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It is not surprising that there have been many people who have been confused about the relationship between study and love throughout the ages, and it is also the wise thinking of rational and intelligent people. In fact, the two are not contradictory, you only need to correctly understand the problem of love, and use its psychological positive factors, you can achieve both:

The first is to correctly handle the love relationship, grasp the "degree", and not produce out-of-the-ordinary results during the study period, otherwise it will affect or even abandon the study; At the same time, the core of love is feelings, and there is no need to deliberately pile up through a lot of material and time, so don't treat falling in love as a "big event" at school.

The second is to master the appropriate learning methods, people are learning all their lives, but after all, the stage of learning in school is the most energetic time in life, so the energy and time allocated to learning should account for more than 80%, and must pay attention to learning methods, after participating in the work, you will find that the real learning "results" can be learned to apply very little, and the ideas, methods and efficiency of doing things will be the most important.

Personally, I think that by doing the above two points, it is entirely possible for you to correctly handle the relationship between love and study, and achieve both correct and double harvest!

Note: Some people think that this is the most real, the most practice-tested, and the most operable answer in history, hehe.

I wish you a happy study and a sweet love!

It's time to learn, it's time to talk, and let it be!

To be in love is to be in love, to study is to learn, don't waste your studies for love, don't give up true love for learning.

Nothing is forced, just let it be.

It is possible to fall in love without affecting your studies, but you must do a good job in the distribution of studies and career and love.

If you are in love, it will not affect your studies, but if you still use your parents' money to fall in love, I hope you give up, and wait for the money you earn, so that when you fall in love, your friends will be more sure of yourself.

College students have reached the age of falling in love, and they are already relatively mature, and they should be able to handle the relationship between love and study and career very calmly and correctly, and everyone's situation is different.

Don't be too forced, go with the flow, and see how to deal with it.

One is a matter of feelings, the other is a career, and there is no contradiction. If you deal with it, you can promote each other.

College students should focus on their studies and talk about their subjects after work.

Allocate energy and enthusiasm for everything, and don't neglect one or the other.

When love comes, fall in love, and love can't waste your studies at the same time.

The actual situation is treated practically, it depends on the situation

As a relationship, no matter what your identity is, you must first deal with it rationally.

For most college students, most of them fall in love for the first time, and they are very ignorant of their feelings, and sometimes they don't know how to deal with them, so that some small frictions in love seriously affect their normal study and life.

It's often said that it's a pity not to fall in love at university, and that's true, but it's still just a place to learn, so whatever it is, you should give in to self-improvement.

College love is quite pure, so pure that you don't have to think about the trivialities you encounter in your future life, have you ever thought about how you and her don't belong to the same city, how to face it after graduation, you always talk about marriage, what do you take to give her a stable home, these are all things that college students have never considered in love.

My high school Chinese teacher once said that only when a tree is big can a bird make a nest, yes, small birds do not breed on sick saplings, they only build a nest on a strong torso.

As a fellow college student, I hope that all students can look at love in college rationally and be responsible for their own future and her future.

Correctly handle the relationship between love and study.

As a college student, you should have a good relationship between love and study. Students should still focus on their studies, and they must make the school a place for learning, of course, they should put their studies first, and it is not advisable to abandon their studies for love.

Establish a healthy outlook on love.

Learning is not the only one, but we must focus on academics, we must fully understand the importance of learning, don't covet temporary happiness, love should give each other happiness, so, do not abandon studies, otherwise, can not give each other happiness.

Enjoy the quality time together.

For college students, this college time must be the best time in life, so we should fully enjoy the time with our lovers, and those who know how to be in love will be together to urge each other, improve each other, and prepare for the future.

Learn to be considerate of each other.

In the eyes of everyone, love is a very beautiful thing and is sacrosanct, so we should cherish it more, so that each other can respect and improve each other.

Don't think too much about the economy.

Falling in love during the student period is still relatively noble, at least the pursuit of material things is not particularly much, but more about the talent of the other party, precisely because there are many possibilities in the future, so improving oneself is the last word.

Control possessiveness towards lovers.

Boys are often possessive of their lovers, thinking that girlfriends should belong to themselves, so they are not allowed to have relationships with other boys, which must be a misunderstanding, and must be overcome, look at love correctly, and use their talents to attract each other.

Understand that falling in love is not the only goal.

In other words, we must treat the problem of falling out of love correctly, and understand that love is not the top priority in life, and some students will become very painful when they fall out of love, and even pay tribute to their lost love in an extreme way, which is obviously very unwise.

1. Care for each other.

When college students are in love, they need to care about each other, not just one party's active concern, love needs two people to operate, otherwise it will not last long.

2. Solve the difficulties in life for the other party.

After all, they are lovers, not ordinary classmates, so as long as the other party has difficulties in life, they should stand up and help the other party solve it as soon as possible.

3. Encourage and help each other in learning.

In studying, the two sides should supervise and help each other, study together, make progress together, and strive for both of them to graduate with excellent grades.

4. Both sides plan for the future.

In love and study, the two should make a plan for the future, not only to learn to fall in love, but also to plan their future life.

5. There should be a degree of love.

When you fall in love in college, you must have a degree, and you can't blindly fall in love affect your studies and affect your future.

6. Get married as soon as possible after graduation.

I have seen many examples, after graduating from college, because both parties want to wait for their careers to stabilize before making plans to get married, but after each has their own careers, they end up breaking up, so try to get married first after graduation, and then work hard for their careers. 

