What about people who want to fall in love but don t want to fall in love

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello! You can see that you like stable and introverted boys, right? That boy happens to be this kind of reserved and steady, so you're quickly drawn to it.

    He thinks that the whole class knows because you deliberately spread it, and the whole class coaxed, and his introversion made him more resistant, and he judged that you are not a low-key person and like to be public, so he thinks you are not suitable. Moreover, since he is a low-key person, the girl he must like is also a low-key type, however, you take the initiative to confess to him, which may not be very appetizing to him. You should let him know in a more dramatic way.

    However, now that it has happened, there is no need to say it again. Now your question is, first, you have to figure out if he likes you or not, and then, decide whether you want to stick with it or not. Personally, I think that if you really like him, you can insist, a person like him is dead-eyed and admitted, if he doesn't like you, it is not easy to change, but once you are moved by your enthusiasm, he will die for you.

    The reason why he said that he doesn't want to be in a relationship now is because he may really have no feelings for you right now. Just imagine, a particularly introverted person may not usually think much about love, and you suddenly let him fall in love, and he really can't accept it. The reason why I talked to you may have been with the attitude of giving it a try, but I was embarrassed by the whole class, so he said that he didn't want to talk about it, but he really didn't want to talk about it.

    What you need to do now is to give him time to think about it, don't force him, be friends first, but, remember, persevere, start from the small things, and let him know at any time that in fact, you are waiting for him, waiting for his change of heart, so that one day, he will be impressed by you. At least, as a boy, a boy who is a little introverted, a little emotional, and a little affectionate, I am so adored by a girl, and one day, I will be moved. After all, being loved is also a kind of happiness, and this is something that only someone who has loved deeply and has been deeply loved will assure you like this.

    I hope you get what you want, and a lover will eventually become a family.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Find someone who has a feeling to chase.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Grapes that can't be eaten are the most acidic.

    When I was not in love, I saw other people's love and I in various dynamics, and suddenly I also hoped that there was such a person who could be so good to me, and I also wanted to feel the feeling of being cared for, and I was so good to him. However, when I was in love, I found that this person was not as good as I imagined, and I felt annoyed.

    In fact, to put it bluntly, it's not that you haven't met someone you really like, the one you are willing to put all your effort into knocking on the door of love. If you don't like it, don't provoke it, and in the end, it's not the affectionate person who gets hurt the most.

    We always like an imaginary ta, and then approach it, and slowly find out that it turns out that ta is such a person, and then move away from ta. In fact, he didn't do anything, and ended up with a bad reputation.

    When you are not in love, you want to fall in love, and after you talk about it, you don't want to talk about it, how to overcome it.

    Grapes that can't be eaten are the most acidic. When I was not in love, I saw other people's love and I in various dynamics, and suddenly I also hoped that there was such a person who could be so good to me, and I also wanted to feel the feeling of being cared for, and I was so good to him. However, when I was in love, I found that this person was not as good as I imagined, and I felt annoyed.

    In fact, to put it bluntly, it's not that you haven't met someone you really like, the one you are willing to put all your effort into knocking on the door of love. If you don't like it, don't provoke it, and in the end, it's not the affectionate person who gets hurt the most. We always like an imaginary ta, and then approach it, and slowly find out that it turns out that ta is such a person, and then move away from ta.

    In fact, he didn't do anything, and ended up with a bad reputation.

    But I like people, but I feel so annoyed, how to solve this.

    Then you have to adapt, since you choose to have a boyfriend, you have to take responsibility, if you don't want to be single.

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