Hey, it s really annoying to be in love, and my girlfriend doesn t have me in her heart

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Men have to have a strong side, you have to have their own range of activities.

    Women can only be a small part of a man's life.

    Friends and careers should be the main body.

    Having said that, since it's your girlfriend, I should still have you in my heart, but I don't know what the weight is, let me tell you the truth, my girlfriend, the weight in my heart is less than 5% at the moment

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a lot like me, trust her, give her her own space, develop her own circle, that's all you have to do, or you'll be like me, and you'll find out when both of you are hurt, and it's too late.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    She is a little lighter with you because she loves you, is afraid of losing you, and doesn't want to be disappointed as much as she wants. It is also possible to test whether you will love her. If you give up, she won't love you. You have to work hard! ~

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you want her to depend on her, tell her that you are lonely and lonely, and tell her directly! Lovers need to be honest with each other!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    So far, it has been observed that your girlfriend does not have you in her heart. I haven't seen you for more than a week, and I don't want to see you, and she likes to make friends. all speak of your crisis. You express your thoughts to her, and then watch her actions.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you really miss her, just call ** and say, the idea is to be expressed.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's your own reason!

    Of course your girlfriend has you!

    Such a topic should be a woman asking a man if he loves him, why is it the other way around now? 》

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's that you think too much, she doesn't want to see you, can't you go to her, and she ran all the way back, she should rest and rest, not the first time she came home to see you, the initiative should be you know, you should go to see her!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My girlfriend said that it is annoying to fall in love, it is better to live by yourself, this is not cared for by you, and it is not as good as a person's psychology.

    What should I do if I'm tired of falling in love?

    If you are really tired of each other, break up, because you are not married, the road of love is still far and long, and you will be tired of each other if you don't love each other.

    If you are your own fault, the other party loves you very much, you must correct the idea of falling in love, the way to express love between men and women is to prepare for marriage, and their usual living habits will inevitably be different, and you will not get tired of falling in love with the person you like, you may not have found the right person.

    When you are ready to fall in love, think about what kind of person you want, and then talk about love, isn't it just talking, the more you talk about it, the more you love, and if you don't talk well, you can get tired of leaving, because you feel uncomfortable and there is no result in talking about it next time.

    There is also a calm down, separate for a period of time, and then say, see if there is still wood between you, the love factor exists, if you have love, you can break up, if you find a lot of advantages of the other party after separation, it is your own fault, you decide for yourself whether you love or not, other people's families will never help you, when you fall in love, see each other's character clearly, think clearly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    That's it. Stay by yourself. Some women are like this, and they will come back to you when they figure it out. So don't think about what you don't have.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In this case, you should communicate well with your girlfriend, hate yourself for some reason, and then make timely corrections and move the other party with a sincere attitude.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Apologize to her, ask for her forgiveness, and promise her that you will never do anything that makes him sad again.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, if you want to coax your girlfriend more, then you will feel your respect and love for her, so that you can win back his heart.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Calmly talk to her and ask why, if there is a misunderstanding, solve it in time, and correct it if she is dissatisfied with some aspects of herself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Did you break up with her? Or how did you hurt her? If you say something like this because of a breakup, then you don't have to worry too much about this, this is just her momentary sad words, and time will heal all wounds.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What is the reason for saying such a thing, you have to explain it to her well, and dispel his worries and hatred.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If it is really her own mistake, she must know that the fault is **, and do her best to save it and make up for the damage caused to her by her mistake.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1. Three months is not a long time for falling in love, but if you feel tired, that is, there is a problem with your communication, and it can be seen from your statement that she is passive.

    2. In just three months, she confessed almost everything like you, that is, she had her, and you said that she didn't pester you, so did you understand what she was doing, whether she was busy, tired or not, whether she was busy with work and life, that is to say, you lack understanding of her.

    After a few months you feel cold to her, that's why, that's because you lack mutual communication, you don't know her, she doesn't understand you, you don't know what she needs, even if two people live together, there is no clear plan.

    So I hope you can communicate with her first, care more about her and understand her, talk to each other about your future plans, and don't easily abandon a relationship, because it is not easy for two people to come together, okay.

    If you have any questions, please feel free to ask.

    In my humble opinion, I wish you all happiness o ( o thank you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't just break up so easily. It is not easy to meet someone and get to know her, and some people will never find true love in their lives. However, we can't completely blame the other party in such a situation, so it is easy to leave a scar.

    If you really want to give up. Please make an effort for yourself for her. Try to understand her, she doesn't take the initiative or she may be shy, or she may be psychologically unstable, these problems may lead to coldness.

    To give her a little more care, some love is not expressed in the body or in words. A woman is a book that a man is always studying, and you have to understand it slowly. I've found the right way, but I'm afraid that person isn't sincere?

    At the same time, you should also examine yourself, whether you are uneasy to the other party, the woman actually cares about this problem very much. I hope you work hard, and if it really doesn't work, leave her and let everyone be free. If that heart is something you can't open, then leave her.

    At the same time, don't just use some excuses to break up and directly state the reason. Women are not born deceived, some experiences will be regarded as growth, and some will become a lifelong defense. That's the difference.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    We are in love. It's all the same, it's all about the pursuit of equality, who pays more. Less.

    If you give it yourself, you will get it in return. If you don't get it, you feel like you're at a loss. It's all the same.

    If you really like someone. Don't count it so much, really, it just means that you don't really like it. Breaking up may be your best bet.