For college students to fall in love to deal with the relationship between study and life, of course, college students are mainly study-oriented, because with good academic performance, they will be able to graduate and be assigned to a better job in the future, and love feelings are a good environment to maintain the relationship between two people, if there is no future can not give each other happiness to fall in love is also short-lived. There are two possibilities for the role of love on college students' studies and careers: one is that the relationship is properly handled, which can become a catalyst for learning and career, making people study hard and improve their grades; The second is that the relationship is not handled properly, which may be distracting, waste time, mood swings, and declining grades.

Falling in love in college has both disadvantages and advantages. On the positive side, although falling in love takes up part of the time, it makes us more deeply aware of the preciousness of time like a white horse, so we can think about how to make the best use of time to be efficient and do twice the result with half the effort.

Instead of falling in love, and they share resources and complement each other's advantages, they will let each other learn to modify themselves, tolerate others, and promote the growth of two people. Falling in love also contributes to the perfection of their personalities. And knowledge learning needs inspiration, and love is one of the best of inspiration and helps to develop interpersonal skills and so on.

To choose the time of love reasonably, love needs to be mature, and growing college students should choose the time of love carefully. First, wait until your psychological development is relatively mature. Second, when the outlook on life is relatively stable.

Third, when the social experience is relatively rich. Fourth, when the economy is relatively independent. Fifth, if you guarantee that your studies are relatively good.

But you also have to understand that you are a college student, and since as a student, your ultimate goal is to focus on academics.

Love is the greatest physical and mental right and freedom of human beings, and college students should have the right to love freely and healthily. Love, study and life are not related to each other, and there is no priority or priority. You can't limit your love because of your studies, and you shouldn't delay your studies because of your love.

If you are an independent, mature and healthy college student, you are fully capable of balancing the two. It is fully capable of making love and study mutually reinforcing, intertwined without affecting each other. The purpose of university is to improve one's own quality, acquire a skill, and realize one's life ideals.

This ideal should include having a good partner. Therefore, strengthening learning is to let the partner appreciate themselves and make themselves love their partner better, so the partner should support, understand, and encourage the other person to strengthen learning. Falling in love is a catalyst for better learning.

It can motivate each other and supervise each other to fight for a common ideal.

When you are in college, you should learn more things, love is natural, and if you really like someone, you should treat it correctly. It's best to reconcile love and study. Don't blindly follow the trend, feel that everyone around you is in love, and if you don't fall in love, you will have no face and so on.

Love in college should be said to be the purest, and because of this, we should pay more attention to this matter. Many people are only looking for love because they are lonely, and they will still be separated when they graduate, so why bother.

Whether college students can fall in love, the answer is yes, whether it is from the national law or from the school rules and regulations, college students are not prohibited from falling in love, and our country's law stipulates that men can register marriage when they are 22 years old and women who are 20 years old. College students who meet the age requirements can get married, let alone be in love? And should college students fall in love?

I think it should, if there is a suitable girl, you can pursue it in a proper way, but you should also be careful not to spend too much energy on finding a partner, and don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love. To do the following:

1.Treat each other with respect and equality.

Everyone's personality is independent, in the process of falling in love, both parties are equal, to respect each other's habits, hobbies, interests, reject PUA or be PUA.

2.Don't forget your main business.

College students are still students, for students, learning is their main business, don't give up your studies in the process of falling in love, don't affect your grades in order to fall in love, and even lead to failing the course, then this kind of love is not of much significance.

3.Rejection of love with impure purpose.

At present, many college girls fall in love for a "meal ticket", this kind of love with impure motives is harmful to both parties, and some boys fall in love with women's bodies, and do not have a reasonable plan for the future of both parties, this motive is also impure.

4.If you are in love, you should stop the loss in time.

Due to the lack of social experience of college students, it is inevitable to meet unladylike people in the process of falling in love, so college students must first examine the other party's character in love, and then other aspects. If found, stop loss in time.

Here's how college students can handle love and schoolwork.

1. Research and research on changing the concept of bad love show that some students have a vague concept of the following aspects: First, they mistakenly love their own good feelings. Second, love comfort.

Third, love and marriage are the same thing. But love is much better, and others are with me. Sixth, the appearance is suitable for the community.

2.Choose the right time to be in love, and love should be mature. Growing students need to choose their relationship time carefully.

First, wait for your heart to thrive. Second, expect a balanced outlook on life. Third, wait for social experience.

Fourth, until economic independence.

3. Establish a positive outlook on love The outlook on love is the basic cognition and attitude of human beings towards the issue of love. The formation and development of the concept of love can be divided into three stages. The first step is to prepare for the concept of love, which usually starts in middle school.

The second stage is the full development of the concept of love, usually starting in secondary school. As life experiences and emotions deepen, young students begin to transform from floating fanatics to more resilient minds. Love is a gradual process, from strength to strength.

The criteria for choosing a partner are set, and the time comes for the correct selection of romantic items. They paint a beautiful picture of the opposite sex in their minds. to establish internal rules for the selection of partners.

The third stage is when the concept of love is fully matured. At this point, the concept of love was basically formed. Guided by the concept of love, explore the practice of love from the heart.

After realizing the gap between one's own view of love and reality in love behavior, while revising the original view of love, adjust and transform it according to the actual problems and needs of society, and form a stable view of love.