Why is my personality getting heavier and heavier?

1. Improve self-confidence. Self-confidence is the most fundamental motivation to eliminate inferiority complex. Don't be afraid of failure, because failure is inevitable, think of "failure is the mother of success"; "Victory or defeat is a common thing in a soldier's life." We should analyze the causes of defeat with a positive attitude, believe in our own ability and perseverance, overcome difficulties, and work hard toward success.

2. Firmly believe in the truth that "I am born to be useful". Correctly understand yourself, see your own strengths, and discover your own value. Give full play to one's own strengths, actively participate in activities conducive to the development of one's strengths, and make use of one's advantages to make more achievements as much as possible, so that one's self-confidence can be continuously consolidated and enhanced.

3. Be clear: diligence is a good training to make up for clumsiness, and a point of hard work is a point of talent. Through diligent study and hard practice, we can completely narrow the gap between ourselves and others, and even catch up with or surpass others.

4. Maintain psychological balance. Students with low self-esteem should praise themselves more and use their own strengths to compare the shortcomings of others. Don't get discouraged when you encounter a setback, don't think "I can't do it", but show a strong sense of confidence: "I can do it." Do it again, and I'll make it."

Fifth, choose the right good method. Everyone's situation is different, and what is effective in others may not be applicable to them, and "Dong Shi Xiao Feng" often achieves twice the result with half the effort, and according to their own special circumstances, they can choose some good and practical methods to get twice the result with half the effort.

6. "Go your own way and let others say go!" Because other people's ridicule and belittlement are often due to jealousy or other reasons, remember: as long as you don't admit that you have an inferiority complex, no one can make you feel inferior!

The pressure of life or the strangeness of interpersonal relationships, maybe you have lost some confidence in yourself, you are not very satisfied with your performance, and over time, the burden of self-psychological suggestion is too heavy...

Let go of your mental baggage and think about what your life goals were at the moment of graduation, how much you have paid and where you have reached...

If you've never thought about it that much, start positioning yourself today.

Find time to spend with friends, or chat with a few more people in your free time, and get in touch with new things, it will make a difference.

All that to do now is not to think about anything. Be yourself. If people respect you, you will respect them. If they don't respect you, you don't have to bother with him.

The previous self, the current self is the self, and the self that you want to change is yourself.

It feels a bit similar to me, and I've been working for 2 years after graduation, hehe.

In fact, life is very complicated, this year in the hypermarket for a year, the society is like this, in this kind of environment to say that the simple point is the combination of interests, the real friends are still in the previous school years, recently unemployed for two weeks, in fact, when working is also very at a loss, mainly because they don't know what to do. The simple thing is that you need a goal, and then strive happily for that goal.

Each of us is pure and kind when we come to this world, but at the same time, there is selfishness and hypocrisy in each of us; As long as we can be more understanding and tolerant in the process of interpersonal communication, I believe that people are more pure, kind, understanding and tolerant. I believe that no matter who you are, you can consciously abide by such a rule of survival. Let's truly realize a "harmonious society"!

Do what you want, do what you should do, and take what you should take. I am who I am.

Hello! Just read your description, and to be honest when I saw the middle part, when I saw that you now became "laughing a lot in front of others", I was really happy for you, because I thought you had become so approachable and very easy-going. But when I saw the next sentence, "I don't ...... if I am wronged."I couldn't help but sigh.

It turns out that you are catering to others, and you are trying to win the happiness and acceptance of others by wronging yourself! I am lamented that you are losing yourself by doing this!

I often hear my friends say to me "survival of the fittest"! Sometimes when faced with helplessness and can't change, we have to make some changes to be a fittest, because we want to survive! In order to gain a foothold in this society!

But no matter how you change, don't lose yourself! There has to be a degree!

I'm sorry, but having said all this, it may not make any sense to your question, but I want to say that you don't need to change yourself to the point of being wronged in order to win the joy of others. But you don't have to go back to the domineering self you used to be!

Although it is said that "the nature of the country is easy to change", but sometimes our character has really changed unconsciously, of course, it is not deliberately changed, but through the experience of life, as well as some major events experienced, our personality has gradually changed.

So from now on, don't be wronged yourself! Don't go back to that domineering self either! Try to live your true self! Self-confident but not conceited! Proud but not proud of yourself! Trust you to do it! Come on!

Pay attention to your own self-cultivation People live for a better life for themselves and those around them.

It's not right for you to be domineering, it's not right to lie, and it's not right for you to dare to say anything in order to please people. It's better to reconcile and be a confident and cheerful person, and not arrogant. How about practicing martial arts or taekwondo? Learn how to combine rigidity and softness.