We quarreled and broke up, I want everyone to calm down, I don t know if it will change, how long sh

Three months, if you want to change, three months is enough, and you can form a stable habit.

Since both people want to calm down, then give him time to calm down, a month at most, and no one is obliged to always wait for the other person in the same place? If he has you in his heart, he will take the initiative to contact you, and if he no longer contacts you, then you put it down and look for someone who really cares about you and likes you.

I think if he has separated, I think she may not change, if he really loves you, he may think about the problem between you is to change to keep you, if he doesn't come to stay, it can only mean that he is separated from you by default and doesn't want to be with you.

Since you have broken up, let's wait for him for a month, if the two parties have not reunited in this month, then separate completely, which means that the two of you are not suitable.

If you quarrel and break up, if the relationship between the two of you is deep, he will come to you in about three days at most.

I think it will take about a week or two before the cooling-off period is over, so you should have a good talk after that.

How long you have to wait for him, it depends on his performance, if he hasn't changed, then you don't have to wait for him, if he changes you can get back together.

I think you should still wait for him, because now you are in a bad mood, so you should still calm down in time, mainly after calming down and thinking about this thing completely, or completely unraveling this contradiction, and slowly you can still be together.

I think it should be Brother Dong for a few days, if he still doesn't. If the problem is solved, I think it is okay to break up as soon as possible.

The cooling-off period should not exceed two days, otherwise, everyone will get used to the days without each other, and it will be really cool.

If that's the case, I suggest that you don't need to, if you break up and let the other person calm down, this will really hurt feelings, so when you two are arguing, one person calms down and may solve the problem.

There are two possible scenarios for this, the first possibility is that you break up completely after you quarrel and break up. Calm down and feel inappropriate? There is also a possibility that maybe he really felt that he was wrong and corrected it.

I think it's normal to quarrel, but it has to be resolved thoroughly, otherwise it will happen more often.

Quarrels happen a lot, but everyone has to think about it and calm down, but don't take it too long, it's not good. This morning, the two of them made things clear and reconciled in person.

He insisted on breaking up. Do you think the other party will turn back? is impossible, you should not wait for him, you should start your own life.

There's no need to wait, you're good to go, and see what he does.

Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not. What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what you really inscribe in your heart.

Well, it seems that you broke up because of a quarrel, so I think that if you want to get back together, you must first change the temper and personality of the two of you.

This situation will occur when two people have been together for a long time, and they quarrel at every turn, because the shortcomings of the two people are completely exposed to each other, and there is nothing to hide from each other.

You guys quarreled and broke up, you want everyone to calm down, I don't know if it will change, and I don't know how long you can wait? How long to wait depends on your mood, as long as you all figure it out, the problem will be solved.

A man who says a breakup is a real breakup, unlike a woman who says a breakup, just scaring and scaring him, this time it seems that the chance of being able to get back together is relatively small.

Generally, if a couple quarrels and wants to calm down, this kind of three or five days is fine, and you wait for him for three or five days. How is it to see him?

You guys are quarreling and breaking up, you want everyone to calm down, I don't know if it will change, how long are you going to wait for her? Under normal circumstances, it is difficult to go back once the cooling-off period has passed.

We quarreled and broke up, I want everyone to calm down, I don't know if it will change how long I have to wait for him, probably I think the time to look at the specific thing, of course, not for a long time, at least three months. Pursue.

Once they break up because of a quarrel, I think the two of them will definitely have regrets, because what they said at that time may be because they are angry.

If you feel very miserable and unhappy because you are together, you can calm down and think about whether you want to be together.

I think that since he has already said that he has broken up, it is better to put it aside for the time being, and talk about it after a while.

Then you quarrel and break up, if he doesn't take the initiative to contact you, I think there should be a result in a week or so.

I just want to calm down for a while, so after calming down, I still have to communicate, and communication can solve the problem.

There is no couple in the world who does not quarrel, and after a couple quarrels, they react very much, that is, a cold war, ignoring both parties and letting each other calm down, which may lead to a cooling relationship.

Cold War Couple Solution: Be silent if necessary.

First of all, not all quarrels you have to speak out, when you see the other person start to lose control of their emotions, you can first remain silent, let the other party vent, you can then say your own thoughts, let the other party know what he thinks.

Let everyone calm down, but don't play the trick of slamming the door and leaving, which is a very evasive and negative practice.

Choose to be calm: many times quarrels or cold wars may be because of some trivial things, even some commonplace things in life, for men are unwilling to quarrel about these little things, as a woman also needs to calm down at this time, don't behave so domineering, calmly think about the origin of this trivial matter, whether there is a need for this quarrel or even a cold war.

Seek communication: When your mood is relieved, you can try to find the other party to communicate, there is no deep hatred between husband and wife or lovers, whether it is the other party's fault or their own fault, let it pass, and their own initiative will always occupy the dominant position.

If two people develop to the point of Cold War, this will be even more detrimental to the resolution of the contradiction, and even if the two people reconcile afterwards, then there will be shadows in the hearts of both sides, and there will be great hidden dangers for the next contradiction resolution. After every Cold War, the woman will gradually develop a sense of insecurity, and the man will gradually ignore the woman's feelings, which is extremely detrimental to maintaining the relationship between two people.

Want to find out why you broke up? I didn't find the reason, and I'm going to make trouble next time! Is it a matter of character or an attitude towards life, who is right and who is wrong, and who keeps making trouble with mistakes?

