How much do you know about British etiquette and social knowledge?

Britain is a country with a strong history and culture in Europe, and the history of Britain's development shows us the life and civilization of Britain. So what should international students in the UK pay attention to in life if they want to integrate into the British social environment? Let's take a look at some knowledge of life in the UK.

1. First meeting

For first-time acquaintances, the British generally follow the Lady First principle as the French. In general, it is the high-status, elderly, and female who reach out first and wait for the other party to shake hands. Note that the British generally do not use hugs.

In the same way, if you want to introduce two people to each other, you should also introduce another person to a high-status, older, woman.

2. Be invited as a guest

It's normal to be invited to someone's house in the UK, so there's no need to shirk it, including the afternoon tea that the British love very much, the British drink tea is very strong, and their tea is also sweetened. When invited, remember that the British don't like to be early because they may not be ready to entertain you, and they don't like to be late, so you'd better be on time. Moreover, when visiting someone's home, you should bring a small gift, preferably chocolate or tea.

In the party, generally men and women sit between them, the British are different from the Chinese, China says that food is not silent, but the British like to talk during the meal, so when eating, take a small bite, because it is impolite to talk with something in your mouth, in ** are. Finally, it's polite to stay and chat after eating. After that, write a letter of thanks for the hospitality.

3. Daily communication

The difference between the British and the French is that the British think it is rude to get too close to the other person, but the French think that it is a sign of closeness, so remember to follow the local customs. It should be the same as in China, that is, don't point fingers at people when you speak, and don't exaggerate your body language. But unlike the Chinese, the British like to get straight to the point and not beat around the bush.

Chinese may like to have a polite greeting first.

4. Dress etiquette

The British are very particular about dressing up, but they don't have to be famous brands, on the contrary, the British are very frugal, and a set of clothes will be worn for several years. Nowadays, British clothes are more diversified, there are various styles, but they usually have to be clean and tidy, and they must be well-dressed when they go out, even if they don't wear suits in summer, they will be shirts and ties.

5. Give gifts

In the UK, it is necessary to make friends and give gifts, but the British are used to not giving expensive gifts to close friends, because they don't like such gifts with a sense of bribery. At the same time, British people will open the gift in front of them, and praise it or say that they like it very much.

These are some of the small etiquette details to pay attention to in the daily activities of living in the UK, I hope it will help you.

1. Meet for the first time.

Influenced by British dramas, many students think that the British meeting etiquette is to kiss the face (kiss the cheek).

In fact, people are not so open, and the most intimate meeting etiquette is hugging, okay? (And whether to hug or not, it is up to the lady to choose, if the boy hugs without permission, people must think you are a disciple)

So, students, when you greet a British friend for the first time, just smile and shake hands.

2. First date.

If you're lucky enough to hand in a British female (male) ticket, then the dating etiquette is here!

Don't make your own decision first, be sure to ask the other party's opinion first. If the other party asks you to decide, don't shirk it. Otherwise, it will feel very contrived.

Don't talk about emotional or political issues as soon as you meet, and don't get into other people's personal space too quickly. People will think you have intentions.

Don't be too self-acquainted, the British are just polite and polite. If you are too enthusiastic, it will be offensive.

3. Family guests.

When you've made a British friend and you've been invited to visit, there are a few things you need to be aware of.

Brits are very thoughtful about their own space, and they don't invite people to be guests easily, unless they really treat you as a friend in their hearts, so you should pay attention to the following etiquette.

When should I get to my host's house?

Although the British are used to being punctual, it is polite to be late in this situation.

Generally, it is best to be about 10 minutes late, and it is rude to be more than 30 minutes.

So if it's not something serious, don't arrive early or on time, you go early, the host doesn't get up or is still preparing.

Well, it will be very embarrassing for the owner. Remember to apologize to the host for being late.

Do you have to prepare any gifts when you go to the host's house?

This is not deliberately required, if you go to the lady's house as a guest. Might as well bring a bouquet of flowers, which will delight the owner.

When is the right time to leave?

If you are simply invited to afternoon tea or dinner, you can say goodbye to the host about an hour after the meal. If it's too late, the host can't get a good rest, which also seems rude.

Of course, if you are invited by the host to spend the night. When you leave, remember to send back a thank you card and a gift such as chocolates as a thank you. (Although we also find it troublesome, but this is the etiquette of others, and we should respect it.) )

Table manners. The British do not use chopsticks, and the left fork and right knife are the most basic etiquette.

If you're going to a restaurant with friends and can't go straight to the vacant seats, you'll have to wait for the waiter to arrange a vacant seat for you.

Waiters won't be around you, and the British advocate respecting personal privacy.

In addition, you must not have a long mouth during meals, you must chew food with your mouth closed, and you cannot speak.

It is rude to let others see the food in your mouth.

Safety: Don't go alone at night to places like pubs or factory districts. Don't flaunt your wealth so as not to attract the attention of others.

Study: Don't plagiarize, the consequences are very serious, the citation in the homework ** must be indicated, otherwise it will be judged plagiarism.

Books: It makes sense upstairs, British books are very expensive, usually 5-600 RMB, I suggest that you can find the last class of students to buy their books after you arrive in the UK, which can be found in various regional student networks and Chinese forums. Or according to the book list given to you by the tutor, go to the library to borrow books by yourself.

In terms of etiquette, although many people in the UK do not abide by it so much, there are some basic things to pay attention to, such as not holding a knife and fork when eating, saying thank you to the bus driver when you get off the bus, and after pushing the door open, first see if there is anyone behind you, and then help them hold the door or something.

These are all detailed things, and I learned about them in 1 week after arriving in the UK.

If you have any questions, please contact me.