    Maybe she doesn't like you very much. Nor can it be indifferent.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's only three months, and girls won't take the initiative so quickly, probably embarrassed.

    Maybe she's still testing you.

    But like you, you shouldn't love him, just want to be fresh, that's why you feel tired, and if you really love him, you won't feel tired.

    There are a lot of girls who are reserved in the early days of love, and many of them are not active.

    As for you, in fact, it's just an excuse not to love, you can't get it, it's good, and he gets everything he can give you.

    In the end, I still advise you to break up as soon as possible, so as not to hurt others, long pain is better than short pain, if you love her, please talk to you well, know his thoughts, if you are sure that you have no feelings for others, or break up early.

    Also, no matter how bad you talk about him behind your back, it's really bad, so that your friends will think that you can't do it, and I guess you still don't love her.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    One: Your impulsive sensations are slowly easing.

    Two: Your sex hormones are not supported by love.

    Three: She didn't really fall in love with you.

    Four: She didn't propose to break up, although she doesn't love you very much, but at least she can continue.

    If two people are "good".

    Both parties must agree.

    If you don't think well.

    As long as one party decides.

    If you want to divide it.

    Directly divided.

    If you want to continue.

    You need to mature a little more.

    Take on some more. Another: It feels like it's hard for you to get married and stay together for the rest of your life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's only been 3 months and I'm disgusted??

    Isn't it very frequent for you to change girlfriends?

    Look at what you said, I feel like you don't love her!

    You like all the shortcomings of someone who really love her, and they are all good in your opinion... It's only been 3 months and you start complaining, you pay more, she pays less, and falling in love is like this, if you get married, what it will be like, I can't imagine;

    Since you don't like it, it's better to make it clear earlier, so as not to delay others

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    First of all, don't wait for the return, although people will expect to reap the reward after paying, but you will feel unbalanced when you think like this.

    Secondly, you speak ill of her behind your back, proving that you don't love her. How else would you do that?

    Finally, please face your heart and see if you really love. If you don't love it, don't hurt her. What is she doing, old ml. In fact, what you can't put down is not a woman who can give you ML for free. Ask yourself, isn't it?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    A relationship that makes you tired but not happy cannot last long, and when you keep being so tired, you will also be annoyed. Your girlfriend didn't give you a little response is the reason why you are tired, I hope you can talk to her, if she sees you so tired and is willing to change, then there is salvation between you Bless you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The word "dump" doesn't sound good no matter how it looks, so let's use it sparingly! Are you tired of it after only three months? Since you feel tired and not suitable, you can talk to her, so why ruin someone's image in front of your friends?

    I believe that we women are not spineless enough to rely on you. I think as a woman, don't rely on a man who doesn't have feelings for you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Honestly, if my boyfriend says that about me, I'm going to have to abolish him!! You don't like her anymore, because you're tired, it's you who pay every time, don't be stupid, if he really likes you, she will reciprocate, don't be stupid, letting go is equivalent to letting yourself go.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If there is a problem, you should communicate with her and solve it well.

    If you want to break up, just say it directly, and you don't have to make a lot of excuses.

    Love will always turn from sweet to dull.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    No, I guess he doesn't care much about you, so let's break it up early, the more you drag it out, the more tired you get. Don't communicate with him, if he doesn't care about you, and you say that you are tired with her, he will definitely be unhappy, and he may be entangled in this reason. But if he cares about you, the current girls are willful and delicate, and they will definitely not be willing to pay to you anymore, or score.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I don't know if you've ever heard a story that seems like this: a boy pursues a girl, and the girl asks the boy to wait for her downstairs in the dormitory for 100 days, and then agrees to have a relationship. The boy would show up at the girl's downstairs on time every day, until the 100th day, when the boy didn't come, and the girl was very disappointed.

    Later, the girl went to ask the boy why, and the boy replied that the first 99 days were for love and the last day was for dignity. Once there is a conflict in the relationship, if you want to continue, you should communicate. She is very cold to you, and you always speak ill of her in front of your friends This kind of love is interesting, you know it best.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If I were her, I would hate you. A girl, such an important thing was given to you, and it turned out to be like this.

    Yes, if you want to break up, just talk about it, and you don't need a lot of excuses.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Actually, there is no need to think too much, you should change the way, or your girlfriend cares, but she just can't express it.

    Not all women are pestering, and you shouldn't know her well, otherwise it wouldn't be the current situation.

    You should communicate with her more, if you can't do it, just let it go, how can you spend your life together without love.

    Find out what the problem is, and see that what you say is her problem, so do you know what she wants?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In this case, you should communicate well If you don't communicate, it will only get worse and worse And Are you making excuses for yourself If you don't like it, you don't like it Why bother talking about this and that? Say how people are going to pester you Do girls have to pester you Do you love you if you are like 101 glue a day You are wrong Plain is true.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Anyway, I can't stand this kind of love, for example, when I kiss her with my girlfriend, she hides or doesn't respond, and I lose interest, I don't kiss her, I just say I'm tired, and then I leave.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You should ask her, is it interesting to talk about this kind of relationship? If we are tired of each other, then we might as well go straight to it.

    It's good for everybody, and you should know that the more you hurt, the more you give up, the more happy each other is, so why make each other so tired.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You have to figure out who has changed After all, the freshness of love is very short, if she doesn't talk to you from the beginning, will you still be like this You have to put yourself in your shoes and talk about everything.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You're tired of him, and maybe you've never really loved her, so it's better to break it up as soon as possible.

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