What is the performance of a woman using you as a spare tire

I don't have a relationship with you, but I don't reject you, and I even have an affair with you.

She won't be the first to share with you, and she won't come to you when she can't find anyone.

Clause. One, she will only think of you when she is bored; Clause.

Second, she is always ambiguous about her confession to you; Clause.

3. I will not refuse to have intimate contact with you.

To judge whether it is a girl's spare tire, look at the following 5 points, how many points do you meet? 1.Usually there is little contact, and one day, she is bored, or very sad, and suddenly comes to talk to you.

After that, I won't look for you. 2.She will only come to you when she asks you for help.

3.Please eat, she will come out when she is free, but never return the invitation, it will only appear when it is profitable. 4.

Telling you all kinds of bad things about your boyfriend makes you feel hopeful, but you just don't break up. 5.Some normal physical contact can be there, but wanting to go further is always impossible.

Once you are used as a spare tire by a girl, then the attraction effect of your chasing girls is minimal, and you must change your way to have a chance to hold a beauty.

I don't care about you so much, what do you have, she won't worry about it, and she won't pay for you, although there are talking and laughing, but you are just the object of being confided in, just when you need to find you to lean on, find a sense of security, think of you when something happens, you finish helping, listen to her complain and play, she forgets you again, playing with you, it's just a good brother's form, sometimes she will take the initiative to take your hand to play, eat and drink with you, but this is all an illusion, she doesn't care about your feelings at all, and she is not curious about you, I don't want to know you, I just want to contact you when I think of you, and the speed at which she replies to you is up and down, almost feeling like you're a spare tire.

Love to answer and ignore, a little advantage is happy to say a few more words to you, unhappy to ignore people.

In comparison, the man's ability to bear is relatively strong, even if everyone knows that he is acting as a spare tire for a woman, even if many people criticize and evaluate his improper choices and preferences, he may be serious and focused, and can completely withstand all the wind and rain and comments.

But women can't, once she is used as a spare tire, this is definitely a lethal situation, once discovered, there is destined to be abandonment and abandonment, it is absolutely impossible to continue and persistent, a woman's life can not lack love and tenderness, maybe at first you can accept not to be truly loved and not favored by others, but after a long time, she will mind, she will also feel wronged, and eventually will give up to be neat.

The performance of girls using you as a spare tire:

1.Always looking for you when you need help.

For a woman, a man who likes her is her best helper, and when she needs any help, she will definitely ask you for help unceremoniously, because she knows that you who like her will definitely show up on time and will willingly help her, every time she comes to you, either let you help or use you to do something else.

But when you confessed to her again and again, she didn't give you a clear answer again and again, because she just wanted to treat you as a thousand-year-old spare tire and didn't like you.

2.She will never refuse your overtures to her, but she will not confirm the relationship with you.

We often say that the most obvious sign of a scumbag is not taking the initiative, not refusing and not being responsible. And when a woman uses a man as a spare tire, she will also show these three signs vividly, and she will also not take the initiative, refuse and be irresponsible for the man. When a woman always refuses to reject your kindness to her, giving you hope and refusing to confirm the relationship with you, then you don't need to doubt it.

3.At the same time, he maintains an ambiguous relationship with other men.

When a woman can treat you as a spare tire, it means that there is more than one man around her, and she does not need to be limited to you alone. Therefore, it is very likely that this woman is developing with other men while being ambiguous with you, and she is weighing between others to find the best option.

If you find that a woman is playing with you ambiguously and behaving the same as other men, it can only mean that you are one of her many spare tires.

Girls treat you as a spare tire: they don't really care about you, they keep asking for you, they look for you occasionally when they're ambiguous and bored.

1. There is no actual concern for you

If a girl treats a boy as a spare tire, then she will not care much about the boy, and many times she may show some concern to you verbally, making you feel that the girl still cares about you. But in fact, real care is to have practical actions, if you slowly find that girls only pay lip service, but no actual actions are reflected in behavior.

2. Keep asking for it

If a girl treats a boy as a spare tire, then she will definitely ask for a lot of things on him, whether it is your sincerity or economic and material things, if the boy is too stupid, he will be obediently regarded as a spare tire by others. If you don't have a substantive relationship, but the girl treats you differently than other people, it will give you a certain illusion.

3. Occasional ambiguity

Sometimes you feel that the girl is hot and cold to you, sometimes the relationship is quite good, sometimes it seems that you have no connection, this is because sometimes the girl needs to take advantage of you, the girl will be close to you. It all depends on whether you have the value of using it, and when a girl thinks of you, she will occasionally have an affair with a boy, and then let you die to become her spare tire.

4. Look for you when you're bored

Everyone will be bored sometimes, if it is when a girl feels bored and wants to find someone to accompany her, the girl will remember your existence, after all, two people are better than one. If you know that a girl is looking for you because she is bored, then the boy must be careful, you may become a spare tire for the girl without realizing it.