has disgusted you.

Whether it's because of some situation in your family or not, you should let go and find another girl.

It's clear that she doesn't like you.

Maybe she found you when she was introduced by someone because she learned that the person she liked was about to get married, and she was just angry.

If she wants to treat marriage as a task, as long as she has a little feeling for you, she will not fail to look for you.

I appreciate your dedication, but are you sure you feel in your heart? I don't think you know a lot, and you don't know a lot of people and things, and you can't look at the surface and you can't listen to other people.

I think your dedication and innocence are your strengths, and girls nowadays don't like a boy with a heart (even if the boy is very good), so use your advantages to impress her or find another person who belongs to you to cheer up.

Brother, give it up, she's so good, she can't even count as a passerby in your life, don't be too much.

Dead eyes pull You see I've been kissing 8 times a year A lot of girls don't look down on me Leave yourself some self-esteem Maybe you're very satisfied with her But it's useless if she doesn't like you Right, even if she forces herself to be with you, she won't be happy When I go on a blind date with someone, I usually ask in the first sentence Whether I came voluntarily or was forced by my family If I was forced, we will still finish the cutscene But there will be no progress after that Be sensible She is not your cup Don't be too persistent.

I weakly asked, does she like you?? If you like it, you don't have a chance, but you know the inside story, and your heart is somewhat comforted; If you don't like it, you don't have a chance, even if you know the inside story? Tell you that if she doesn't like you, you'll hate you if you always pester her like this, good girls don't want to be happy for vanity but really think it's a nuisance, at least that's what girls think in my life.

According to what you wrote, you don't have a chance anyway, you have to let go if you can't let go, it's not yours, it's not yours, there must be someone waiting to meet you later, it's okay for men to be older, they will take care of people when they are older, and girls now eat this set, so they have to find a boy who is older than themselves to be their boyfriend, so, come on!

You just let someone else go, I'm a girl, I can understand what she thinks, it's better for you to have a long pain than a short pain. Others have said that feelings are okay, why do you keep pestering others? Asking for your own hardship?

Others are avoiding you, and if you don't like it, you really don't like it, and from your point of view, it's just wishful thinking. Give up before it's too early I hate boys who keep pestering others.

It's finished reading, and the writing is good. Ha ha. When it comes to business, feelings are reluctant to come, and there is nothing wrong with insisting on one's feelings, and there is nothing wrong with others not accepting them.

So I think you don't think your gold and stone are open, if it comes to this point, then you can only wish her happiness. When it is time to put it, you must know how to put it, too insistence in exchange for disgust, it is not beneficial.

Suffice it to say that you didn't meet the right person, or you felt she was the right person, but you didn't meet at the right time. So if you want to open a little, as long as you are bent on finding someone you can spend your life with, you can definitely have new opportunities and new beginnings. Forget all this, if you hold on to it like this, you can only make yourself more miserable The pain you are experiencing now, if you don't give it up, how can it give up on you Only by being relieved can you welcome the arrival of a new love

Maybe she's afraid of getting hurt, as you said in the article: the person she had a crush on for eight years is married! So she really can't fall in love with someone else.

You! If you don't give up, if you don't persevere, you must not use an attitude of not caring, you must be very sincere. If you want to marry her, insist, if not, give up quickly、、、 otherwise it will harm others and yourself!

Send you two words: give up! You are fighting a war of attrition without hope. The ancients.

said: There is no grass at the end of the world. Why be obsessed?

Life is a short journey. You're wasting time for something you don't know, it's unnecessary. Success is a matter of probability.

If you have this time, you can find a few more, there is always a suitable one, why hang yourself from a tree. The fact that she can grind with you for so long shows that she is also a crooked neck tree.

Without saying anything, I admire ...... your perseverance with that girlAnd you obviously have been together for less than three hours when you actually met and talked, so it stands to reason that you shouldn't know each other, why did you recognize her? It is recommended that the landlord think about this problem. And judging from the girl's performance of wanting to get away with it, the other party shouldn't have any feelings for you, if so, it's not like that.

I know very well that girls don't react to boys they like or have a crush on. If the landlord really wants to find a good girl to marry, it is recommended to find another good girl. Otherwise, it's really just a waste of time.

First of all, we must find out whether people have a boyfriend or not, if they are really going to get married, if they are not, then you should find some way to attack from her friends, understand how she feels about you, if you really don't feel for you, you also let go, but you still appreciate you a little, but you don't accept it because of external reasons, then continue! My boyfriend chased me before you were the same, I didn't like him, I didn't see him, I didn't pick up **, I couldn't reply to the text message, I chased 8 or 9 months before we met for 20 minutes, and there were all kinds of ** text messages in the middle, express gifts to me, and finally I was moved to have a meal with him, and I found that this person was actually very good, and slowly we developed!