Why do I have so many worries, why do I have so many worries?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Are they just joking with you?If not, you might as well leave them, your world is not the same anymore. And what you say about giving gifts or not, this has reached the point of relying on material maintenance, and it is you who pay unilaterally, so you know whether this is friendship or not.

    You can socialize with them as always, but keep an eye on it, don't be so stupid, or find a circle of friends of your own, sincere people will not find friends, bless you!~

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What's so troublesome about this, it's good for such friends to ignore them directly, not your real friends, and you don't have to feel bad.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I believe you are a good person.

    Firmly believe in the concept that good people have good rewards.

    But you say that you are an honest person.

    But I would say that kindness does not equal cowardice.

    When you are bullied by others, you must be brave enough to fight with each other.

    Convince others.

    The more you behave, the more others will look down on you.

    But it's not that it's the kind of vexatious ones, it's not the kind of chicken intestines that are small-bellied.

    It is necessary to grasp the degree.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let's make things clear, otherwise it will be difficult to die without knowing it. It's a friend and not a friend Solve it all at once, there are no regrets. It would be nice to be worthy of yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    They don't treat you as a friend, and you don't have to be sad about them, you have to make them regret it, and you have to make yourself strong if you treat you honestly, and if you treat people sincerely, it's not difficult to change a group of friends, so why hang yourself on these two trees.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Tell them what you think and let them know what you think. True friends understand each other and can talk about their troubles together, not just happy together, but also bear the pain together, so that the friendship will last for a long time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The first is that you are too nice. The second is that they don't treat you as an outsider and play around with you.

    Method: Can't be a good old man. Play when you should play, and be serious when you should be serious.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Actually, these two friends of yours are just teasing you, don't care too much, sometimes, it's normal to joke, don't think about things too complicated, it's not good to take things too seriously.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm the same, whoever doesn't have troubles growing up, you just take it as a small episode in your life, and everything will pass in the future!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is definitely a misunderstanding. Since we used to be friends, let's make it clear.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    They may not treat you as a friend, and you shouldn't care too much about it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Stay away from them, it's not a friend.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, the troubles are all found by yourself, and if you want to live a happy life, don't worry too much.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Maybe you're the pistachio among them, that's why you're the whole thing.

    Probably doesn't really see you as a friend.

    Anyway, if you think about it, you'll know.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Be wise and foolish, but don't be stupid!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You don't need to care about that kind of friend. All they need is money, go find other friends! There are so many Chinese, and there are so many people around you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If the heart is small, the matter will be big, and when the heart is big, the matter will be small, and the smile will pass.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Be tough and ask them what they mean.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Is the root of our troubles ourselves? Because you are angry, it is because you are not generous enough; Depressed because you are not open-minded enough; Anxiety is because you are not calm enough;

    Sadness is because you are not strong enough; melancholy, because you are not sunny enough; Jealousy is because you are not good enough ......

    If you think about it, isn't the root cause of all these problems within ourselves?

    Let us control our desires, let ourselves learn to look down on everything, no longer be troubled and troubled by everything in the world, and our hearts will gradually become stronger. At that time, when you can look at all this with a normal mind, compassion, and a tolerant heart, how can you be troubled? The troubles are gone, the anxiety is gone, and the root of all the troubles and anxieties is actually in oneself.

    The Buddha said: Troubles have no root, do not pick up nature, confusion has no source, and do not investigate self-ease. The things of this world are just a thought.

    Let go of it freely, cling to troubles, life is a passing by, red stripes come and go, can't bring a trace of dust, can't take away a cloud. Look down, everything is a passing cloud, so why bother about it.

    Therefore, annoyance is anxiety, as long as the attitude is good, it is guaranteed that there is no annoyance.

    In such a society, there are fewer and fewer people who can be trusted with real friends and can be relied on.

    We don't trust many people anymore, and there are fewer and fewer people we can trust; And then others don't believe in us anymore, less and less believe in us, we don't believe in each other.

    In this case, there is no real friend. When there are no real friends, everyone has to face loneliness and loneliness, which are the main causes of anxiety and depression.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, we will encounter a lot of unpleasant things in life, sometimes we are in a bad mood for some reason, sometimes we don't know what the reason is very annoying, and the mood is good and bad.

    It's all very normal, everyone has such a time, it may be related to work, family, etc., thinking of things that have not achieved their ideals before, temporarily unable to let go, thinking left and right, lack of self-confidence, in short, you can't forget, but you have to let go! Let it pass when it's gone, and now what? Find a way to chat with cordial friends often, go to places to exercise in the morning and evening, climb mountains and sweat, do more things you like to do, and keep a normal heart;

    Remember: no matter how annoying you are, don't forget to smile, no matter how urgent you are, you must pay attention to your tone, no matter how bitter you are, no matter how tired you are, you must love yourself!

    You must know that there are many unfair things in the world, and all the environment requires you to change yourself first, to adapt to the environment, and never let the environment control you!

    Also, laziness is more physically draining than anything! Be sure to get rid of it!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Would love to have such a friend.

    I would love to have such a friend, when I am sad and sad, I can lean on his shoulder and cry quickly;

    I really want to have such a friend, I often receive humorous, caring, and comforting text messages from him in my spare time, so that I don't feel lonely;

    I really want to have such a friend, which can be a man or a woman, like family affection, friendship, and more than love; When he is happy, he will think that I can share with him, and when he is troubled and melancholy, he will also think of me, listen to his deep anguish, and share his pain together;

    When you go out to eat, drink tea, and go shopping, you won't forget to call each other. When I am tired from work, I occasionally invite a few other friends to go to the neighborhood for a walk, outing, and barbecue;

    When he is lonely and hesitating, you can call me at any time to accompany him, talk about his heart, can make him feel relaxed, when he is in pain and can't extricate himself, he can let go of his usual chic, dignity and strength, cry loudly in front of me, when he is sad and crying, I can really soothe his injured heart, he will find his confidence because of my encouragement, so as to live positively and work hard. Let me see that he is a sunny, charismatic person. If he can't say anything to his lover or colleagues, he can talk to me, and I am his confidant who has nothing to say.

    I haven't seen each other for a long time, I will miss each other, I will send a text message of concern, we have our own lives, his family and lover can be my friends, we can come and go as often as relatives and friends.

    I would love to have such a friend who can feel happy with each other, comfort, understand and tolerate each other. We are sincere, pure, and very good friends!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    1.Less desire, 2Less mentality of comparison, 3The psychology of contentment and happiness is more.

    4.Mindset balance point, 5Live according to your abilities and don't let other people's living conditions dictate your mood.

    6.Change what can be changed, accept what can't be changed. Don't lose yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because of this, scientific principles, astronomy and geography...

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