Why is it that in many people s subconscious, grandma is always more kind than grandma?

It may be a psychological effect, grandma is the mother of the mother, then we will be more dependent on the mother, and we will naturally feel that the grandmother is more kind than the grandmother.

Another reason is that we don't interact with my grandmother very often, and the distance will make us closer.

Because I grew up in my grandmother's house, I feel that my grandmother is more kind.

The main reason is that most people grew up with their grandmothers. Because I have less contact with my grandmother, when I go to my grandmother's house, my grandmother thinks that her grandson will naturally be very kind. Another important point is that when my grandmother's child marries into my grandmother's family, my grandmother will naturally have a complex of missing her grandson.

The reason why we feel that grandma is kinder than grandma is because most of us will spend more time with grandma than grandma. As a result of the long time of contact, we may be criticized by my grandmother when we make mistakes, but my grandmother rarely sees each other, so what I feel at my grandmother is basically love. In fact, my grandmother loved us as much as my grandmother.

Now it is popular for mothers to give birth to grandmothers and grandparents to appreciate. Grandma felt sorry for her daughter, so she naturally redoubled her efforts to take care of the next generation. Whether it is from food, clothing, housing and transportation, it is to give the best possible.

And grandmothers generally give birth to children, confinement with children, you can see the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Most of them ignore it, which also leads to the child not being close to the grandmother.

I don't have this feeling, I think grandparents and grandparents are the same, maybe the children are now more grandma, so maybe the children are sometimes a little stricter, and the number of times I see my grandmother is relatively small, so I think grandma may be more kind, never reprimand the child, and the child is full of love.

Because grandma is the mother's mother, so sometimes children are born closer to their mothers, so relatively speaking, grandma will be more popular than grandma, maybe this is the psychology of most people, on the other hand, I don't often see grandma, so sometimes I will be very happy to see grandma.

I think maybe when I was young, I went to my grandmother's house, and my grandmother always brought me a lot of delicious food to eat, and then she would be very spoiled, and she would give me some money or bring some things when she left.

But since I was a child, I grew up in my grandmother's house, so my grandmother often scolded me when I was ignorant, or when I was disobedient, so in my subconscious, my grandmother may be more kind than my grandmother.

Maybe I'm closer to my grandmother, so I feel this way, but it's the opposite. In my heart, my grandmother was a very kind person. Since I was a child, I have loved me very much.

And my relationship with my grandmother felt cold. Even when my grandmother died, I wasn't very sad!

I think it's all the same, I've lived with my mother since I was a child, and I belong to the kind of grandma who doesn't hurt and grandma doesn't love, so I don't think they are very kind to me, they are very good to my younger brothers, most of them are a bit patriarchal.

Grandma sees her every day, but grandma is not, everyone is a relative, and distance produces beauty.

As early as when Bang Ma was not born, Bang Ma's grandparents and grandparents all passed away, so Bang Ma never saw them and never got their love. However, I often see some classmates who will say: This is given by my grandmother, and this is the ...... given by my grandmotherIn addition to the love of their parents, those classmates also have the love of their grandmothers and grandmothers.

Especially if you are criticized by your parents, you can also get the protection of your grandmother and grandmother.

I once asked my mother those classmates whether they were closer to their grandmother or their grandmother, and of course they said anything. So for today's children, what is the difference between grandmother and grandmother? Of course, the most influential part of this question is the child itself, and the mother did a survey on WeChat a few days ago for this problem, so that the mothers can ask the children about the difference between grandma and grandma.

After reading it, my mother probably summed up three points, and also listed the most representative words of these three points, let's take a look!

Clause. 1. For children, grandma is an outsider, and grandma is her own family.

Starfish: When I was a child, my grandmother took me and treated me very well, every time I went to my grandmother's house, my grandmother was very good to me and would give me pocket money, but she would always say that I was someone else's child, that my mother was a girl who was married. But grandma never said that, she was always very close to me, and I stayed with my grandma almost every day, so grandma plus me, plus mom and dad, we are a family, and grandma is someone else's family.

Clause. Second, I don't have an impression of my grandmother.

Flower Fairy: My mother always told me that I was taken care of by my grandmother when I was a child, but I don't remember anything at that time, and I don't remember my grandmother anymore. Now I live with my grandmother, who picks me up and drops me off from school every day, cooks me food, and I am closer to my grandmother.

But every time I go to my grandmother's house with my mother during the Chinese New Year, my grandmother will also give me a smile and make good food, and my grandmother is very good to me, so I will kiss my grandmother in the future, but the dearest is still grandma.

Clause. 3. Grandma is a relative, and grandma is her own family.

Little Moon: I grew up living with my grandparents, my parents, and my parents. Grandma said that when I was a child, my parents went to work, and she took me at home, and I was with my grandparents during the New Year.

The words of these three children can be said to be very true. It seems that children don't understand anything when they are young, but there are really a lot of things in their little heads. Moreover, children are sensitive, and their usual casual words may keep them in their hearts all the time.

I believe that the grandmother of the first child said that her grandson was someone else's child, which was also a joke, but she inadvertently alienated her grandson from her own relationship.