I finally know why handsome guys are easy to be single

It doesn't matter if it's a good-looking boy or a girl. When I was a child, I grew up in a high probability that I was spoiled. I'll give you an example, I used to look like a girl, and my classmates didn't know that I was a ...... when they went to the men's bathroomAlthough this does not affect my love of fighting, when I was a child, my dad's unit recruited a bunch of godmothers ......Pull me to eat here today and take me to that house tomorrow to play ......In this environment of being pampered by the people around you, you will gradually acquiesce to the fact that the people around you "should be good to you" and you can take a look if you are interested:

Narcissistic personality disorder. Generally speaking, men in a pampered environment have a more than 50% chance of having a narcissistic personality. What is a narcissistic personality?

For example, I always feel that I am different, and I always rely on the praise of others to maintain my mentality, so there is a problem, although he loves girls, but he loves himself more, and even he himself is not aware of this problem, then there will be a breakup problem after a while, this boy seems to learn how to care about girls, I always believe that many educated female classmates will not fall in love with a playful mentality, and the narcissistic personality is always self-centered. It is difficult for a girl to see the needs of her boyfriend, and a boy is also spoiled, and it is difficult for him to feel the psychological needs of ...... girlThis is what everyone calls handsome guys with low emotional intelligence......It's actually not a matter of emotional intelligence at all. The typical representatives of narcissistic personality are Steve Jobs and Trump, although successful, their love life is still relatively uncomfortable.

The more sullen good-looking boy is not that he can't pull down his face to confess or has low emotional intelligence and can't find a girlfriend, but if he looks good when he is young, there is a high probability that he will grow up in a greenhouse, full of praise environment......This contributes to the development of his narcissistic personality, and it can be seen that the essence of the baby is also narcissistic, that is, this environmental factor causes him to always be like a child, and his love stays at the lower stage: because I can't do without you, so I love you, and the real love is: because I love you, I can't do without you......He can't learn how to love other people.

And most of the girls are also spoiled by the family. This kind of boy is equivalent to insulating himself from a spoiled girl of the same grade. Unless he is handsome and meets a face control girl of the same grade, of course, the possibility is about zero ......By the way, I personally feel that raising a poor man and a rich woman is a pathological way of education.

Because this is a world where looks are watched.

It may have something to do with personality, such as a cold personality or a special personality.

First, he has an arrogant personality and a cold attitude.

Most people with high appearance are proud of their appearance, so there is always a sense of pride, of course, there are some good material conditions, so the sense of superiority will be stronger, and the pursuit of ordinary people will be disdainful, showing a cold side, when choosing the other half, they will pay more attention to whether they are worthy of themselves, rather than suitable for themselves, but there are few ideal people, so they can only continue to enjoy the single life!

Second, the sense of distance.

Good-looking people don't necessarily have a bad personality, but too good appearance, which will make ordinary people have an inferiority complex, so that they dare not approach, there is a sense of distance, always feel that the other party is too perfect, embarrassed to take the initiative to approach and know, in fact, they are also very distressed, everyone should look at people with high appearance from the perspective of ordinary people, in fact, everyone is the same, but people have a good-looking skin.

God is fair, give you a good-looking appearance, then you will definitely be given a little less IQ, haha, just kidding, in fact, most people with high appearance are not very high EQ, in many parties the language is not very active, and they don't know how to pick up others' words, they often talk to death, maybe at the beginning of the beautiful appearance will attract everyone's attention, but after getting along for a long time, you will find that their EQ is really low, no fun!

Summary. Why the more handsome people are, the easier it is to be single. Not necessarily, some handsome men may be picky. Being single is someone who has had several failed relationships.

Why the more handsome people are, the easier it is to be single. Not necessarily, some handsome men may be picky. Being single is someone who has had several failed relationships.

It may have something to do with personality, such as a cold personality or a special personality. There are several reasons for this1The character is arrogant and the attitude is cold.

Most people with high appearance are proud of their appearance, so there is always a sense of pride, of course, there are some good material conditions, so the sense of superiority will be stronger, and the pursuit of ordinary people will be disdainful, showing a cold side, when choosing the other half, they will pay more attention to whether they are worthy of themselves, rather than suitable for their own side of the cherry blossoms, but there are few ideal people, so they can only continue to enjoy the single life! 2.Distance.

Good-looking people don't have a bad personality, but their appearance is too good, which will make ordinary people have an inferiority complex, so that they dare not approach, there is a sense of distance, they always feel that the other party is too perfect, embarrassed to take the initiative to approach and know, in fact, they are also very distressed, everyone should look at people with high appearance from the perspective of ordinary people, in fact, everyone is the same as Qichun, but people have a good-looking skin. 3. Emotional intelligence is not **. God is fair, give you a good look, then it will definitely give you a little less intelligence, haha.

Just kidding, in fact, most people with high appearance have not very high EQ, and they are not very active in many parties, and they don't know how to pick up others' words.

Summary. Hello dear, this may have something to do with personality, cold personality or special personality.

Hello dear, this may have something to do with personality, cold personality or special personality.

First, the character is arrogant and cold. Most people who have no high value are proud of their appearance, so they always have a sense of pride, of course, there are some good material conditions, so the sense of superiority will be stronger, and they will be disdainful of the pursuit of ordinary people, showing a cold side, when choosing the other half, they will pay more attention to whether they are worthy of themselves, rather than suitable for themselves, but there are few ideal people, so they can only continue to enjoy the single life.

Second, the sense of distance. Good-looking people don't necessarily have a bad personality, but too good appearance, which will make ordinary people have an inferiority complex, so that they dare not approach, there is a sense of distance, always feel that the other party is too perfect, embarrassed to take the initiative to approach and know, in fact, they are also very distressed, everyone wants to look at ordinary people with auspicious appearance, in fact, everyone is the same, but people have a smile and a good-looking skin.

Third, emotional intelligence is not **. God is fair, give you a good-looking appearance, then you will definitely be given less of a nuclear roll of IQ, haha, just kidding, in fact, most people with high appearance and surplus have a low EQ, and the language is not very active in many parties, and the slow burn does not know how to pick up others' words, and often talks about the day to death, maybe the beautiful appearance will attract everyone's attention at first, but after getting along for a long time, you will find that their EQ is really low and there is no fun.