Two people should tolerate each other together, unless there is a problem of principle, that is, a problem that exceeds the moral bottom line, everything else can be discussed! No one is above anyone, only equality between people can communicate better!

Now many lovers mention breaking up at every turn, in fact, this is a particularly hurtful sentence, until one day it is really a wolf, it is normal to be noisy and noisy in life because of trivial things, but the most important thing is how to communicate and resolve contradictions, rather than gambling with each other, otherwise the relationship between two people will have problems sooner or later, I hope you can release the previous suspicion and reconcile as before!

It's useless not to be calm! You must calm down and think about it. That is to say, to see if the calm stage will be good for each other, each of them will recognize the problem, and then get back together.

If you don't recognize the faults, problems, triggers...Why? and so on. I can't reflect on it.

It's just that cool. Hah, isn't it? ......Be mindful!

Boyfriend and girlfriend, being able to quarrel is not a bad thing. Because the condition for being able to quarrel is that men and women themselves feel that both sides are equal. The question is, what do you think after a fight? How do you do that? Because after the quarrel, both sides should be calm.

When they quarrel, they are angry. It's normal to have no good words. The quarrel is over.

You keep telling each other to give each other a chance. He said last night. Let's calm down for a while!

This exchange, mentally, you yourself feel that you are a bit excessive. But yours thinks you're going too far. This is, of course, because you "used to say that he was not good at this and that was not good."

You blindly belittle him like this, it's just trying to elevate yourself. But you don't know that you don't have to lift yourself up. Who can grab their lack of hair and lift themselves up?

You say here, "He has done so many things for you, and you remember them all." "Really? I'm sure you do remember a lot of the things he did for you.

But it's not in my heart, I really don't believe it. Because if it's really in your heart, then you shouldn't say it and let him know. What good things he has done for you.

What do you think about these good things? But you don't say anything. Then only you know.

You can see in the text or in the sedan car that you like him. You're afraid of losing him. Believe.

Yours he also knows this. That's why the two of you were able to fight. The reason why he is snubbing you now.

I just want you to think about how you two should respect each other.

The last thing I want to tell you. It's not terrible to quarrel, it's terrible to break up. When there is a quarrel, it becomes the norm to break up. Can you keep your balance? In the end, it's hard to say.

In fact, I personally feel that when I break up, try to calm down as much as possible. Don't Lu Zao care too much about the other party's thoughts, if you do this, it will backfire, he will become more and more disgusted, and in the best case, it will be two people. Think about your own problems, solve them slowly, and stop them in time.

In fact, I think that since the other party has already said to calm down and be respectful, then Shoufang should give him some time to be cautious and let him think about it in time. There is no need to tell each other what he thinks in his heart every day, he already knows it.

Don't post. I quarreled with filial piety, and calming down can make people's hearts calm and not so angry. If you keep holding on to your spine, it will play ***.

He is just annoyed that the bridge is careless, and he wants to calmly consider your relationship with Min Stool.

If you can't wait, just break up.

If you love each other, give each other a chance!

Summary. He chose to live with his friend and let you live outside with a girl, so your boyfriend is not responsible at all.

I had a quarrel with my boyfriend, and he said that after a few days of separation, calm down with each other, think about it, and come back.

What is the reason for the quarrel?

I just went back to take the east cherry blossoms, he was very annoying, and he was angry at me, he said that I was sick, thinking about it every day, and said that he was most annoyed to hang up ** in sending him a lot of messages, there was something to do with the spine rolling code** can't be said ah, prepare for the cherry blossoms I yesterday because he asked his friend to come to live at home, and then let me go to the dormitory to live, so I quarreled with him.

Bao, are you particularly insecure, as long as he is not around, you will be cranky if you don't tell you what he is doing or that he is slow to reply to messages?

But he also did something wrong, after all, you are a couple, even if a friend comes to live in your house, he should tell you in advance that it will be late, and the two of you will discuss it and see what the other party's thoughts are like Brother Yingdan.

Either he goes out with you or his friends go out to live, it's as simple as that, but he doesn't have a choice either.

He chose to live with his friend and let you live outside with a girl, so your boyfriend is not responsible at all.

He called me to discuss, I agreed at the time, and then the more I thought about it, the more unhappy I became, and then I sent him a lot of Huai Na messages, which annoyed him, and today I went back to get something and he was resting, and then I quarreled with him in the stall, and he said don't make trouble, and then he was in a hurry to let me roll the lead stupid code, I picked up something and left.

He also said what to do with the clothes, and I said that I would take two pairs of pants, and he thought that I would not come back with my things, and said that I would take them all.

He said that after two days of separation, I figured it out and came back, and I would not go back.

Baozi, this and this ......

I do feel sorry and aggrieved for you.

But he told you in advance, but you agreed and repented.

What he means is that the two of you are angry now, so calm down from each other for the time being, and think about what is wrong.

He said let me figure it out and go back.

What he said for you to understand is: I have already told you about this matter in advance, and you have agreed, I have told others, but you regretted it again.

Got it. Is this something wrong with me?

Bao, let's just consider the issue of China Fiber from a different angle, for example, he promised you one thing, and the two of them discussed it, but he regretted it later, and you will definitely be unhappy when you read Pei Answer.

Falling in love requires mutual understanding and more from the other party's point of view.