I m helpless, pls what should I do. 10

Calm yourself down and think about why it makes you feel helpless. There are problems that cannot be solved, and there are still difficulties in life. Once you've figured out what the problem is, find a way to solve it.

Don't be intimidated by the problems and difficulties in front of you, if it is a small difficulty, it will certainly not make people feel helpless. But no matter how big the difficulty is, when you look back after coming over, you will feel that it is actually not a big deal. So, now it's time to adjust your mindset.

Thinking about overcoming the difficulties in front of you. Only when you overcome it yourself, when you encounter difficulties again, will you feel that it is a piece of cake. There will be no sense of helplessness.

Friends must have common topics, like-minded people are friends, and friends must be equal in the process of getting along, you don't have to change yourself and cater to others, it will not be your friends who can make such changes, you are now a freshman in high school, the most important task is to study, not these, you will have many friends in the future, there is no need to worry about people who do not have a common language, let go of your heart, be yourself, you will find friends who are suitable for you and have a common language with you. Remember, be yourself at all times, and don't try to suppress yourself, it will only make you more miserable for a long time.

Academics are important, unless you become like them in order to fit in, but is it necessary? Human nature is kind, but since you have chosen your current school, no matter what the general environment is, after all, it is only three years, and there is still a long way to go in the future.

The so-called friends,At least you have to be able to play together.,Now you're obviously two groups of people.,It's not a circle.,No one is right or wrong.,It's just that your personality is different.,Things you're interested in are different.,There's no common language.。 Don't say you feel awkward when you go out together, it's just that they are all awkward. My advice is, find a circle that belongs to you, they are not for you.

It's very simple, first have a good relationship with one of the three of them, and a good relationship can be done by eating together, watching movies, shopping, increasing the time spent together, and slowly asking from her why they are alienating you.

If you are helpless, then rely on yourself, just like me, you will always find someone with you.

-paris

In fact, it's very difficult for people to get along with people, I don't have any friends anymore, I also want to be able to fit into other people's circles, but I'm the same as you, like you said, don't wear makeup or anything like that, I don't do it, there is no common language at all when chatting with others, and in today's society, you can't do anything can only be ignored, abandoned, it's not that you cater to them, if you want to join a certain ranks, you have to learn other things, find common ground, there is really no way to achieve common ground, You can only find the same type of friends as yourself, otherwise you can only be lonely.

It's not that easy to know who you really are, after all, life is a long road, and you're just a high school student, and what you know now is a stage of performance or needs. In the face of all the above confusion, you will doubt yourself. As you said, if you don't do it, there will be no change.

People should behave more like themselves and not push themselves too hard. Because then it might be sadder. Sometimes it makes people feel hypocritical, and it is easy to understand that people are born with various desires such as appetite and material desires, but "gentleness" will take various shapes as people grow up, that is, conscience.

But in life, we often ignore that the emotions between people are the connection and fetters between each other, cherish it for a long time, and it is difficult to recover if it is missed.

In principle, be yourself, not in principle, it is okay for everyone to talk and have fun together, but also to increase a little knowledge, and it is also good to ask each other more advice.

Find a stick and hold it for a while, or find a telephone pole and hold it for a while, and you'll be helped.

If you are helpless, it's up to you! Maybe this kind of friend is not suitable for you The more you cater to, the more tired you may be in the end, as for the circle of friends, you are not looking for it yourself, but everyone has common hobbies and topics together and is naturally formed. Don't put so much pressure on yourself, students still study important.

You can't only have 3 friends in college, I think it's worth it to find some friends who can only go to the same as you, and you will meet a lot of good friends by going to the library more, and that's how I came over.

Those who endure loneliness are the ones who succeed.

Can you know what happened to you that made you feel helpless?