What should I do if I look at my feelings very lightly?

I read a book Le Jia's "Lustful Eyes to Know People" to analyze it for you.

Champion - Yellow Man.

Runner-up - Blue Man.

Third runner-up - Green Man.

As yellow people, they look down on their feelings because their survival is not for love but for dominance, directly for money and power, they only seek the most expensive and not the best, they regard their lover as an object of learning, and do not give up any opportunity to absorb knowledge, if you are worthy of his investment in you or see a vision, even if his family is against him, he is fearless, if you are cowardly, it will only make you despise you and he will be further away from you.

As a blue person, they look down on feelings because they feel that there is no romance in this world, and his feelings need to be filtered, because no one can achieve the perfection in his heart.

As a green person, it is even simpler, a person who is at peace with what happens, who can "sit or not stand, can lie down or not" to enjoy his dream of a thousand years on any occasion, and a person who does not care about everything, does not reject or welcome the attitude of the feelings.

Are you closer to that color? If you read it, you will know that if you correct yourself.

Go with the flow, and you will always meet people who make you desperate to give your feelings. Love cannot be forced. Trust in fate.

That's fine, at least you won't get hurt by being too engaged.

When you are old, find a suitable one for yourself to live a stable life, don't love it too much, as long as it is suitable.

It doesn't matter if you look at your feelings lightly, life is originally plain and plain, and plain is true But don't be without a sense of responsibility

Let's devote more to our careers. It's naturally okay to meet someone you like =w=

Then don't look at it, how nice it is to be free alone.

First of all, you have to think about Kega, what is the meaning of feelings in your life? The Occlusion is to help you live a better life, so the premise is still yourself, and your focus still needs to be more on yourself.

For example, what do you want to eat today, how to solve the problems of today's work, and what is the focus of today's study? And don't keep paying attention to what the other party is doing, why the other party hasn't replied, what the other party means by saying this, whether what the other party says is true, and so on.

People who are sensitive to emotional over-slapping must take back their focus. Pay more attention to yourself.

Find what you like, spend most of your time perfecting yourself, learn to control Pi Kuan, tell yourself every sad and laughing, every excitement, and every moment of disappointment that this may be the best ending.

Hello dearIn fact, the feelings of two people will not appear, if they are faded or disfigured, mainly because after a long time, the days and this life will be dull, but the strong feelings will be dull, if you want to make this relationship always warm, then usually the two of them have to create some romance, such as shopping together, eating, watching movies, often two people go out to travel together, Sunday hunger and laughter two people can make an appointment to do something more fun, When you are doing something that can relax your mind, both of you will be in a very warm mood, so the relationship will naturally come back.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad to reply to you, what to do if the feelings fade: 1

Be yourself. When the relationship with her lover is indifferent, a woman needs to be herself, alone, and only by keeping herself unchanged and being able to persevere, continue to struggle, and live on, can she find true love again. There is no contradiction between the failure of love and the continuation of life, only by making yourself independent and self-reliant, can you not let yourself have nothing.

Many people take love too seriously and are too naïve, so they destroy their lives along with love.

Hello, I'm glad to reply to you, what to do if the feelings fade: 1Be yourself.

When the relationship with her lover is indifferent, a woman needs to be herself, alone, only by keeping herself indifferent and sensitive, and being able to persevere, continue to work hard and close the fight, and live on, can she find true love again. There is no contradiction between the failure of love and the continuation of life, only by making yourself independent and self-reliant, can you not let yourself have nothing. Many people take love too seriously and are too naïve, so they destroy their lives along with love.

2.Don't use a lack of affection as a reason to be negative about life. If Shichang has a weak relationship with the other half, and a woman can't treat life with a calm attitude, you still have to live a positive and sunny life, take back the wax, and be yourself.

Day after day, the sun rises as usual, and if a woman wants to improve herself, she must bravely face a failed relationship, and not indulge in the sorrow and distress of the slippery kind, which is meaningless and can only make you pursue happiness more and more.

3.Look for the "feeling" that two people have in common**. What should I do if my feelings are weakened?

