I feel helpless, sad, and annoyed

I feel very sympathetic to what you are going through, and if it were me, I would have been miserable because I didn't feel the love of my parents. You are cold to your parents now because you feel disheartened and have no sense of home.

We all express love in different ways, some use gifts to express love for others, some use money, some use advice, some use words, and some help each other with housework.

Just like you, you choose to show your love for your parents with gifts, but I don't know if you usually say anything about caring for your parents? For example, are you tired from working lately? Do you need me to do this for you?

Your parents choose to use a thorn (nagging for you) to show their concern and love for you. However, they ignore your feelings. You expect them to remember your birthday, care about you, and give you a gift on your birthday, but they don't take your birthday to heart.

This makes you feel disappointed and feel like they don't care about you.

Basically, they just show love in different ways, it's not that they don't care about you, they just use inappropriate ways.

Every parent has their own faults, they like to make decisions for their children, and they even have to make up their minds about going to college, and it is really difficult to change them. Parents take pride in their children, so they want them to go to the best (and the best in their minds) colleges. After all, my parents have never attended any parent training classes, so no parent in the world is perfect.

In the long run, a situation like yours can lead to an alienated or even alienated relationship with your parents, and you now want them to be your adoptive parents. I'm sure you want to repair your relationship as well (it would be painful to maintain such a relationship), otherwise you wouldn't be posting here.

Communication is the only solution. The first important thing is to express your feelings to them (just feelings, not blaming them). You can write a letter and put it at their bedside. The main thing is to express feelings and let them know you.

For example: when you feel like I'm really wanting to

When you do something, I feel neglected and sad. I'd love what you look forward to).

Expressing feelings is an effective way to communicate, and I hope you will try to take the first step. It's hard to hold it in your heart.

I would love to hear good news from you in the future and let me know that your problem has improved.

Best wishes from the bottom of my heart.

Expect one’s son to be talented. That's what every parent thinks. Be considerate of your family!

How can there be parents who don't love their children, it's too extreme for you to think like this, it's just that the way they express their love doesn't agree with you! This can't be blamed on them, because the overall cultural background of China has caused most people to not know how to educate and train the next generation scientifically, resulting in a generation gap between parents and children in many families. You are a well-educated person, understand each other.

Child, I patiently read your question. I understand you very well, and you are very upset about your situation. Your parents' are a bit excessive.

I didn't talk about it before, but I said that I went to college, and they didn't change my mind and asked too many questions, which interfered in your life and hurt your self-esteem. But do you understand one thing? They are your biological mother, how can there be you without them?

Who would dare to do this to you? So, you have to understand that you can't hate them. One, you can talk to them that you are a college student, you should have your own opinions, and you should have the ability to convince them.

Two, you can resist. If they are right, they will do it, and if they are not right, they will not listen. You're older and have an opinion, and you can't be wrong.

You try my way.

It's too much to think about, just have something to eat.

Needless to say, my parents didn't know that I was born that year, they told me that I was older than my cousin.

In fact, they still care about you very much, maybe they neglect you because they are too busy at work, or they are in menopause, no matter what your parents do to you, they are still your closest people, or the people who care about you the most, it may be that you misunderstand them.

A word for you: Parents are always right.

Parents in the world love their children, maybe it's just not quite right. They care about your grades and are a sign of love for you. If I don't love you, how can I care about your grades?

They don't remember your birthday, so they just don't love you? Do you remember their birthdays? The love of parents is sometimes overshadowed by the pressure of reality, find it with your heart and cherish your parents!

The love of parents is irreplaceable by anyone.

Summary. I feel that the people around me are very annoying, everyone will have this kind of thought, maybe because of their bad mood, which is caused, in fact, the people around them are still the same, which is to find problems in themselves, at this time, you can choose to sit down gently, like some things or something, or listen to some more soothing **, this should be better, try to "endure", but also exercise your endurance, not bad, or have an in-depth chat with a good friend, after that, You'll feel so blue and you'll feel good.

I feel that the people around me are very annoying, everyone will have this kind of thought, maybe because of their bad mood, in fact, the people around them are still the same, which is to find problems in self-talk, at this time, you can choose to sit down gently, like some things or something, or listen to some more soothing ** counting, this should be better, try to "endure", but also exercise your endurance, not bad, or have a deep chat with friends who don't want to be good at potatoes, after that, You'll feel so blue and you'll feel good. Hehe.

Summary. Listen to more light ** and relax yourself physically and mentally. 2. Go to an open place or on a hill or on the roof of a house, shout, or say out loud what you are worried about.

3. Enrich your life and use greater work pressure to suppress your complex and troubled feelings. 4. Go out to travel and have fun, dance and sing, go shopping and shopping. 5. Confide in others, if you can't trust them, you can confide in netizens; 6. Watch movies and television.

8. Don't think about your troubles often, think about fun places, and think more about happy and happy things;

What to do when you are sad and helpless.

Hello. It is recommended that family members give companionship and care, guide them to participate in activities of interest, divert attention, improve confidence, carry out some relaxation training to relieve emotions, and if the symptoms persist for more than two weeks, they can assist professional psychology**, usually maintain a regular schedule and rest, and avoid too much fatigue and stress.

Listen to more light ** and relax yourself physically and mentally. 2. Go to an open place or on a hill or on the roof of a house, shout, or say out loud what you are worried about. 3. Enrich your life and use greater work pressure to suppress your complex and troubled feelings.

4. Go out to travel and have fun, dance and sing, go shopping and shopping. 5. Confide in others, if you can't trust them, you can confide in netizens; 6. Watch movies and television. 8. Don't think about your troubles often, think about fun places, and think more about happy and happy things;