Can anyone guide me in my life,,

Here is an excerpt from a letter from Kai-Fu Lee (who joined Microsoft in July 1998 and became the president of Microsoft Research China (now Microsoft Research Asia) in November, and now Google) to college students.

College is the most critical stage in a person's life. From the first day of school, you should have a correct understanding and plan for the four years of college. In order to enjoy the greatest joy in your studies and to find your favorite job when you graduate, everyone who has just entered a university campus should master seven learnings:

Learn the way of self-study, basic knowledge, practice, interest cultivation, initiative, time control, and behavior. As long as these seven points are done well, the biggest gain for college students when they graduate will never be "patience and adaptation to nothing", but "confidence and desire to have everything". As long as you do these seven points well, you can become a happy graduate with potential, thoughts, value, and promise.

For details, please refer to the Kaifu Student Network.

It's the same with running an international school!

It doesn't matter if you can't learn knowledge in college, the key is to learn the "method of learning".

With the method, you can learn all the things you need in the future.

Similar to you, you can learn something that you are interested in now, it is the right time, after graduating and working, you will not have the energy to study again, which is what I regret the most now

The scope of life is too big, and it is not clear in one sentence or two, I am your senior, in fact, the path is similar, and there are still some places that need to be grasped on the road of life

The root cause of this problem is that he has little life experience and does not understand himself or society.

You can only rely on yourself to get in touch with society. Get out of your own circle. Other people's persuasion will not help you. You can only choose for yourself.

Take it one step at a time, just don't give up easily. In this day and age, you don't starve to death, but you have to work harder than everyone else, and whoever loses more gets more. Hard work pays off.

There is no life coach in this world.

Life is your own, no one can figure out what life is, the only thing you can do is to go step by step.

All the choices in life can only be paid by yourself.

There is a price to be paid for any choice, and no choice is perfect.

One choice is a price, and different choices make different lives.

Your time is limited, so don't waste them repeating other people's lives.

Don't be bound by dogma, that means you live with the results of other people's thinking.

Don't let other people's noisy opinions overshadow your true inner voice.

And most importantly, you have the courage to follow the instructions of your intuition and your heart – they somehow know what you want to be, and everything else is secondary.

There is such a saying: "Stay hungry, stay stupid." ”

I've always wished I could be like that, and now, when you want to be guided on a new journey, I want you to do the same:

Thirsty for knowledge, humble and foolish.

If you live each day as if it were the last day of your life, then one day you will find that you are right. ”

Remember that you are dying" is the most important proverb I have encountered in my life.

It helped me point out important choices in my life.

Because almost everything, including all the honor, all the pride, all the fear of embarrassment and failure, these will disappear in the face of death. What I see is what is really important that is left behind.

You sometimes think that you are going to lose something, and remembering that you are going to die" is the best way I know to avoid these thoughts.

There's no reason why you shouldn't follow your heart beating along.

Hope these words are helpful to you, believe in yourself.

Educator of secular culture.

Hello、I hope it can help you!

Everyone is unique and has their own life, I can only help you analyze the problem at most, life coaches can't do it, we have limited time.

I want to say to you! There are some things that have always been there, such as Buddhism, Taoism, and the Book of Changes, which are thousands of years old, and this is the highest knowledge in life, why don't you go and find out, I'm a Buddhist, and I'm deeply grateful for the guidance and happiness that Buddhism has brought to me, and you're miserable right now because you feel like you don't understand anything, and that's resentment. And you don't want to take a step, the Buddha keeps telling us to be diligent, and you want to sit and get the support of others.

Don't you find that the way is to go out, what other people or the saints in the book write is what they personally felt, and only if you work your own, your life will change? The Buddha has always said that if you want to be happy, you must not do all evil, and all good will be pursued, you have tried all of these, have you done it, and the Tao has always told you that good is like water, and you will be really happy if you care for others like water. You have too many impurities in your heart, like the rich and the poor.

This will make you lose your sense of equality, and it will make you become more insensitive and look down on the poor. It's especially bad for your life. Let's do our best.

I don't dare to be a life coach, but I may be able to bring you some guidance or help at some times.

I am willing, although I don't understand the great truth of life, but I love life very much and have the courage to pursue!

Are you a working or a student?