When your relationship with your other half breaks down, you have not separated from him, you need to look for the common "feeling" of the two people**, that is, the reason and motivation for you to be together in the first place, because you decided not to separate from him, it means that you are still not separated from him, maybe it is no longer love, but family affection.

4.Don't point fingers at each other. When a woman's relationship with her lover fades, don't blame each other.

It is necessary to think calmly about why the feelings will become weaker, and women must understand that the relationship cannot continue is not necessarily the reason for one of the parties, it may also be because your spring cover is no longer there, let alone that you are not good enough!

Summary. When the relationship is weakened, you should 1 First of all, learn to take the initiative to express the love in your heart and let the love continue to burn. When two people are together, someone must take the initiative, and only when they take the initiative can they have a story, otherwise it is easy for small things to turn into a cold war.

2Second, avoid perfectionism. No one is perfect, and no one is perfect. When two people are just together, they are all looking at each other's strengths, and at this time the advantages cover up the shortcomings.

When the relationship tends to be flat, each other's shortcomings appear, there will be contradictions and differences, at this time we must learn to accept each other's shortcomings, accept our own imperfections, but also accept the imperfections of our lover.

When the relationship is weakened, you should 1 First of all, learn to take the initiative to express the love in your heart and let the love continue to burn. When two people are together, someone must take the initiative, and only when they take the initiative can they have a story, otherwise it is easy for small things to turn into a cold war. 2Second, avoid perfectionism.

No one is perfect, and no one is perfect. When the two Tongqing were just together, they were all looking at each other's advantages, and at this time, the advantages covered up the shortcomings. When the relationship tends to be flat, each other's shortcomings appear, there will be contradictions and differences, at this time we must learn to accept each other's shortcomings, accept their own imperfections, but also accept the lover's imperfection.

Count buckets. Female, I just want to know why you suddenly refused, I have been crying in my heart for this time and have not figured things out. I want to hear the truth from you. Male, I don't know female, I admit that I can't let go, but you don't know that I can't figure it out about this matter during this time?

I've struggled with it myself for a long time. Actually, I'm also very conflicted with men, I've got nowhere to go, so don't mix with women, I know, I know you're tired, but I don't understand what is the reason why you have no way out? Man, this is not something you care about, bye goodbye woman, you name it, if you help me, I will help you, if you can't help me, I will withdraw if you can withdraw God.

This is the best you have ever let me put down for you. It can also open the knot in my heart. It's true that we once loved each other!

Serinoo, no, it's my own business, thank you female, well, it's your business, but I think it's also the only reason for me to come out and let you go. It's also a knot in my heart! Analyze our conversation, what is the man's heart, thank you!

In no. In fact, in the end, he just doesn't want to bother you, and he doesn't feel the need to share it with you, and even if he does, you won't be able to help.

The teacher helped me analyze his thoughts.

I just don't want to share it with you, for fear of dragging you down.

He still likes you.

How can the teacher see that he still likes me.

Boys usually don't want to get into your hands on you.

Summary. Hello, dear, the relationship needs to be recovered and warmed up in time, the reason why this analysis is because the relationship is weak means that your emotions have been travel problems, maybe the two of you have experienced too many things, and slowly feel that this relationship seems to be far and near, and even has no interest in each other, and it is not as open to talk as before in getting along, so this situation is not irreparable, you can tell the teacher the specific situation, and the teacher will help you?

Hello, dear, the relationship needs to be recovered and warmed up in time, the reason why this analysis is because the relationship is weak, it means that your emotions have traveled problems, maybe the two of you have experienced too many things, and slowly feel that this relationship seems to be far and near, and even have no interest in each other, and they are not as open as they used to be in getting along, so this situation is not irreparable, you can tell Cha Min to take the sedan chair master the specific situation, and the teacher will help you get bored?

If two people have been in love for a long time, they will find that something is missing, not as sweet as when they first opened the hood, and they don't feel romantic.

Loving someone is also an ability, and it is because you are unable to express your love correctly that your relationship will have problems.